Hello! I want to ask you what is the feeling that you love a person? !! Or rather, to describe my situation to you and get an impartial opinion. I'm not going to go into details, I started dating her just for fun. He was just my best friend, we shared everything. For the problems in our relationships, rather for the problems with her boyfriend, I just went out with different women without anything serious. She later broke up with her boyfriend, and was alone for about half a year. I learned from her friends that she was madly in love with me. For a long time I hesitated whether to go out with her at all. Because I wasn't in love, I didn't just want to sleep with her. I gave her a chance and things worked out, I was attached to her but there was no first stage of falling in love. I thought I would love her in time, we made plans to live together, but somehow with her everything scared me. She is hellishly jealous, she made remarks to me about the smallest things. Why did I add a girl to Facebook, why did I like a photo. Why did I go out with colleagues from the coffee unit, why did I write to a colleague for lectures, why did I sit in lectures next to girls and so on. I stayed alone all day so she could be calm. I removed almost all women from Facebook, I didn't even go out with friends I had known for years. Don't get me wrong, she's a very good person. Principled, beautiful, family-oriented with a value system that many girls today simply lack. For my part, I promised her, for example, that I would go to see her, but I didn't do it, not once but many times. I lined up lies among lies, I found excuses not to stay with her. I hate myself a lot for lying to her! I hate lies because I have experienced them on my own. I became exactly the kind of man I hated. Promises without coverage, I became absolutely invertebrate. But I felt like he was suffocating me somehow. I did not cheat, I did not have such an intention. There was a separation after 2 years together, which was initiated by me because the scandals about the smallest things were constant, absolutely every day. I tried dating other women after the breakup, but they just weren't what I wanted at all. I was afraid of dying, I died alone and after 8 months we met again. But I don't know if I love her !? I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !? I became exactly the kind of man I hated. Promises without coverage, I became absolutely invertebrate. But I felt like he was suffocating me somehow. I did not cheat, I did not have such an intention. There was a separation after 2 years together, which was initiated by me because the scandals about the smallest things were constant, absolutely every day. I tried dating other women after the breakup, but they just weren't what I wanted at all. I was afraid of dying, I died alone and after 8 months we met again. But I don't know if I love her !? I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !?
I became exactly the kind of man I hated. Promises without coverage, I became absolutely invertebrate. But I felt like he was suffocating me somehow. I did not cheat, I did not have such an intention. There was a separation after 2 years together, which was initiated by me because the scandals about the smallest things were constant, absolutely every day. I tried dating other women after the breakup, but they just weren't what I wanted at all. I was afraid of dying, I died alone and after 8 months we met again. But I don't know if I love her !? I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !? I became absolutely invertebrate. But I felt like he was suffocating me somehow. I did not cheat, I did not have such an intention. There was a separation after 2 years together, which was initiated by me because the scandals about the smallest things were constant, absolutely every day. I tried dating other women after the breakup, but they just weren't what I wanted at all. I was afraid of dying, I died alone and after 8 months we met again. But I don't know if I love her !? I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !? I became absolutely invertebrate. But I felt like he was suffocating me somehow. I did not cheat, I did not have such an intention. There was a separation after 2 years together, which was initiated by me because the scandals about the smallest things were constant, absolutely every day. I tried dating other women after the breakup, but they just weren't what I wanted at all. I was afraid of dying, I died alone and after 8 months we met again. But I don't know if I love her !?
I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !? which was initiated by me because scandals over the smallest things were constant, absolutely every day. I tried dating other women after the breakup, but they just weren't what I wanted at all. I was afraid of dying, I died alone and after 8 months we met again. But I don't know if I love her !? I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !? which was initiated by me because scandals over the smallest things were constant, absolutely every day. I tried dating other women after the breakup, but they just weren't what I wanted at all. I was afraid of dying, I died alone and after 8 months we met again. But I don't know if I love her !? I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !?
But I don't know if I love her !? I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !? But I don't know if I love her !? I'm not jealous of her, I can without calling her, avoid and be intimate with her. I feel afraid of loneliness, I'm afraid of dying alone and maybe that's why I'm looking for her all the time. Is there a way to know if I love her, or is it right for everyone to go their own way !?
1 williamjardell answered
Man, when you love, you do not understand it mentally, but with your heart you know it and you have no doubts. It's not love, I'm telling you from now on. If you loved her, you wouldn't feel suffocated at all. You did the right thing to her at certain moments, but you didn't do it out of feeling, because that's how it came to you from the inside, but to calm your conscience and because you thought it was the right behavior. When you treated her badly, you were actually doing exactly what you wanted inside - to be alone or with friends, instead of being with her. Love is not necessarily bound by jealousy, but you have a desire to be a part of another's life, and a good part, to make it better. You want the person for yourself, even if it sounds selfish, you want to be a color in the otherwise gray people. When you love, you want to be with your partner, if you will, and to be idle at both ends of a room. Love above all, it charges you. It gives you stimulus and meaning, it makes you want to be better. You don't love her, you're attached and you like that she loves you.