Hello. For some time I have been trying to find a girlfriend and I have focused on the age group 23-29, which I consider the most suitable for my age (around 30). One problem is that it doesn't work. The other problem is that I last had a girlfriend 8 years ago. Before we became boyfriends, we were 17-20. Then I was much more creative and able to flirt. I am no longer. Maybe I'm not, because it's easier to flirt with a 16-17-18 year old girl than with a 23-25-27. The other possibility is that I just don't know how to do it with older girls. I am aware that the smaller ones are looking for more fun and the bigger ones for security. From here, I conclude again that either I look like an insecure man or I don't know how to pretend to be. I live alone on the floor of a house and work a stable job. I do not have a car. In face and body I am not who knows what, but this is hardly the main problem. So .. How do I flirt with girls who are over 22-23 years old, have completed their education or have a stable work experience? These are the main criteria that tell me that I will be able to rely on it. What should I tell them? Or not to talk much, but to take them to different places, after a short flirtation? How to act? I met a girl at 27 online, we wrote a little and a month later we went out. Then again - a month and going out, but in the end nothing happened. Maybe I was wrong not to start over with the personal questions "What are you looking for?", Etc.
It doesn't bother me that I'm wrong, it's even better because I'm learning. I tolerate criticism, give boldly. have they completed their education or have a stable work experience? These are the main criteria that tell me that I will be able to rely on it. What should I tell them? Or not to talk much, but to take them to different places, after a short flirtation? How to act? I met a girl at 27 online, we wrote a little and a month later we went out. Then again - a month and going out, but in the end nothing happened. Maybe I was wrong not to start over with the personal questions "What are you looking for?", Etc. It doesn't bother me that I'm wrong, it's even better because I'm learning. I tolerate criticism, give boldly. have they completed their education or have a stable work experience? These are the main criteria that tell me that I will be able to rely on it. What should I tell them? Or not to talk much, but to take them to different places, after a short flirtation? How to act? I met a girl at 27 online, we wrote a little and a month later we went out. Then again - a month and going out, but in the end nothing happened. Maybe I was wrong not to start over with the personal questions "What are you looking for?", Etc. It doesn't bother me that I'm wrong, it's even better because I'm learning. I tolerate criticism, give boldly. but in the end nothing happened. Maybe I was wrong not to start over with the personal questions "What are you looking for?", Etc. It doesn't bother me that I'm wrong, it's even better because I'm learning. I tolerate criticism, give boldly. but in the end nothing happened. Maybe I was wrong not to start over with the personal questions "What are you looking for?", Etc. It doesn't bother me that I'm wrong, it's even better because I'm learning. I tolerate criticism, give boldly.
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You have rightly felt that after one age women start looking for much more stable partners en masse. Not having a car can be a problem for some women, but there are certainly some for whom it doesn't matter so much if you compensate in other areas. After all, there is no universal recipe - as women are different, so each recipe is different. But there are basic principles - a well-maintained appearance with clothes that they enjoy; confidence in behavior and, accordingly, confidence in voice, gait, etc .; desire to lead as a whole and not to be led; a sense of humor ... and here we start with the personal attitude: it is important to be interested in it. Women are even more narcissistic than men by birth and they like it when others are interested in them and when they notice details (for example, notice what her earrings are like, how she is dressed, etc.) ... It is important to attend the meeting, not to be somewhere mentally. If necessary, meditate. Keep in mind that there are often women on the sites who have problems communicating, bonding, and men in general. And I've dated women on sites - including those who at 35 haven't had serious relationships yet. The very behavior of the woman shows that she is still crazy and is not looking for a serious man, although she claims the opposite. She goes to a disco to get drunk and push. Then she complains that the men were only looking for sex and therefore she was not engaged. Just as there are men who run away from commitment and talk about how bad women are, so there are women who also run away, subconsciously, from commitment and talk about how there were no decent men. That's why it's important not to get so depressed if you don't get one, but to move on. He also draws conclusions about his behavior from the meetings. Give yourself feedback.