How Do I Get Out Of This Vicious Circle?

   Naughty, I'm a boy and I'm in the same situation, you don't believe it :) and I didn't believe it! the right one will come out of nowhere.

   Well, change the type of people you're dating, obviously not the right one. Go out with someone shy, at least they are people who did not have much and appreciate the little they have. Because whether it is known or not, it is known after that.

   It always starts with sex. Then people fall in love if they like it. If Mhja finds out you're obsessed, he'll run away quickly. Men run after disinterested women.

   I do not want to offend the author, but I think she should think about what she offers as a woman. If she is smart, beautiful, with a well-educated profession and good company, it makes no sense for men to want to be with her just for sex. Of course, there is also the possibility that she is trying to exceed her capabilities and come across only men who would not want to be associated with her, no matter how wonderful. On the other hand, if the author has nothing to offer as a woman, unfortunately, men who want something serious with a girl like her will be a little or at least a very different type.

   In my opinion, the key is somewhere here "After that I had several relationships, but nothing serious." - When you stop offering only sex, you will get the necessary attention.

   As a man, I can't understand you, author? Are you belittling sex? I am interested in female attention and company almost only because of sexual attraction, I don't even say sex but the female presence and the feeling of pheromones and attraction that happens to some. If this is not the case, what is my female company for? To talk gossip and listen to her complaints? Do I have to be attracted and enchanted by this? Without sexual attraction, a woman is of no interest to a man, so I don't understand at all what you really expect, author? If you mean the man to listen to you, to show interest and to want you to be together for a long time, then I understand - yes, but it already depends on how you treat him.