Hello. A 15-year-old boy writes to you. I guess some people may find my problem silly, but I really need help. Anyway the problem is this: About 3 months ago a girl started dating my company (about 8-9 boys). She was from another neighborhood. The first time I saw her I was impressed, but I didn't pay much attention. But 1-2 weeks later I realized that I really like her. I couldn't stop thinking about her and just waited for Friday, Saturday and Sunday to come (because she was going out with us then). And I thought everything was going well. We got closer, we talked, we wrote to each other every day, she kept asking me for advice. I also realized that we have a lot in common. My friends constantly fucked us that we were for each other and so on. No matter how hard I tried to hide my feelings, my friends eventually realized that I like her and they supported me. I was even such a big idiot that I thought she might like me too. I thought that the only thing that separated us from being together was to admit my feelings to her. However, about 1 week ago she wrote to me because she needed advice. I asked her what and she started to explain to me: how she thinks she likes two boys, she didn't know who to choose and so on. At that moment it became clear to me that it would not work out between us. I wondered if I should let her talk or confess to her and it would end. Although I didn't want to tell her through text, I decided I wouldn't have a more convenient case. I told her. She didn't know how to react. She said she didn't even suspect it. And immediately after that he started writing to me about how she didn't want us to ruin our relationship, she didn't want to lose a good friend like me. It was funny at first, then I was dumb thinking that it would never happen ... And in the end she wanted us to remain friends, so it happened. We haven't stopped writing to each other every day. We haven't seen each other in a week, because it was during the week, she wants to come see us, but I don't know if it's a good idea. I don't know how to move forward. I'm clear that if she doesn't like me, it can't happen. The problem is that I don't know how to forget her. On the one hand, I don't want to ruin our relationship, but on the other hand, I don't want to be just her friend. What do you think is the best thing to do To end all contact with her, or to continue to be close friends and try to overcome her somehow. I will be grateful if you help me in general. Thanks in advance. And in the end, she wanted us to remain friends, and she did. We haven't stopped writing to each other every day. We haven't seen each other in a week, because it was during the week, she wants to come see us, but I don't know if it's a good idea. I don't know how to move forward. I'm clear that if she doesn't like me, it can't happen. The problem is that I don't know how to forget her. On the one hand, I don't want to ruin our relationship, but on the other hand, I don't want to be just her friend. What do you think is the best thing to do? To end all contact with her, or to continue to be close friends and try to overcome her somehow. I will be grateful if you help me in general. Thanks in advance. And in the end, she wanted us to remain friends, and she did. We haven't stopped writing to each other every day. We haven't seen each other in a week, because it was during the week, she wants to come see us, but I don't know if it's a good idea. I don't know how to move forward. I'm clear that if she doesn't like me, it can't happen. The problem is that I don't know how to forget her. On the one hand, I don't want to ruin our relationship, but on the other hand, I don't want to be just her friend. What do you think is the best thing to do? To end all contact with her, or to continue to be close friends and try to overcome her somehow. I will be grateful if you help me in general. Thanks in advance. she wants to come see us, but I don't know if it's a good idea. I don't know how to move forward. I'm clear that if she doesn't like me, it can't happen. The problem is that I don't know how to forget her. On the one hand, I don't want to ruin our relationship, but on the other hand, I don't want to be just her friend. What do you think is the best thing to do? To end all contact with her, or to continue to be close friends and try to overcome her somehow. I will be grateful if you help me in general. Thanks in advance. she wants to come see us, but I don't know if it's a good idea. I don't know how to move forward. I'm clear that if she doesn't like me, it can't happen. The problem is that I don't know how to forget her. On the one hand, I don't want to ruin our relationship, but on the other hand, I don't want to be just her friend. What do you think is the best thing to do? To end all contact with her, or to continue to be close friends and try to overcome her somehow. I will be grateful if you help me in general. Thanks in advance. that it is best to do? To end all contact with her, or to continue to be close friends and try to overcome her somehow. I will be grateful if you help me in general. Thanks in advance. that it is best to do? To end all contact with her, or to continue to be close friends and try to overcome her somehow. I will be grateful if you help me in general. Thanks in advance.
1 sunnydahye answered
We've all been through this. It sucks, but over time you forget and find a way to continue. I only know one man who managed to stay friends with a girl he liked very much. And without interrupting his relationship even for a while, he told me that it took him a year or more. Its story is almost the same. I don't know how he succeeded, because they went out often. I think it's best to give yourself some time without chats and meetings, then everything can go back to normal. I think if you keep in touch with her right now, it will be much harder for you to get her out of your head. It's not impossible to be friends, but first you have to stop wanting her. At least that's how it works for me.