You don't need gifts / care, and the man you live with should share the cost (of food) with you, since you're both students. I understand that he was a student, you were a business lady - you will feed him, but it is not correct for one to feed the other, given that they are both students - gender does not matter. My advice is to talk DIRECTLY with him. Keep food receipts and ask for half the money the same night or shop together. A man eats a lot more than a woman, but OK, let's not get petty, but 50% MUST cover and also 100% of the cost of things that only he eats and drinks - for example, he loves Nutella and eats 1 jar a day, you you hate nutella - he buys this thing. Unfortunately, if you don't tell yourself now that it's bothering you, he won't change. My sister is with such a man. As students, she even begged for more money than ours at the end of the month to feed him. He paid 50% of the rent and bills, but he didn't pay a penny for food and everyone paid in restaurants / cafes. It is humiliating for many Bulgarian women to beg almost for money for food. In the traditional Bulgarian family, it seems that men are more responsible for the big things - rent, mortgage to pay, car, and women pay for food, various bills, but in general - the cost of women is not less. Yes, but children do not see that their fathers pay the mortgage / rent to the whole family and grow up in a family where the mothers are responsible for the food. They don't even remember that the cost of food in our country is 40% of the total cost, but simply for them the products go into the refrigerator themselves. This is a typical Bulgarian phenomenon, by the way. In most other cultures, including in our neighboring countries such as Greece, Serbia, Turkey, men feed the family. LITERALLY. We have raised generations of Bulgarian men who pretend to be matchmakers and big males, but really rely on the woman's income. And no, it won't change even after you finish both jobs. He will most likely take 20-30% more as a man and will still hide for food and other household expenses. Tell yourself now what is bothering you and impose strict rules or you will suffer. At the moment, you almost visit your parents to feed the other's son. It is not fair As a man, he will most likely take 20-30% more and will still hide for food and other household expenses. Tell yourself now what is bothering you and impose strict rules or you will suffer. At the moment, you almost visit your parents to feed the other's son. It is not fair He will most likely take 20-30% more as a man and will still hide for food and other household expenses. Tell yourself now what is bothering you and impose strict rules or you will suffer. At the moment, you almost visit your parents to feed the other's son. It is not fair
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You don't need gifts / care, and the man you live with should share the cost (of food) with you, since you're both students. I understand that he was a student, you were a business lady - you will feed him, but it is not correct for one to feed the other, given that they are both students - gender does not matter. My advice is to talk DIRECTLY with him. Keep food receipts and ask for half the money the same night or shop together. A man eats a lot more than a woman, but OK, let's not get petty, but 50% MUST cover and also 100% of the cost of things that only he eats and drinks - for example, he loves Nutella and eats 1 jar a day, you you hate nutella - he buys this thing. Unfortunately, if you don't tell yourself now that it's bothering you, he won't change. My sister is with such a man. As students, she even begged for more money than ours at the end of the month to feed him. He paid 50% of the rent and bills, but he didn't pay a penny for food and everyone paid in restaurants / cafes. It is humiliating for many Bulgarian women to beg almost for money for food. In the traditional Bulgarian family, it seems that men are more responsible for the big things - rent, mortgage to pay, car, and women pay for food, various bills, but in general - the cost of women is not less. Yes, but children do not see that their fathers pay the mortgage / rent to the whole family and grow up in a family where the mothers are responsible for the food. They don't even remember that the cost of food in our country is 40% of the total cost, but simply for them the products go into the refrigerator themselves. This is a typical Bulgarian phenomenon, by the way. In most other cultures, including in our neighboring countries such as Greece, Serbia, Turkey, men feed the family. LITERALLY. We have raised generations of Bulgarian men who pretend to be matchmakers and big males, but really rely on the woman's income. And no, it won't change even after you finish both jobs. He will most likely take 20-30% more as a man and will still hide for food and other household expenses. Tell yourself now what is bothering you and impose strict rules or you will suffer. At the moment, you almost visit your parents to feed the other's son. It is not fair As a man, he will most likely take 20-30% more and will still hide for food and other household expenses. Tell yourself now what is bothering you and impose strict rules or you will suffer. At the moment, you almost visit your parents to feed the other's son. It is not fair He will most likely take 20-30% more as a man and will still hide for food and other household expenses. Tell yourself now what is bothering you and impose strict rules or you will suffer. At the moment, you almost visit your parents to feed the other's son. It is not fair