Hello, a girl of 20 writes to you. The problem is the following: I don't get along with my parents! There is the question that they never gave me the right to an opinion, there were times when they behaved horribly, there were constant quarrels between us, thousands of bans on meaningless things and the imposition of their opinion. I'm still studying and no matter what job I get, I won't be able to pay for my education, let alone stay for accommodation and bills, as the amount is BGN 1,200 per semester. That's what keeps me going, if you ask why I haven't moved out yet. Any advice what to do? At first I treated them well, I accepted the fact that they were worried about me, but this attitude lasted for years and I could not stand it. Every time they share what I think, it's as if they don't listen to me and pretend I'm not in the room. It hurts me from all this neglect.
1 lilithmuse answered
Talk to them. You sit at the table one day and calmly tell them that you want to talk to them. You will tell them how you feel that they are pressuring you, and so on. If things do not work out with the conversation and they start arguing with you again, offer them to go to a psychologist better than I can not remember.