Hi from me too, dear girl, I guess you've already talked to your boyfriend, but I don't know why I think nothing will come of the conversation. Yesterday I read your topic and today I wanted to see if there is a development and if you wrote. I hope things work out in the best possible way for you. Very insulting words addressed to a woman in love. Unfortunately, men do not pay attention to words and how they hurt us. However, what he wrote is very insulting ... I am over 40 years old and I still remember the time when my boyfriends kept finding fault with me: student love, that I was thin, but my ass was very big and that I had to tighten up and take an example from our fellow student, who was very well put together / she did not go to lectures and exercises and could barely make ends meet, not working /; ex-husband - that I was very short and boiled in his socks and it was not a joke, I assure you / as if I could hide my height before marriage - it is true that I am 1.60, and he-1.90 /. It is true that the reason for the end of my relationship with student love and my marriage are not these words, but I still remember them, right. Then, when the end came, they went to beg me to give them one last chance and to continue with me, the ugly and unworthy of their persona, but too late. Now I can say that I look much better than most of my peers, and also than women younger than me. For me, the key is moderation in everything: I do not drink, I do not smoke, I eat white bread and meat, cheese, milk, fruits, vegetables, sweets in moderation; I walk a lot, I don't train anything / I'm not a sports type /, but mostly the key is that I like myself like that, as I am - with cellulite here and there, with a height of 1.60 and a weight of about 50-53 kg, with the small belly that I recently lost, with gray hair, but I do not care that a man did not like me so much, not to worry about competition. The truth is that now I have many more candidates for a serious relationship than when I was younger, but who cares. I choose, not only me ... Courage and head up, for someone you will be the most beautiful !!! / Courage and head up, for someone you will be the most beautiful !!! / Courage and head up, for someone you will be the most beautiful !!! /
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Look, I know it's cruel, but it's time to start liking yourself the way you are or change something. Your friend knows very well that he is not physically attractive, but this is not so scary for a man if he has a good job and has succeeded - men measure each other like that, it is not by chance that they give crazy money for cars and similar gadgets. For a woman, physical beauty is the measure. The truth can hurt, but it can also be an occasion for a person to wake up, to say to himself - right, I'm young, I can do something of myself and see him later! You choose whether to stay with him or not, but in your place I would first pay attention - the fastest and easiest way to change hair, cosmetics, clothes, style. Consult an attractive friend. In general, men have always liked women with long hair. If you do not have a nice body, enroll in a gym and change your diet. There are a lot of attractive men there, apart from the fat in the sports clubs, who will pay attention to you / many women are not there / and will increase your self-confidence. Clothes? But do it for yourself !!! Every woman can do something of herself, as long as she asks. Pleasure doesn't even have to be expensive. A woman with long hair, for example, visits the hairdresser much less often, you can have a few, but nice clothes, etc. Success