Unfortunately, many people of both sexes are selfish. They want to receive and do not see if and how much they give of themselves. If one gives a lot, the other becomes lazy. My recipe is for both to give for their partner, for the children, and for themselves. At the beginning of a relationship, if a man holds on to a woman, he will spare no effort and resources for her. He will spend money, time, help her and take an interest in her life. He will look for her, he will want to be present in her life. He will want to start a family. A normal man will do that. But there are also insane people, there are all kinds of complexes, over time things change very often. Many unhappy women say that was not the case in the beginning. Women should also make an effort to keep their husbands happy. The man as well as the woman should have time for themselves. My husband likes to play football once a week, likes to train after work. I like to go shopping, I also spend time on sports, I also spend time on hairstyles and make-up. When we manage to go out as a family, I spend more time preparing, and he takes care of himself and the child. If it slows down, it starts a vacuum cleaner, for example. She takes great care to be calm and to feel like a woman, not to be overwhelmed with housework. He takes care of me when I'm sick, which is proof that he loves me. Take care of the child who is mine from a previous marriage. He calls me on the phone the day he is at work and says he can't help but hear me for a long time. I can list many examples of my husband, for me he is the most wonderful and caring man and father. We are planning a wedding and waiting for our baby to be born. He does so many things for me that sometimes I think he deserves more. But I don't know what else to give him, I gave him everything, he says that I am his best friend and he wants nothing more than to raise our children and educate them well. I think that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain. that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain. that a woman should try to look good in front of her husband, even when she is sitting at home and only he sees her. She must seduce him, caress his ego, never criticize him, admire him. His husband's wings sprout, he becomes a super me, ready for anything for his beloved. The man must feel valued and important. You have to fit sexually. Happiness depends on the efforts of both, but we women very often look at the man under a magnifying glass, find flaws, do not support him and then complain.
1 mavericksmanner answered
Most of all, you will understand this - if he makes sacrifices for you, if he frees up his time to be with you, he misses important events for him, to be with you, to travel thousands of kilometers, just to see you as and those little gestures he makes for you. Remember important dates from your relationship, remember various events from a long time ago. Does he do that - know 100% that he loves you. I hope life meets you with a nice and good man for you, I hope it happens quickly, because they are disappearing. Fate knows its job.