Hi. I'm playing this theme, not only because I'm curious about what others think, but also because I need to know some female tricks and primates. :) I'm a girl 16, for the record. So how do I manipulate a man? How do I command him finely? How do you even communicate with men? What am I supposed to do, and what not? I'd appreciate it if you could give me any advice! I can't talk to my mother and my friends about these things. And I'm too shy. And when I write "manipulate," I don't mean to manipulate in a bad way.
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jadelove_ answered · June 13, 2020
They manipulate the underdog girls/women who have nothing to impress and retain a man. You know what I mean. ;)
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verysmall2 answered · June 13, 2020
As much as you manipulate, at some point you feel like you're being tricked. You can't hide it for a long time. Men are not as simple as you think, however we think with the lower heads. (or at least those who respect themselves). And a self-respecting man, does he understand that you're manipulating him, or he's going to go to the other end, or he's going to hurt you. That's the kind of thing that would put up with a single loo. If you want a loo, manipulate. If you want a man on the spot, just be honest and open. Manipulating trust and connection does not build for long.
In one relationship, there is no openness, sincerity, acceptance of the other and communication, nothing is built.
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amberwinters answered · June 13, 2020
I'm a man, and the first woman who wanted to manipulate me was my mother when I was a kid. I was very stubborn, and when I had decided something, I didn't back down. Once we had argued about something and I naturally did not influence and it was past time, so I had forgotten it. So we walk down the street and meet some teachers who teach me. And all of a sudden, in a wedge, we're in a sleeve, and she's talking to me out loud - "So now you're going to do what you are... "when you thought i wouldn't answer it out of shame. But I told her there was no way that would happen at all. Then the teachers commented on how I could respond to my mother like that. Twenty years later, a girl wanted to force me to go to a disco with all their company. She knows me and knows that I don't want to go to places like this at all, so she decided to put the question out loud in front of the entire table of party men: "You're coming with us too, aren't you? ". And I'm like, "NO!" and they followed unbelieving grimaces from everyone, because who's not like them is clogged up, and I didn't hesitate to say no at all. That's the main thing that women act with - to push you unexpectedly in front of other people so you find it uncomfortable to say no. It doesn't work for me. The other way to manipulate someone is with your dick, but it also depends on how much they want you, and over time it acts less and less, because the man becomes emotionally more experienced, sexually more saturated, and the woman becomes older and more familiar.
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goddessjasminuk answered · June 13, 2020
Here is another mother-to-be on the horizon who will pop into selfies and teach them how to manipulate. Immediately everyone on their knees in front of her and a nomination for the Order "Stara Planina"
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bradvalentine answered · June 13, 2020
Here is another mother-to-be on the horizon who will pop into selfies and teach them how to manipulate. Immediately everyone on their knees in front of her and a nomination for the Order "Stara Planina"
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aqua_bella answered · June 14, 2020
Well, very easy. Obviously...
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bezza_1 answered · June 15, 2020
Ask the Russians, they are queens in manipulating men.
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jaxxxmodel answered · June 15, 2020
I read your comment, and once again I'm convinced of how the right decision I've made never to marry and never allow myself to love any woman.
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amelia_c answered · June 15, 2020
I fully support the first two comments.
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lil_daddys_princess answered · June 16, 2020
First of all, you have to be friends with him, trust each other, and from there on the other, all the questions you solve them jointly. Like he loves you, he respects you. You're a good one, too. That's it.
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florpim007 answered · June 16, 2020
At 16, she started thinking about how to manipulate a man. Learn how to make him happy, not manipulate him.
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1johnjack1 answered · June 16, 2020
I think the author didn't exactly express herself, she looks at girls around her who have boyfriends and tell lauded stories, what they got and where they went and what men do for them.
How can a man or woman please his partner a lot? It happens when he's in love, then you don't see flaws in her mate and everything she does and wants is almost as perfect as she does. After a while, these initial strong feelings pass, or the partner gets tired and things fall apart.
First of all, to be a good "player" you need to know your real price and be able to protect yourself from the numbers. They're very stubborn, they know what to tell you, so you feel good, meaningful, single, etc. and then get you to bed. But even if it happens, you don't have to look negatively at things you've had experience and sex you've done.
To have a person by your side and make him feel good, you have to be a good psychologist, that is, give him something he needs. My guy is a big dude, he works, not that I don't, he's pretty smart, but somehow he lacks confidence, I try to support him and not stress him out and he feels sobre. When I treat him well and he does things for me that make me feel happy, loved, cared for, etc.
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doucement answered · June 17, 2020
Learn to write right first. It's a hell of a hell, not a hell of a... Manipulating someone is a sign of infantile or personal disorder in a more extreme case. Don't mess with. You need to learn about interpersonal relationships, not manipulation. There are psychologists' books. From your mother and my friends to learn another stupidity by listening to you so far what they taught you.
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buckinghamuk answered · June 17, 2020
As a man, I can tell you that very few women nowadays know and can manipulate a man in a good way. They have problems communicating, they can't properly express their emotions about what's left to manipulate. Manipulation can only occur when a woman is feminine, most women today are not like that, today women are male, who want to be self-sufficient and do not comply with anyone, they argue, try to impose themselves and pout, there is no subtlety, no flattery. Explore the net "the art of femininity". Femininity requires softness rather than applying solid strength and persistence, these are masculine traits.
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pinkyobarbie answered · June 17, 2020
First of all, you need an education, there's nothing more disgusting than a stupid, illiterate woman! That's most of the muffins you're trying to emulate. With lower tricks, you're not going to get anything, the most you're going to do. The only way to turn a liked man's head is with wit and galness, become a real woman, not a muffin!
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taniapervert_ answered · June 17, 2020
With sex are manipulated, healthy, powerful sex haha :D
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lilymizzmilf answered · June 18, 2020
If you don't come across someone from slapping you. To see how it's handled!
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franks_91_ answered · June 18, 2020
With these thoughts of life, you're going to be chewing on the tree soon, and it's very thick...
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hereforpussy222 answered · June 18, 2020
There's no manipulation in a good way. Maybe you mean make him appreciate you. If you're a woman on the spot, and if she's the right person, she'il appreciate you.
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anorsel answered · June 18, 2020
quickly, and you greet him with a supposedly "faithful" smile on his face and a kiss. Take advantage of his male ego and his inability to accept NO for an answer,cheat him with pretending, theatre and acting to make him think he's achieved his goal, and in fact you're going to have achieved his goal, and he won't even have realized it.
In short, as one wise woman said, "learn to touch with velvet gloves and you will achieve everything, and your husband will not even understand exactly how you designed it, and he will even be convinced that it was his idea. "
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mndl26 answered · June 18, 2020
You can only manipulate a man if you're five times smarter than him and be very beautiful. Even if you are, he'il pretend to be manipulated while you're sexually enjoying it. Then you'il feel manipulated in the relationship. Besides, a girl of 16 doesn't think about how to manipulate men, she hasn't grown up intellectually yet to get her ideas. I think it's the subject of an elderly woman who likes to portray herself as a girl. And for her aDC shyness, we've already heard many times.
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sugah_rush answered · June 19, 2020
The man is easy to manipulate, a primary animal, following his sexual drive, he is stronger than reason and heart, and when he sees some sexy, beautiful, mean chick on the street, loses her mind and word, loses his sanity and returns to his primal instincts, ready to impress her with everything she can think of. The man thinks inert, straight and simple. Just give him something to hold on to, and he'il fall for it. When he forbids you, you seemingly agree with him, polish his self-esteem, praise him, tell him what he wants to hear, let him think he's won. And when he turns his back, you do it. He goes to work with other men, cheat on him, he brings lovers home when he's at work all day, and you're supposed to get beat up by housework, cooking, washing, cleaning, and you've actually lived your life... And exactly half an hour before yours comes home, you conveniently chase the lover, and you put the half-ready frozen dinner from the store in the microwave, and greet him with a supposedly "faithful" smile on his face and a kiss. Take advantage of his male ego and his inability to accept NO for an answer, he deceives him with pretending, theatre and acting to make him think that he has achieved his, and in fact you will have achieved his goal, and he will not even have realized it.
In short, as one wise woman said, " learn to touch with velvet gloves and you will achieve everything, and your husband will not even understand exactly how you designed it, and he will even be convinced that it was his idea. ".
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amateurdick323 answered · June 19, 2020
Can you explain to us why you think men should be manipulated? They're not stupid, and frankly it's a shame to know that someone is doing something not because they love and respect you, but because you're so cunning and you've manipulated it. What prevents you from speaking directly and openly, saying what you want, trusting each other, sharing ideas, discussing what you want together, conforming to each other? For me, people who want to control this way don't know what love is.
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merasquitalot answered · June 19, 2020
With French love and sex. This works flawlessly.
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cherrylavander69 answered · June 19, 2020
Smart (and they're successful in life) men don't let them manipulate... You drag (reading your post) you can "manipulate" a boy working at a car wash. Keep in mind that there are already working students who "bring someone and another lev"... A smart, successful man to manipulate him, you have to be very beautiful or very smart... The other is... someone who's "polishing his ego" with some punk. You're young! Life is ahead of you! Make up your mind!
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leederrek23 answered · June 20, 2020
I'm manipulating mine with sex. He's going wild for joy when he finds out I'm going to let him go, and then he's willing to do anything for me, no arrangements. For someone, it might be simple, but it works.
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akira_xx answered · June 20, 2020
Just love him, that's all! No man can resist sincere love-filled women's eyes, and because of these eyes he will go to the end of the world. Respect his work, be his loyal friend and stable partner, and he will carry you on his hands. Yes, men are easy - they just want honest relationships and highly appreciate that.
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sexypauline answered · June 20, 2020
Up the ass.
It's Bratan.
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fuchsias answered · June 20, 2020
What an interesting approach to provocation. You're already manipulating readers to pay attention to you, knowing that there will be frequent male, malevolent feminists, and there will be another wild argument.
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joha_lee9 answered · June 20, 2020
Hey, 25, your example of lovers at home shows that there's no more primitive animal than you.
If you don't fix your wrong thinking, you're going to have crocodile tears. Be careful not to get into the cold-place of the oven. Lol.
And you girl, 16, learn her lessons and go to play sports if you don't want to be 30 and have a bag.
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tiny_lovers answered · June 21, 2020
A man is easy to manipulate, especially if he wants sex. Just notice how many men give money to their girlfriends for clothes, breaks, shoes, etc. just because they're dependent on her body and don't want to be dry. I don't approve of it, but I do. But she doesn't leave her, why? Either she's got a nice body, she's good in bed, or he doesn't have to try to get another one. And that's why she complains about how much she spends, where she wants to lead it, but she doesn't do anything about it and let it be used.
A woman, if she is smart enough, will not be able to manipulate a man in the bad sense of the word, but to incite him to develop, to improve something in herself. By praising him, encouraging, throwing ideas, offering, encouraging him. But if he sees this as interference and imposition, it can't happen. I've offered to develop my hobby, try this job, do something together, but when I meet a wall across the street, it doesn't work. And that's the best of intentions to say, simply because the person given had the potential for something, but it was not inicative. But when he stumbles, it doesn't work.
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coreyanddrew1 answered · June 21, 2020
But when you write "adCki," i guess that's what you mean...
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bigslick08 answered · June 21, 2020
At 16, you already know how to manipulate men.
When little boys play soldiers, little girls learn how to manipulate people. At that age, you're an expert.
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magic_kendra answered · June 21, 2020
People, while you're dealing with this kind of nonsense, your life is going to run out of life, you're going to get old and you're not going to really live, and you're going to have to play stupid games. Then you'll look back with regret about the missed opportunities, but it's too late.
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kimberlynnhaven answered · June 21, 2020
Instead of sitting down to study, you ask how to manipulate men. What kind of woman is going to get out of you one day?!
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fairylightz answered · June 22, 2020
Girl, mind your lessons, you're illiterate. When the time comes, you'il find out what nonsense you've written here.
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dulce_desire answered · June 22, 2020
First, it's because manipulation by an illiterate woman equals a country woman! It's spelled correctly: hellish, fiNo, I mean!
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kittiliza answered · June 22, 2020
Why don't you just love him and you have to manipulate him? I'm a girl of 17, and I don't know how many of these things are yet , but I've been engaged for two years and I've never manipulated him and I haven't done a baby all the time and we've had a great relationship.' If you want a good relationship with the person next to you, show him and give him love, don't do it on ass... wtf ,girl , but i'm not sure when I don't understand you.:D
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kirikiss answered · June 22, 2020
At 16, I don't know who you're going to manipulate. :D Laughter.
Be honest and honest with people if you want to fight back. It's about friendships, and relationships, and for the most part.
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pink_pussy_princess answered · June 22, 2020
A 36-year-old woman. I am, and I want to tell you that with this thinking and catching a decent man, you will not keep him in your life.
Now you're a teen, you're forgiven for asking all kinds of stupid questions. In a few years and a failed relationship, you're going to have a good time, what exactly do you ask? Manipulating a man is not difficult, it's easy, but it's very easy to know too!? You ask to manipulate him, well, he'il know after more time, but he'il know. Now you want to exert some influence over a little boy, in time you will fall in love, but with this occasion you will hurt yourself. My words must be in vain, but to tell myself...
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monicaquintero answered · June 22, 2020
About 3: And to me, the first woman to try to manipulate me was my mother. And I was stubborn, only instead of letting me build a character by answering it when she was visibly trying to manipulate me, splitting my lips with slippers or slapping me with a palm that turned blue on my face. That's what she did when she didn't like that she couldn't even manipulate her little boy. Growing up, I started mentally bullying because I couldn't physically, and by the time I moved out of the house, I had already visited 2-3 times an ambulance and went around hospitals to tell me what was wrong with me. , but he caught me tired and left me with a mental scar. Now women don't want to manipulate me and be sincere, I've already guessed where this attitude can lead and respond in a way like yours and get offended or run away. At 30, I'm hard to trust people, I've had one boyfriend and only had sex one time.
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hot_sexy_couplexx answered · June 23, 2020
The girl didn't mean manipulation in that nasty sense. Manipulation as one in which a man showeres you with gifts, financial benefits, does as he is told, etc. Rather, it makes sense in how to be desirable, liked, sought after, interesting for the opposite sex. Honey, getting on yours, looking for you, and that kind of thing doesn't depend on looks and some particular style of behavior. I don't even think you should be a super sexual fury. You're either born with him or you're not. I'm a grown woman now, but I never got to, I manipulate, . I don't look bad, I'm intelligent, I'm in a good profession, but I'm going to be a jerk. With sex, I tried to see if it would work. I've trained myself on a lot of techniques, but it's not working. With a certain style of behavior, I tried it, too. I was both inaccessible and supportive, and aggressive, and loving, and the perfect housewife. Nothing again. I'm the same jerk. I'm being manipulated. I guess I'm not going to be that woman in this life. And that's what I want for a day.
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marrie_ answered · June 23, 2020
47 to feel sorry for you...?
You've been a lot of things, but maybe not in the right place in front of the right people, do I know...
She's got a good look at what's going on with the author and, as an older woman, she's been through this road, she's shown her what to expect! It's not an easy job and it's not for everyone!
My advice is to pay more attention to which men you are with and what your love is for them!
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christy__evans answered · June 23, 2020
Thank you to everyone who talks about true love, now I understand that I didn't really believe in it, but some of you are giving me back my faith.
Thanks <3
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jaytay33 answered · June 23, 2020
A man is seen as a dog, you feed him, you keep him on a freer occasion, and then you let him go.
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watchmefuc answered · June 23, 2020
You're still 16 years old. And don't mess with shit!
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knkycpl5944 answered · June 23, 2020
The word "manipulation" is always in a negative sense: getting someone to do something you want, but it's to their detriment.
The positive word is "influence": to convince someone that perhaps your solution to a problem would have a desired result.
There is very good information, on the subject, in the book "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen Covey. Here are some quotes:
"When two people come together with the Win-Lose mentality, the result will be Lose-Lose." ... "Anything less than Win-Win in interdependent reality is a compromise that reflects long-term relationships. "
"People want to be understood. And no matter how much time you put into this endeavor, it will come back to you with interest. "
"Insecure people think the world should fit into their paradigms. "