How Do You Overcome Rejection?

The Story

The title speaks for itself. I had a story with one person that lasted 3 months. 3 months of mixed signals, of showing interest on her part and the next moment of withdrawal. Just when I was giving up and forgetting her and saying to myself, "Well, it's not going to happen, I'd better move on," she was reappearing in my life in some way — or we'd meet at university and look at me. smiling, talking to me, or writing to each other on social media. Twice I invited her out - and 2 times dumb rulers. And so until yesterday, when I decided to take a step at a party where we were together. And he pushed me away for good. Ok, I understand that we will not be together. But ... it hurts the hell again! Because for 3 months I have feelings and illusions and expectations that something would happen with this person. I feel hurt, without anything really happening between us. Without having a relationship. I know she likes women too, so if anyone comments on the topic now, that's not the problem. He just doesn't like me. And I have to accept it and move on, but I feel disgusted. I just wanted to share and ask you how do you deal with rejection by a person with whom nothing has happened? F 22g

Last Updated
September 28, 2020
Author:
canellha

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