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How Do I Know If My Boyfriend Is Gay?

By girlsexy104 October 30, 2020 36 answers Last updated October 30, 2020

Hello from me. I want to ask how do you think I can find out if my friend is gay Refuses me sex is constantly tired likes to do housework, is constantly in front of the mirror, etc. I really wonder if he likes men. Why doesn't he want blowjobs? Are there any signs I can tell if he likes men? By the way, it's hard for him. F18

Answers 36

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bjgaddour answered · October 30, 2020

   How old is he?

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brownboyfat answered · October 30, 2020

   You may not blow like humans and therefore not want to.

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ronandcherry answered · October 30, 2020

   Ole, I think you have a serious problem. I don't know how his manners are? Don't hesitate to drop it! There are as many men as you want, and the most eager for sex.

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YumeMizu answered · October 30, 2020

   There is a book "Who is next to me in bed?", The authors are two French women. Firstly, it is very funny, secondly - all categories of men have been dismantled, among them the homosexual man. Behavioral signs are described that confirm that he is this type, so you will easily find your way around. Also, don't ignore the discussion - talk to him.

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lilithdancer answered · October 30, 2020

   Introduce him to a cool friend of yours. Observe his gaze as they shake hands, observe the way he communicates with him. Something like this could work to find out if there is an attraction to men. Still, the best way is to ask him face to face, if he is late with the answer or starts to blush or turn around, it means that there is something to suspect.

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skyexmonster answered · October 30, 2020

   There may be another problem and he may be uncomfortable sharing it. Try talking to him before putting a "GAY" sign on him. I HOPE YOU CAN FIND AN ANSWER. SUCCESS F 24

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GiaGolds answered · October 30, 2020

   (From the author) He is 34.

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barlaaaa1999 answered · October 30, 2020

   From the way you describe him, I have the impression that he is embarrassed due to the fact that he fails to satisfy you and therefore refuses sex. Do you feel satisfied? Besides, 34 years is not much, but the difference of 16 years is a lot. You better back off. Is not for you. You will find yours.

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jennifer_ani answered · October 30, 2020

   What you're describing to me looks like one of my gay ex-boyfriends. He also refused sex, etc., but what distinguishes these people as gay is their appearance. Does your boyfriend have a lot of leather bracelets or weird "unisex" jewelry? Given that kte together it is better to ask him. There is nothing more certain than the direct answer.

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abbysexx3 answered · October 30, 2020

   And it could be his age.

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ballsofdragon789 answered · October 30, 2020

   Emmy, if you really love him, put the question in place !!!

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veganfuckubate answered · October 30, 2020

   Well he is definitely gay! Sometimes when you go out, invite another couple with you and watch him contact the man of the other couple.

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kael_aphrodite answered · October 30, 2020

   Well, you both go to a gay club and if he dumps you for someone else, then he's gay :)))

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dirty_lovers_ answered · October 30, 2020

   If you are a pecan in his manner you will understand. It can be active after all, it is a soft wrist. Apak can't help but be gay, in my opinion as you present it to me, or he's very clogged or gay. But I know people who are not gay and are the same as you describe your friend, but they are very congested. Beat his jester, it's not worth finding a MAN

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HurricaneRuth answered · October 31, 2020

   I am a very passionate MANAF and if you introduce me to him, I will tell you if he is gay ..

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latin_blackts answered · October 31, 2020

   Touch his ass. If he likes it, doubt it more.

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official_gmfc answered · October 31, 2020

   What can I tell you ... my friend turned out to be gay ... he was exactly the same ... he didn't want sex, he cleaned, he was irritated by the slightest dust, he sat for hours in the bathroom and in front of the mirror and finally I was served that he was gay ... of course I reacted on time and I would make fun of him ... my advice is to dump him ... it's not worth poisoning your nerves with a disoriented person ... find a real MAN ..

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carolinemar01 answered · October 31, 2020

   There is still a lot to learn "smart people"! Who are you to determine who is a real man ?! What does a real man mean ?! The idea that has been haunting you for years. And so it is with many things, not just on this issue. Second ... he was "congested." What does grown up mean ?! The same answer ... And if he's "stuck", why shouldn't this duck help him grow up, and the "smart people" right away, my ... beat him up, because it's easier. Doesn't this person have the right to personal happiness? Does any of you know how to be a person "congested", how much pain and humiliation he has experienced ?! You know the handles ... The "clogged" is an unbloomed color, he is a person like all of you. It's just that for one reason or another it failed to blossom ... I'm learning from you in this forum about some things, I hope you will learn from me. And when you think about it ... to help someone flourish ... it's like you've created a new life, a new person has been born. And you kill him by rejecting him and sticking idiotic labels on him. Wake up ...

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pacikanin_mutfagi answered · October 31, 2020

   First I ask you to take biology lessons! Then ask if something is not clear to you and I will help you, and by the way about the erection of your friend you may be to blame. My advice is the following if you hold each other go to a sexologist and solve the problem.

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SexyyQueen answered · November 01, 2020

   Do you understand what it means to fall in love with a manly sexy man, with a beard, with the most beautiful eyes in the world, a man with great sensuality and to be gay ... And you to continue to love him in spite of everything and try to you are friends but you want it like a woman wants a man ... But in the end it turns out to be a waste of time because there can be no friendship between a man and a woman, be it gay ...

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knijff answered · November 01, 2020

   Your bitch may have erectile dysfunction. It is psychogenic and physiological. There is an option for him to be ashamed of it and to think that you will leave him and not want sex. There is an option, of course, to be a guy, or not to know what it is, which is also an option, although he is 35. Have you asked him about his previous relationships? Just because he's more feminine doesn't mean he's gay. My best friend sometimes has mega gay manners, but he's not 100% gay I can tell. Whether or not he is gay is not determined solely by whether he is gay or not. What matters is how he feels about you. My advice, however, is to play it, mainly because of the age limit. It dooms your relationship more than the obvious problem it has. Something else! If you want to be with him and you want to check if he's gay, don't make him feel watched and watched, because it will complicate it even more :) Come on, I succeeded. And what matters is what your heart feels, not what makes that thing happen to you. Because you can love a girl a lot, but you have a little shit, as they say. :)

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perla97 answered · November 01, 2020

   Hello from me, I also have such a problem! I have a friend of 5 years and we live together very well, but a year ago I noticed that he spends a lot of time in front of the mirror, goes to the gym regularly and strongly wants anal sex, I did not ask him if he is gay or stress I do not know another, but is addicted to porn and I find that he is looking for sites with anal sex. I'm thinking of buying him an artificial ass from the sex shop! Give advice on how to chase him and show him that if he continues like this he will become gay

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zagufashion answered · November 01, 2020

   23, 1. modern men are supported, if you want a hairy Balkan man in a white tank top, who bathes only on Sundays - choose someone 50+ 2. The opposite men do not like all butts, and the male ones - if you are a man, your boyfriend is definitely gay. 3 Even if he likes anal sex, he is not gay. If you don't like anal, tell him or change your friend with someone who h .. but only vaginally, smells of sweat and does not go to the gym, but scratches his thick belly in front of the BTV Success

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amy___ answered · November 01, 2020

   And can a man have sex with a woman, he ends up, to be gay? M14

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sexy_witch724 answered · November 02, 2020

   However, women cannot please you. First you are angry that your men are lazy, and if they start doing your housework and hop - he is gay. Author, the fact that your boyfriend does not want you to have sex may be due to some complex that can not satisfy you. Also, if it becomes difficult for him, this may be due to something physiological - for example, if he smokes, over time the potency of men decreases (of course, this is strictly individual). Question 14 and 17: What do you think a real man means? One who stands in front of the TV, watching some stupid American action and holding the remote in one hand and a bottle of beer in the other? Or someone looking to fill his free time, fucking his wife and cursing that she didn't cook? Come on, please ... And nowadays not only women, but also a very large part of men are vain.

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kiss034 answered · November 02, 2020

   Evala 27 cruelly said it women are terrible evil beings and can never please them but without them there is no way Hector

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AlabamasBDaY answered · November 02, 2020

   I don't know why, but people have become extremely competent in all matters, they understand who is gay, who is not gay, and so on, I think there were gays during the Roman Empire and we are 21st century modern and happy people in the age of tablets and smartphones we deal with people who just because they are different from us. Accept them and be tolerant because a conservative society like the Bulgarian one is very conservative nowhere. Now maybe for me there will be a comment 4e and I'm gay but a mistake, then let's emigrate to the moon. Just because I protected them, but not out of great sympathy, we just have to accept them; for example the Netherlands; Belgium; Denmark ; Sweden, etc.

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raolyn777 answered · November 02, 2020

   You are absolutely gay if you don't know where the letter "h" is on your keyboard!

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LindaGarcia answered · November 02, 2020

   I agree with 30 or so we are still the people who are above things

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harley_qx answered · November 03, 2020

   That's how I knew, it's just that these people here are crazy. For 31, I can only laugh at it because I don't know where the letter h is on the keyboard. These were people who were tolerant of yes but no. At 31, I can recommend lectures in Medical Psychology. Social Anthropology and Andrology.

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hemanthan009 answered · November 03, 2020

   there is no living thing on the planet that loses blood every month and survives, except --- ???? hahaha

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0bsolescencia answered · November 03, 2020

   And I've been wondering lately, I don't have a problem with sex, maybe he is bisexual, who knows, when we have sex we sometimes tell dirty stories and I feel that when I talk about male passions between him and another man he gets aroused, lately he tells me to we tried with another couple, he offers me a threesome, he lets me put my finger in his ass and I see that he likes it, he started going out with friends a lot and even went to the sauna with his recent friend, then they were outside and he told me what I gave him a present, I don't remember exactly something small, but he still started to scare me seriously, otherwise he loves me very much, he holds on to me, we've lived a hell of a lot together and it's very hard for him without me, we've been together for half a year. say i know him pretty well but not to answer this question, people help me, i love him!He is always looking for me after a fight and now he is out with colleagues and in his work he is surrounded by them, he doesn't think about me all day, I'm afraid to go to Sofia and surprise him when he can find him with another ??

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kylesingler answered · November 03, 2020

   nom. 21 - didn't you fall in love with me by chance and I don't know? : D :) --- nom. 26 - if you are specifically interested in whether if you are gay, you will still be able to do it with women and finish - it is very clear, as long as you pick it up, I do not know what else to stop you (you probably want to do it with women, for to hide and you are afraid that if you fail, they will reveal you, I guess?;) --- to everyone: people, if a man is gay it is normal not to pick him up from a woman, not arousing him ... you are great philosophers.

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ivankovic_branko answered · November 03, 2020

   He's cheating on you with another. If you don't want to be dumped anymore because of other women, stop thinking such nonsense. To think of him as gay is insulting and repulsive. Your friend must have sensed your stupid thoughts and therefore sides of you

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CooterMcTwat answered · November 04, 2020

   See what porn he is watching on his computer and you will understand immediately!

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boredgirlxoxo answered · November 04, 2020

   Someone said "1. modern men are supported, if you want a hairy Balkan man in a white tank top who bathes only on Sundays - choose someone at 50" You are a fool, modern. men are real pathetic molders, metrosexual pendulums, that's you, you're useless. We 50 do not bathe once a week, I personally bathe every other day, summer every day, I think that hair removal is something humiliating for both men and women, and there is no connection between hairless mold and hygiene. And in answer to the author's question, whether your mold is gay, you will most easily understand when you see what porn is watching on your computer, if it is gay, it is clear what it is.