How Do You Overcome Trials?

   I listen to a hell of a lot of music. Sometimes one just can't help but think about negative things and problems. That's why I listen to music almost constantly, at least to distract me a little. From experience I can say that time heals everything, we just have to experience what happened in one way or another, it has already happened and it is a fact. We can't change it. * Syndrome

   Congratulations, I really liked the topic, it's a pity that no more people wrote. Everyone reacts differently to unpleasant moments in life. Some are silent, others are crying, some are drinking, others are beating, swearing, not sleeping. I have experienced many difficulties. The only thing that strengthens me is the thought that these moments will harden my character, will make me stronger, more experienced. And the thought of being alone. When I know that I am alone, I know that I have to cope on my own and no one else is able to solve my problem or help me. When I know that I have the support of someone, I seem to relax and give up very easily. I support number 1, time really heals a lot of wounds and changes a lot of people, but there must be some events, some development. If you stand still and focus only on something, no matter how much time passes, something is unlikely to change. In the situations themselves, in most cases I like to be alone, loneliness and calmness allow me to focus on the problem and come up with some options to solve it. I rarely feel the need for someone's support, but if I do feel it is overwhelmingly strong. And for the most difficult moment, when you think about it, one stands out, but it is too personal even for an anonymous site. I just kept it to myself. When something very bad happens to me - I cry (not always), I pour myself a big drink (possibly a strong one), light a heavy cigarette, play my favorite music and just repeat to myself that I have to cope or invent something. I don't like talking about my problems with someone else. If someone doesn't insist on telling me what's going on with me, I'll never be the first to look for a trash can. I also don't like people who start calling friends and bothering them about the slightest problem. Now I am even annoyed by the women who call me to go out and roar about how someone lied to them or how they quarreled with someone. In my opinion, everyone should cope on their own and learn to be a little more self-disciplined, strong and focused - this is the way to overcome any ordeal. Once again - congratulations on the topic. Bad

   I started the topic because I recently came to the conclusion, at least in my life, that the most important thing is just not to give up. Whatever happens, if you sit it is unlikely to pass and yes, one of the most important things as number 2 said is self-discipline. This has a huge effect, I just can't describe how much if a person stops apologizing and showing discipline. I also really like people to roar on my shoulder, and for some little thing in my eyes - for example, my girlfriend left them, or something that does not lead immediately to the end of life. There are no insurmountable trials as long as one shows the will to get rid of them. For me, perhaps one of the strongest moments was when I realized that I was really alone in this world ... but not in this depressing way, but that I was just alone and did not need to expect help from elsewhere, because I had to to handle.