Like when I'm without a man. What kind of question...
One supports oneself for oneself!
If you want a man - no, you don't have to be like them.
But your husband will not be like theirs ...
"Serious", "rich", "stable" - you juggle the concepts, in fact it seems to me that you want such a man, that is, rich, but not to be like those mentioned silicones.
It could, but with the features you described, it's just easier.
I understand that you have nothing else to offer - for your career when you are still young, if you were rich you would not post such a topic, I can't think of anything else ...
So, if you want a rich man, you will have to adapt to market demands.
You're looking at some weird women. I don't know any - they all look the way they did before they found a friend.
When you are a new lover, you try much harder, you are motivated to look as good as possible and so on. Different women understand this differently. Some will swell with silicone, others will buy new clothes, others will make a new hairstyle. For there to be such a change as you are talking about, a woman must be predisposed to it even before she meets her partner. The truth is that everyone likes supported people, but who understands what is supported is a very expansive concept.
I have childhood friends who, for one reason or another, have entered such highlife circles. I'm left with the impression that it's like going back to high school - how much it costs you, how your hair sticks out, how big your breasts are ... all such comments. One is a singer and is a little deeper with things, she went with much older and wealthier men. Imagine holidays abroad every month, bouquets and ostentation. But she was never happy, because she was never sure that if she called her friend because she was scared, he would come. For her, the most important rule is to always look good, she is always afraid of comments or infidelity. We are not close with her, but I know that she has a heron in her lips, she has a lot of hair extensions, she trains every day in the gym and there is no other in the wardrobe, which is cheap or discounted. He claims that this is required. I don't know if it's really necessary, but she says so. For me, all this is unnecessary, most men I have talked to say that they prefer natural beauty. Another topic is that I don't know many rich people and I don't communicate with men who are looking for ostentation and are always the center of attention together with their girlfriend.
To the question in the title:
I behave in the same way with or without a man. I see no difference. This is me, I like myself in a certain way, I have skills and disadvantages. Either someone will like me or not, that's the situation. I train, but for health. I don't have the maximum perfect body, I'm just tight. I get hair, clean my face, take a bath every day and sometimes use perfume. I don't wear make-up every day. Otherwise, like most women, cooking and cleaning are not some impossible skills. I consider myself a normal person with normal hygiene, without any "tuning". Plus I love promotions and discounts. And to be honest, I don't like Coelho's books at all, I read other things. And I don't know anything about Big Brother. I don't see myself standing next to a person who wants to run into silicone and upload photos to Instagram nonstop.
If you want to be a courtesan and a geisha for "serious and rich men" - then yes, you have to be perfect, because other geishas will displace you if you fall behind.
It's simple. If you want a man like a muffin, you have to become a muffin.
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