Hello! I'm 17 and I haven't had a relationship before. In the summer I worked at sea for the first time, where I met a boy with whom we started a relationship. The problem is that he didn't agree and I told him "Fuck, it will only be for the summer and so on, let's go with the flow" and after a while he agreed. The problem is that he warned me that I would be very attached to him and then I would suffer. This is exactly what happened. I talked to him several times to try after the summer, despite the distance of 150 km, but he refused me because he had already experienced a long-distance relationship and did not want to do it again. Days before I left the sea, we quarreled fiercely because in my rage I told him nonsense to hurt him as I was hurt by his refusals. The last day he came to me and said that he would forgive me just to keep my friendship with me after the summer. I decided that I would not look for him in order to experience him more easily, but one day I sat down when he came home and he called me to hear me. In my grief, a few days later I called him just to talk, but in the middle of the conversation, hope resurfaced and I asked him to think again if he wanted to be with me. Then he shouted at me and hung up. I decided to stop contacting completely, but four days later he called me again to hear. He apologized to me many times because he shouted, he spoke to me again as if we were together, but in fact we are friends. His feelings for me cooled because of our quarrel at the end of the summer. I want to make him fall in love with me again. I don't know if I should call and talk to him as we did together. On the other hand, I know that he does not call me because he has feelings, but purely friendly, but not with me. How can I convince him to be together and make him feel this thrill for me again? I tried to forget it but now I don't want to give up our attempts to be together. I am asking for advice..
1 itaucultural answered
Beauty cannot be forced ...