How Do I Make It ....?

I read a lot here and finally decided to share my problem, maybe it's not a problem but just my little sexual desire .... I have a serious friend for 3 and a half years we are together and live together. The difference in age is big. In the beginning I didn't have much experience in sex and accordingly most of my things were new experiences, I didn't pay attention to how and where. I had no problem with cumming it made me cum many times we did it all day we didn't get out of bed. But over time, he seemed tired. It's as if he doesn't do it with such pleasure anymore and from there he doesn't give me pleasure either. It ends without a problem of course much faster than before, but the problem is that I can't the only way is by licking me ... And from there comes the big problem, he doesn't do it before, there was no problem with that, now the only way to make him do is pose 69 yes but so I can't but enjoy his caresses "downstairs" at all. I tried to play with him first, then with me, but when he was done he would either fall asleep or forget or be lazy, as if I would make him carry me in his arms. If my hygiene is the problem, I don't see where else, I'm completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... It became my problem for a little while ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off) I tried to play with him first, then with me, but when he was done he would either fall asleep or forget or be lazy, as if I would make him carry me in his arms. If my hygiene is the problem, I don't see where else, I'm completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... It became my problem for a little while ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off) I tried to play with him first, then with me, but when he was done he would either fall asleep or forget or be lazy, as if I would make him carry me in his arms. If my hygiene is the problem, I don't see where else, I'm completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... It became my problem for a little while ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off) I am completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... My problem became a little long ago ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off) I am completely gynecologically healthy, I maintain myself regularly, I don't see what the problem is to refuse. He used to do it with pleasure, now it seems as if his desire for me has completely disappeared ... It became my problem for a little while ... But my question is if there is someone here who had my problem, let him tell me how to overcome it. I will be sincerely grateful for any advice. (Drop option is off)