Hi... I'm a 15-year-old girl... I was very wondering if I should write here, frankly, I never thought I'd have to. I would very much like the story to be published and thank you in advance for that. I apologize if it's too long. So, I'm in love with a boy I don't know... I know more accurately, but not personally. Everything he introduced about 2-3 months ago, when we tied up something like a conversation in a cabinet, then he looked at me and I smiled. After a few seconds, I got uncomfortable, and I shifted my gaze, as did he. Since then, I've started to see me at school more and more often, and once I even think we were waiting together at the bus stop and he told me that my backpack was unbuttoned, but I'm not sure. I... that's how I fell in love. Thanks to my friends, I found his social media and sent him invitations, but he ignores them... He generally does not use much social. networks, live is well behaved, but it seems pompous... we had a holiday at school a while ago, and in the crowd he pushed a friend of mine without apologizing to her afterwards... but at the same time he was constantly turning to look at me, perhaps because I did not take my eyes off him. Every recess I go down to their room, I constantly hang around him and the people he moves with. I feel like it's already felt, because every time we meet around the school, we look at each other like we know each other, and I'm being super inadequate around him. In the words of a friend of mine, he looked at me while I wasn't watching. The other day they were handing out at school, he gave me and smiled at me. I know it doesn't mean anything, but it matters to me. Every time I see him, I lose my mind, I go crazy... I want to know each other so much, even if I don't hold on to it as much as he knows my name, pay a little attention to me, smile at me one more time, talk to me. What I wouldn't give to repeat that in that office. I know he walks a lot, but they're things I don't really care about, and I don't want to go. We have 1-2 common acquaintances as far as I've been interviewed, but I'm already uncomfortable asking them for things like that, because more than I know about it, I've learned from them. Ideas? Maybe if I pushed myself into it and dropped something, oh, I don't know... how is it possible to love a person I don't know? I want to know a little bit about him and his character, as far as I'm told he was a decent guy, but sometimes annoying, is what that means... I want to see if it's worth wasting my time and emotions for him. It's absurd to go to him and talk to him, no matter how much I want him to, he's bigger than me, and I'm afraid he's going to make fun of me, and the people around him... which is going to hurt me so much. Besides, I don't want him to think I'm obsessed with him, and I'm following him. Please give me some advice. What if I write to him on Facebook? A friend of mine wrote to him because I wanted to see how he was going to treat him, and he was being super rude... At times I feel like I'm ready for anything, but then I think about how it's going to push me away and it's going to hurt me... I'm not very sociable myself, I hardly like someone, and I'm not very much on You with boyfriends, and obviously, to like him I've seen something in him that others don't have. They gave me the advice to wear something that would set me apart from so that he could notice me... What? In the meantime, things are escalating, I'm falling more and more in love, and I feel like we need to meet, but how... I'm afraid if he feels like I like him, he'il start running away from me. I'm so grateful that you read everything so far, now somehow I'm relieved. I'll be even more so if you give me some advice.
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tanja_1984 answered · May 31, 2020
Hi. I wanted to tell you that guys who get hit on social media don't take invitations and behave rudely in a chat are really inflated. If you really like him, try to make an impression on him, through a nice style, look, make up or get some nice haircut, and so he'il be interested in you over time.
I have to stress one important thing: By no means do you make out with him, or at least make no impression that you're chasing him, because it puts the boys off. Be more careless, try to look like you have no interest in him, be more mysterious a kind of :D. I'm telling you, it attracts not a few guys. Whatever happens, don't get too attached to it, because most of these cases end in broken hearts.
I've given you the basic advice that I know myself, but unfortunately I can't tell you anything about how to meet him, because I can't meet him either, and I'm worried. Watch his attitude towards others to see what he is like and get some impressions. The very fact that he wrote rude things to your girlfriend is not pretty. But this reminds me of a cliché in which a bad boy with a stone heart behaves rudely to everyone and everything, but comes a good and kind girl who not only breaks the stone heart, but also finds a place in it. :)
I don't know if you're still following your subject. Good luck and I'm keeping my fingers crossed. :))
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basthet answered · May 31, 2020
Yes, I'm following the subject, in fact, it's only now that I notice it was approved five days ago, I don't know why it didn't come out to me before. Thank you for your advice, I don't want to accept that he's pompous and rude when I first saw him, he didn't make that impression at all. After all, when you like someone, you turn off their bad reads, and it's perfect for you... and I was thinking about stopping around him and pretending I don't care, but really when I see him freaking out, I wish I could talk to him right away or even hug him.. It's strange to me that we always look at each other, I don't know if I've made any impression on him, but maybe he already knows me, meaning he remembered me as a face... In general, he treats the people around him well, i'm quite comfortable with how to say it, social, because he takes part in a lot of school activities.. I'm missing out on saying I've noticed he's mostly with girls, but I don't think any of them are his girlfriend, and from what I understand, he doesn't have a girlfriend.
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biabalsingspel1988 answered · May 31, 2020
Hi!
I've read your story, and I can boldly say that I'm in the same situation as yours, except we never talked... Nasty, huh? But now we're talking about your story, and my advice to you is to talk to you, I know it might sound absurd (as you mentioned), but if you think about it, you don't lose anything! Also, don't be tuned in that he can make fun of you, just think positively!
But I think if he's watching you, it's because he's attracted to him and he keeps doing it because he sees that you have some kind of attitude to him, so don't give up and I'm looking forward to sharing what happened. Be brave!
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lucifer__andrade answered · May 31, 2020
Hey, author. It says you number one again. In this case, I'm going to agree with number three that if he's looking at you, you've given him some impression, and I'd add that maybe it's a signal that he's showing some interest in you. Why don't you try sending him a friendship invitation again on social media? It's a little bad girl taking the first step of getting to know each other, in my opinion. But how do you know if you don't try.
In a word, like number three, talk to him and be brave. And think positively! If you have mutual friends, you can go out into a company. I wanted to ask you the guy you like bigger than you or are you the same age, but he's just in another class?
I hope there will be a development in the situation. :)
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bigdaddyd1134 answered · May 31, 2020
Now with this state of emergency, and not being in school for two weeks, I can't see it and possibly do something, all the more so because I don't live in the city I study in. I hate that I can't see him, and that I won't be able to see him any time soon, all I have left is to look at his photos and profiles, even though I can't figure anything out there. That way I feel kind of closer to it, but how long. I totally understand you, No 3, and we haven't talked much, and I'm dreaming of the day it's going to happen. It bothers me that I'm younger than him, if we have to be exact, I'm 8th grade, and he's 10, and as you might already know, I'm a rabbit and the big ones hang on to us all the time. it's like a boy less than me hanging around me. I don't understand why you treated my girlfriend like that when I first saw him, he was much nicer, he even seemed shy. I'd say he doesn't know [10th grade] at all, he's got a radical difference with his peers, he's not some guy who's got puberty on him a lot.
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tefy_scott answered · May 31, 2020
Hello, again! It says you number three. I had lost track of time and didn't even know my comment was approved. Well, I want to address the author, dear girl unfortunately now we are under severe quarantine, but she does not lose hope at all. This quarantine will eventually pass, and once you meet, the thrill will be even greater, believe me, and it's also possible that this long vacation will be a test for you, it may sound crazy to you, but thanks to this vacation, he can find out if he has feelings for you as well as you. That's quite possible, so keep that in mind. Also, do not worry about being in another city, it is possible to see yourself everywhere, fate will meet you if you have ordered that it is meant to be.
And here's something I suggest you do on this vacation, if you have his social media, don't waste time, write to him! You've overcome the shame, and I guarantee you'il be happy that you took the first step.
Now I'm going to deviate from your theme a little bit, I don't want it to sound presumptuous, but anyone who wants to, can look at my theme, it's called "In Love with a Stranger" and it's in the Teen age category and, as far as I can remember, it's 21. My goal is not to insrame, I just need advice. Thank you, in advance to everyone!
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s_slave19 answered · June 01, 2020
Number six, I can't believe it's you. I read your theme, which was very cool, but unfortunately I couldn't advise you anything. :( I'm sorry about that. Maybe I'd suggest you catch a bus early and see it try to talk to him or meet him.
As for the author, I agree with the advice of 6, don't worry about quarantine, it could really be in your favor and it could be for the best. As people say, "Every evil for good" :))
Number one and four.
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wannaplay1025 answered · June 01, 2020
Hello again. I'il see your story, and if I can, I'il give you some advice. Thank you very much for what you said and advised me so far.
I guess I should really send him an invitation. I can't, I sent him once and now he won't even let me follow him. On Instagram, though, I can. And there I followed him once and removed me, I haven't had the courage to do it since, because I always think he's going to think I'm cheeky. I check his profile very often and see that his followers are increasing... maybe it's right to do it, I don't lose anything though, but if he takes me off again, what am I going to do?
It's about writing to him. I really want to, but when I think of how you answered my girlfriend and that everything could go wrong, it goes my way. I sincerely hope that I can go to his city soon, I need to see him. It's like the farther away from me, the closer I feel. I'm even dreaming about it now...
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himinra answered · June 01, 2020
I don't think there's any adequate reason to take you out on social media, so don't be afraid. Try to follow him, you can write to him at a later stage after you've gathered enough courage. Maybe, to your surprise, give you back a follow-up, how would a man know? :)) From 1.
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rch311 answered · June 02, 2020
Hi, I'm number three and no.6 again. I understand why you're bothering to write to him, it's really possible that he's going to treat you harshly, but I'm judging by the fact that he might have turned down your invitation, because maybe he's ashamed to take the next step. Also, when your girlfriend wrote to him, I think he felt uncomfortable, first because maybe he wasn't expecting it, and secondly because he might have expected it, but from you. That's why he may have been rude. I totally understand that you wanted to know more about him, I would do that, too, but I don't think that's the way to go. I'm just advising you to talk to him, and from there, things will work out on their own. I understand that you are worried and you ask yourself how he will react, but first of all, to be confident and sure of yourself, you have to think positively! And lastly I want to add, you decide how to talk it, whether it should be live or chat, but it is advisable to be alone. Imagine that he now, like you, is wondering if he should write to you. Whatever you decide, don't forget to be brave, and I hope the result will be positive.
P. I also want to thank No1, 4, 7 and 9. Don't worry that you couldn't leave a comment, it's enough for me that you've freed up time to read my story, thank you to the author who helped me a hell of a lot with her point of view!
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tobimcfly713 answered · June 02, 2020
Hi. I'm a girl in my 20s, and I've already gone through unrequited love at school, a couple of times. Seeing the boy you like in the hallway is an exciting experience and you always shudder in anticipation of meeting him. At least that's how it was with me. I don't want to disappoint you, but I hope you're not deluding yourself that this boy likes you just because you look at each other from time to time. Guys don't like to analyse everything and can't think about a lot of things at the same time as we do. I don't know what this boy is in character and what kind of girls he likes, but in general I can tell you that only makeup, a nice haircut or nice clothes would not help you. Men aren't impressed by that kind of thing. You need self-esteem because they love confident girls/women. You know that in the future! What you can do is not follow him or hang around him supposedly by accident (the boys are annoyed by it), but to try to make friends in some way. Explore his interests and his favorite places, communicate with his friends, I don't know, try to look like you're not so interested in him. Things won't go down quickly, but try to get into his circle to get to know him. And know that you don't have to expect anything, be prepared for everything, or you'il get hurt. Success 6
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carla_loverss answered · June 03, 2020
Hi. I'm a girl in my 20s, and I've already gone through unrequited love at school, a couple of times. Seeing the boy you like in the hallway is an exciting experience and you always shudder in anticipation of meeting him. At least that's how it was with me. I don't want to disappoint you, but I hope you're not deluding yourself that this boy likes you just because you look at each other from time to time. Guys don't like to analyse everything and can't think about a lot of things at the same time as we do. I don't know what this boy is in character and what kind of girls he likes, but in general I can tell you that only makeup, a nice haircut or nice clothes would not help you. Men aren't impressed by that kind of thing. You need self-esteem because they love confident girls/women. You know that in the future! What you can do is not follow him or hang around him supposedly by accident (the boys are annoyed by it), but to try to make friends in some way. Explore his interests and his favorite places, communicate with his friends, I don't know, try to look like you're not so interested in him. Things won't go down quickly, but try to get into his circle to get to know him. And know that you don't have to expect anything, be prepared for everything, or you'il get hurt. Success!
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uynalie answered · June 03, 2020
Hello again. Number 9, and I don't think there's any reason, but there seems to be... I sent him an invitation and took it off. I wasn't particularly surprised, to some extent I expected it, because he's already done it once. But it seemed like i was gone and the last drop of courage to write to him and do something. Maybe it's one of those private accounts, I know, there aren't many followers, not to say almost none, apparently it's just people he knows.
By the way, today, going out for the first time in four or five days, I thought I saw him in a car. I might already see it, because I really want to see it... I keep thinking why this quarantine happened right now, before I saw it every recess, I felt so happy, and now...
Thank you so much for being so active and giving me so much advice. Number 6, I wrote a comment on your story. I hope you read it and helped you somehow. :)
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couplehardsex77 answered · June 03, 2020
Hi. I agree with No12 that it's nice to explore his interests and his favorite places. I know if I say, "Talk to him and don't be ashamed" I'm not going to help you at all, because as I understand it, you're more shy and anxious. Try it easy to get close to him. I know the timing right now is very complicated with this global pandemic, but it might be good for you to make sense of your feelings, make sure you genuinely like it, think about all sorts of options, like where to look for information about his interests. And as for rejecting you on social media, it should not discourage and sadden you, but on the contrary - motivate you even more.