I don't like to share things about my life with everyone. I only show my true self to my closest people, whom I trust, I am not ashamed of myself and I know that I will not be judged. They are people with class and they never interfere in my life, they know things only when I myself have decided to share them. But in front of everyone else, I wear a mask and I'm not myself. They think they know me, but the truth is that they only know the things I let them learn, or they are not completely real to me, because I present my life differently through deception to maintain my privacy and image.
So people's opinions about me are never objective.
I am unhappy that many people are confused about my life. People who are nothing to me to give them this information. They ask me things about my family, my love life, all the things I'm uncomfortable talking about. I am very sociable, I can talk a lot on different philosophical topics, I can express an opinion on many topics, I am interested in business, culture, I read a lot of books. And I don't mind talking about such things, I like deep meaningful conversations. But why do I have to answer exactly who my boyfriend is, what salary my parents get, am I a virgin, how much money do my things cost, where exactly do I live, and so on.
And once answered, they naturally go to spread the word. I want to live a confidential life, to communicate with people, but without being questioned in this way. I do not interfere in the lives of others, I do not ask them anything if someone wants to share something better, but otherwise not. I do not criticize or judge, I express my sincere opinion only if I am asked to. I know I'm an honest person, but at the same time, I feel kind of crazy.
Anyway, I was very distracted from the main question, namely: How do you manage to get out of the situation when someone asks you a question that you do not want to answer. My mother tells me not to give any information, but how to do it after I have been pressured. I travel in taxis, crowded, I am cramped and I have no place to move and they stare at me from all sides, they start asking me personal questions, separately in the same taxi travels my enemy, who will tell everyone what he heard. I have no way around the question and I answer anxiously, after which I regret for days and blame myself.
The thing they asked me might be nothing for some people, but it was very embarrassing for me and I didn't want exactly those people to learn. Just how do you manage to get out of such situations? I can not say I will not answer, because it is inadequate and rude, and if I lie in time it will be understood. I have such situations every day.