My dad's an alcoholic. Two weeks ago, he went to the hospital, and he had surgery. He's on command now. The doctors said that apart from the heart, no other organ works! He's a young man, just 47 years old! There's a chance he'il live, albeit a minimal BUT... we have to take him to Turkey! We have to transport him by private ambulance to Istanbul, where we will have a team of doctors waiting for us! But all this is very expensive, I want to ask you something; Will I be granted a loan of up to 30-50 thousand euros? I'm a 24-year-old young girl. I work as a magician and I have about $450. month, but it is an employment contract. Please, I'm desperate!!! I want my dad to live, but with no money, I don't know what to do! Give me some advice!
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coffeecreamandpinkinbetween answered · June 16, 2020
Sweet girl, unfortunately, will not grant you any such credit for such income and without a contract. Accept that each of us has scratched how much to live, and even if you have the money, there is no guarantee that just pray and talk to your parents' family and friends if anyone can help.
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jupiterdrop answered · June 16, 2020
Why didn't you help him earlier? Actually, you probably tried, but he didn't want to change anything.
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bonnie69clyde69 answered · June 16, 2020
unfortunately, your father chose to kill himself slowly and almost succeeded. I don't think anyone's going to give you that kind of credit, and I don't see how you're going to repay it. I'm sorry, but accept that he's leaving, that's how he chose it.
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tidavid87 answered · June 16, 2020
You know, what I'm going to tell you is hard-hearted, but it's your father's fault. He's an alcoholic. For many years, he was drinking alcohol, and a little less killed himself. And for what? Now fall on your shoulders, your young good-hearted daughter. I think you left it that way. I know, it sounds soulless, but if you take out a loan first, you won't be released without TD, and even if they give you, you'il be enslaved to old age to pay that money back. It's not worth it! Where's your mother in this picture, if I may ask?
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just4fun1217 answered · June 16, 2020
If you have a property to mortgage or sell, this is the chance for a loan unfortunately will not work. If it's in your father's name, give him custody and you can make deals on his behalf. However, if the brain is affected or has no brain activity at all, except for the cerebellum, then your father can stay in this state, but he will not return. Let them tell you predictions about his condition, especially for the post-hospital period. You can take him home now and watch him breathe. But if he needs serious rehabilitation, he won't get them abroad, it's very expensive overseas. He has terrible conditions worse than death. The hopeless. How can doctors in Turkey give you hope, have they seen his research and his epidemic at all? Or did you just read it somewhere? I understand that in your desperation, you're ready to hold on to every straw. But still, it's only a real chance, not an illusory one. If there's a chance, it's all worth it. If there isn't, the pain remains. I'm sorry about you and what's happening to you.
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moniqueeass answered · June 17, 2020
But the risk is that you don't lose your home. Another option, to ask Nova TV to put a bank donation account on your website. I wish you and your father good luck.
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pinguoins answered · June 17, 2020
From the Author: Thank you for your opinions! For years, I've been talking to my mother about letting that damn drink go away! He wasn't listening to anyone! But he's still my father, I feel sorry for him! It hurts my heart that doctors think he has a chance to live, but we have to send him to Turkey, and we don't have any money! I've been willing to pay back loans to banks all my life! But i don't know which bank would give me such a big loan? Please leave reviews and tips! I'm grateful to everyone!
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lillexie answered · June 17, 2020
Unfortunately, even if you find money, it's very likely that he won't make it in the end. And you're going to pay a bunch of money for a desperate attempt to help a suicidal man. People tell you there's a minimum chance, and the loan isn't minimal, it's real.
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nycuriousboy2 answered · June 18, 2020
Dear girl, your father has made his choice-he chose to drink in the way of thinking about his family, your future and how you will feel.... Now he's paying for it.
Don't feel guilty and don't torture yourself. You and your mother tried to help him, but he refused... What more can you do? Forget about loans, etc., it doesn't make sense and it's not worth it.
You thought about your life after your father didn't think about you.
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laslimmpetite answered · June 18, 2020
I'm number three. Is it certain that the minimum chance is not just to have the money you don't have? Don't rule out that possibility.
Have you actually talked to the doctors in Turkey? Did they look at the case or did they just tell you? How exactly will he be treated and what is he actually operated on?
And I'm sorry, but the minimum chance tends to be 0. I usually advise people to fight, but as you describe it, I doubt it makes any sense at all.
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lulu_lopez answered · June 18, 2020
From experience, I can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. I went through this with my mom and dad. Except my father died, and for my mother, she doesn't want to be her beed. Alcoholism is a big carousel that never stops. It's all over and over again. My advice is to hold on to yourself because you're the biggest victim in this case and you have a chance to change your life.
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