The best option is to sit down and talk to him. Even if you repeat what is written here, he must understand you. If not, he's either not a man or he doesn't want to be with you. Frankness! This is the way.
So just tell him? Write it to him on the poem, what? You say it outright, but without ridicule or negativity, just as a fact. And how you haven't noticed him so far is weird ... or he didn't. If he hasn't done it before, there's no point in offending you. If he's always done it, he may be offended that you haven't noticed him in so long ... But you have to tell him anyway.
Wait, six years before you lived together? Worrying ... unless you were 14, for example, when you met ....
The sounds are probably not pleasant, but do you hear them only now? A novelty of some kind, I don't think ... people moan the same way, I haven't changed my moan during sex, it's natural and there is no way to forge or change it unless we play theater ...
I can only sympathize with you, I know how the sounds are reflected during sex, I even feel uncomfortable and unwilling if I don't like my partner's moaning, which will be ridiculous according to some, but I'm a very hearing type.
Separate, seriously. You don't look in love with the way you write, and these six years ...
You go and tell him, "Honey, you sound like a girl from a porn movie, would you stop please?"
I don't believe you can offend him with that. However, you have been together for 6 years, you should not be repulsed by such a remark, and only you can build the perfect sex to your liking. And let him think about you and how you don't like this whole thing.
Maybe he wants you to start making sounds and he's trying to make you feel comfortable that way
You can tell him that during sex, you feel so good that you are transported to another dimension. But when he makes sounds, he distracts you. That you are just like that.
You see, turn things around so he doesn't realize the problem is with him. Therefore, it will not be affected.
At first I laughed heartily because I imagined it. But then I put myself in your shoes, and that's really awful.
A moan like a girl killed me, I recognized you. I've always loved quiet women not to be heard and the sound I ended up lying down with a corpse / tree I don't expect to moan right. It will ruin the moment. If you have such a problem, tell him fans, things are getting better, so instead of 1 corpse there will be 2.
Are you Normal? You should be glad that the person is aroused by you! You better not tell him, because you may end your relationship. If I were you, I would be happy for my boy to moan with pleasure. You seem to be sexually illiterate, you better keep quiet and don't give up. The man loves you and is relaxed in front of you. If in such an intimate moment we control our emotions, when should we relax? If my man makes such a remark to me, I will NEVER be able to relax in front of him again. We are people, we have no problems, we look for them.
I think some of the commenters did not understand correctly what I mean .. I do not mind the sounds during sex !! Just because I don't give them out every time I have sex doesn't mean I don't mind my partner doing it. A few months ago it made completely normal male sounds, my problem is that I don't like this innovation with this female moaning ... No matter how excited I am, if I hear this, my whole desire dies. I love it, it's not such an insurmountable problem, but I will definitely feel 100 times better during sex if it makes its sounds like before. So my question was how to tell him delicately so as not to offend and bother him? !!
As I told you above. You sit down and tell the problem directly in plain text in his eyes. Show him that you are serious about this conversation, and if he wants to be with you and feels the same, you should not worry and write here. Once upon a time, when your mothers didn't have internet, how did they do it?
You could start with, "What's wrong with you? Wasn't that the case before?" Most likely he received a wrong hint from somewhere about the positive effect of such behavior. I almost rule out that something has changed in his nervous system. And bolder - you will still have to ask for more difficult questions :)
Sorry for the curiosity, but did you talk? I had one such partner who moaned a lot. It was strange to me and somewhat excitatory, but I was embarrassed to tell him, and we rarely saw each other. I wonder how your man reacted if you told him.
Hi, I was in the same situation, I was uncomfortable so I don't even make sounds myself, but one day we sat down and I told him everything.
It has not been repeated since
I hope you manage.
I think it invites you to make sounds, and probably more emotion. I say it from experience. In my first relationship, it was like this ... I was silent, I was inexperienced and so on ... And he started the same way as yours man. Then he asked me why I never make sounds, whether I'm like that in general or just not good. The man needs to feel your pleasure and this is one of the ways, and if he feels that you are enjoying and he hears you, he will feel great. Just try :)
I have not come across such. Usually the woman is the one who is noisier. As you describe it, it doesn't sound good to me. What to do? Talk calmly. Tell him it wasn't like that before.
But I wonder how you don't make sounds yourself? This is not physically possible - not even a moan. Nobody talks about screaming at the top of your voice.
Either there is something that worries you, or you do not enjoy it. I can't imagine being like a fish in bed.
If your friend stops moaning, will you do it like rabbits?
Show him that you enjoy having sex.
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