Hello! I need help! I have a serious (if you can say so) friend of 5 years and a few months ... in the interest of the truth I have never cheated on him, but this does not apply to him :( By the way, I am only 20 ... in all the time with him he was faithful to me only 1 month! For almost 2 years I do not feel anything for him ... I know I sound like some naive and small, but it's not ... I know that he cheats on me, I know who he was with and when, but the problem is that I don't love him and I don't want to be with him - I tried to leave him several times, but he didn't leave me ... And I've been on sedatives recently because I can't I'm patient, but we live together and he doesn't want to move out! For some time now he has been threatening to beat me if I dump him, and he has already beaten me twice and I don't know what to do because I'm very scared; ( And I don't want to live as a slave all my life !!! !! After all, we live in the 21st century, I am a slave to a complex! How to save ?? Please help!!!
Sweet girl stepped on the miserable middle leg! It happened but very badly! What is it that will take you for granted, hurt you, "kill" you or crush you at this age ?! I'm sure you're a beautiful and smart girl who can get out of this situation, grab your life under your arm and beat the bastard! Nothing prevents you from taking things out one day and going to your relatives without him knowing, and if you think he will go looking for you - go to a hotel or somewhere with an acquaintance to pass ... If I don't know where you live - an apartment or a house, but if it is your home, win it ... Get on your feet like a man, such animals have no right to crush us and we have to sit quietly! Who is he to lie to you and then threaten you ?! Go bold! Don't leave things like that, share with your father ... Let him help you too!
Nowhere, you don't mention anything about your parents. If you have them or they are close to you, seek help from them. They would shake your hand at any moment. If you do not have this opportunity, ask girlfriends to pull you out of it. They will also help you, one way or another, as long as they stick to you. If you can't afford that either, it's best to report the physical and mental harassment to the police. They will immediately put you in a position, because this is a serious thing. Don't be afraid to do it and know that he wouldn't touch you after this complaint, because if things happen again after a warning, he goes behind bars. You yourself say that you are only 20 years old, life is in front of you. Do one of the ways listed above. If all this cannot be done, write again on this site, we will come up with something. Success! SFA
If you haven't told him you have no feelings for him anymore, do it. Tell him you know about his infidelities if you haven't done it. If he starts behaving like an oligophrenic, pretending to be a big man and acting violently, call the police, then sue him if he has to ... let's see if he'll be as airbnb as they say. This is my advice. I just don't see any other way you can break up with him.
Hello, my name is Lazar and my comment is run quickly, maybe abroad, but far from him he is a complete wretch, the one who loves never hurts the loved one, we can write to each other by email or [email protected]: Lazako13
RUN VERY FAST.
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Hello, I think you should not be afraid to leave it, go to relatives and friends, seek help and protection, only you can get out of this prison. As far as I understand, he is a big freak, so be brave and leave as soon as possible. Good luck
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And where are your parents? Turn to them for help !!! Good luck!!!