The title speaks for itself. I had a story with one person that lasted 3 months. 3 months of mixed signals, of showing interest on her part and the next moment of withdrawal. Just when I was giving up and forgetting her and saying to myself, "Well, it's not going to happen, I'd better move on," she was reappearing in my life in some way — or we'd meet at university and look at me. smiling, talking to me, or writing to each other on social media. Twice I invited her out - and 2 times dumb rulers. And so until yesterday, when I decided to take a step at a party where we were together. And he pushed me away for good. Ok, I understand that we will not be together. But ... it hurts the hell again! Because for 3 months I have feelings and illusions and expectations that something would happen with this person. I feel hurt, without anything really happening between us. Without having a relationship. I know she likes women too, so if anyone comments on the topic now, that's not the problem. He just doesn't like me. And I have to accept it and move on, but I feel disgusted. I just wanted to share and ask you how do you deal with rejection by a person with whom nothing has happened? F 22g
1 ktitsnjass2020 answered
By indulging in anger completely. I do not suppress all malice, rage, anger and hatred. I just let it show. I go through all the phases. From this "Who does he think of?" "To" Why doesn't he want me? "" To "" He doesn't deserve me ": You just give in to hate for as long as you need to. However, this affects the ego a lot. Especially when you realize that he has chosen a muffin or one much above his level financially or physically. That is, he has exceeded his capabilities and chosen one in appearance. You suffer him properly. After a while he realizes how fucked up he was that you were the better choice. At the moment one left me for a muffin and is already sorry, he complained to me about it. because he dropped me because of a poor replacement. The key to dealing with it is just to indulge in anger, to hold on to nothing.