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2 coco8112 answered
First of all, congratulations on a well-written and interesting topic. Many people like you are torn by envy, but the difference is that you realize it and most likely control envy, it does not control you because envy is human, but many people allow themselves to be led and thus harm their neighbors just because your own envy and bile. Envy is not a bad thing - it can even motivate you to achieve more, but what do you do at 24 in your parents' home? It's been time to move out for at least 5 years! There are people who are happy to live with their parents, share expenses, responsibilities, live in peace, but this is rare. You live in an absolutely poisonous home, you are even infected by the passivity of your parents, who can't even clean up ... because there was no money for detergents ??? Preparations large otherwise do not need - one faith, in your case bleach for 85 cents, mushrooms, gloves, soda, limontozu and glass cleaner from the cheapest to BGN 5 in total for everything and you start cleaning - in 1-2 days you have cleaned your home, but I think that it is even better to move out of there, because you live not only in a poisonous home, but also in a poisonous family, and without realizing it, you have poisoned yourself with their way of life and thinking - even worse - you yourself have even you didn't think to clear for example, but you are waiting ... for something to happen someday. Your problem with bathing and cold is nervous. Without realizing it, you have already become antisocial to others, because today people bathe at least once a day, which means that you are unpleasantly visible (nose). I am sure that if you move out of there you will live better. Therefore, the solution is one - look for accommodation (ROOM) in Sofia or in your city. In Sofia, one room is BGN 200-250, including electricity, internet, heating, hot water "on your stomach" and furniture! You will live with other young people, and even if you take some 650-800 BGN (which in Sofia even the cleaner takes), you will live much better than now you will have a chance for a man and a family. You are 24 years old and you live with your parents, you tremble all day physically and mentally and take a bath once a week? How long?
3 cute_horny_trainer answered
Get out of there, the problem is yours.
4 mustboy99 answered
From the author: Hello and thanks for the comments (I see only 1. and 2. so far). I will try to answer your questions. I do not export because I prefer the money I would give for rent to give for my own home. And because in general I have no other problem with ours. They are good people, they do not harass me in any way. I found a job in my hometown with great luck. About bathing - I was told that if I wanted I could go in every day, but to stay for ten minutes, which is impossible. I drain at least one water heater, and in winter I keep it on while I take a bath. I bathe more often in the summer because I don't waste so much water. The problem with the cold is called vegetative dystonia, which means that my blood vessels constrict suddenly for no reason. At least that's what they told me. I was also told that I might have a cold allergy (hereditary). For cleaning - the problem is not in the detergents, but in the fact that if, for example, I have to clean under the beds, all this luggage, which is under them, is full of dust - boxes full of garbage and dust. That is, I have to clean every piece of garbage from dust. But this dust will rise and accumulate in the dull Persian carpet, as well as in the other rubbish around the room. Just to clean the whole apartment and make it normal, it takes at least a week and a garbage truck ... The problem that I started the story is that my parents constantly claim that they are right and that I will understand them "one day "when I understand life, when I have a family, etc. And knowing them and knowing that they would never do or say anything to harm me, I don't know who to trust. And they really only live for me, the last thing, what can be said about them is that they are selfish or that they do not love their child. They never did anything for themselves, just for me. If they are not at work (weekends, holidays) - they spend only in work in the countryside (or possibly some repairs at home), ie 100% of their "free" time is WORK - "because of me". So how can I not trust such people? !!
5 quinnipiacu answered
Author, look, you're saving on heat, and you're talking about your own home? It's something like the fairy tale "Hungry hen, millet dreams." Not only will you never have a home of your own, but you can never find a husband and friends with your quirks and lifestyle. You are mentally deviating more and more from the normal because of the BGN 100 rent, which is the rent of whole apartments in the Province! The only chance for a person like you to live in their own home at all is to find a man with one or pay a home with a man, but you are increasingly deviating from the norm and will most likely die as an old maid in the home of these people. As for cleaning - you're wrong. You can always clean a house - you need water and a rag. For example, find yours to be in the village and start throwing away the broken and unnecessary things first - not all at once, and let's say 1-2 sacks this time, the next time as much. They will not feel the lack of these things because they have never used them and will not use them. I have similar parents, but I moved out at the age of 19. During a visit for the holidays, I just couldn't stand it and while they were at the market, I just threw 2 bags of unnecessary, broken things out of the kitchen. My father had even put away a jug when passing the container, but there was nothing more he could do, because I had thrown things in different containers :) Then they even thanked me. It is important to clean things up little by little and yes - you take everything you need in your hands and clean, change the water and clean. Special preparations are not needed, but only two or three drops of vero. Every Saturday and Sunday 1 room to clean (without your bedroom!), For 3 weeks you will clean everything. You can also buy white paint for walls and bedspreads and start painting room after room the walls and these things whether you want to stay in this home or not - do it for your parents. There is even paint for the bathroom with which to paint the walls, including there is paint for tiles - ONLY WHITE, with which you can paint the tiles. . Separately, your illness is 100% nervous and you are looking for a psychologist. You weren't born with it, for example, and just by thinking about a cold shower, I'm convinced you're hardening. This happened to you because of life with yours, because of life in this home and with these people. I'm not saying that they are bad, but it's just not your place at the age of 24 to live with yours ... You will wake up at the age of 35. and you'll be there again if you don't leave now. Separately, no normal man is crazy to deal with you and so you will be buried for life in your dirty home with these people. Conclusion - get out! Conclusion 2 - do your house a favor and throw away broken and unnecessary things, but not all at once refresh the home with a little paint. It is easy to paint with new paints - I tell you from personal experience, but it is just important to cover well and clean your drops immediately. Good luck
6 annidigitalofficial answered
Why do you think that she will be left without a husband, I have an acquaintance who was not allowed to clean in them because she would get dirty again, but she found a husband, otherwise it is quite difficult to live with her parents after a certain age, although many people in Bulgaria live with theirs, we can watch a lot of movies, we still don't live in America, but if some of them want to live on their own they can do it, but I don't know if she won't be lonely if she is alone.
7 lucianamoon answered
I have the same problem with my mother. Because "you didn't live in the time of socialism and you don't know what it's like to have nothing," she drowned herself in all sorts of nonsense she didn't even know existed: tons of torn clothes, dozens of pairs of crumbling shoes, jars, rags, broken furniture. , a cassette player from the time of the social network, on which I will listen to discs (!!) and cassettes, even though I use a computer with speakers, and thousands of other garbage that is stored because "one day I will need it". There is no need to talk about cleaning - flushing the toilet after a small bowel movement is something out of the question, and I can't even tell you when to take a last bath. For washing the floor and things like that - absurd. I always have to run after her with the rag. When I asked him how he could live like a pig, he replied that you hadn't seen it and that I had imagined it. I remember, that when I was little, I had the same problems as you ... I could never invite home because I was ashamed of all the misery. At one point I just couldn't stand it and said enough. I dug up all the "treasures", stuffed them in sacks and directly into the bucket. The most interesting thing was that you did it while he slept - I wandered all night to the containers to throw away. He didn't even notice! When I asked her how I arranged everything, I answered that I put it in cupboards and wardrobes. So act a little less and you ... It's time consuming, it's annoying, but there's no way. while he sleeps, I wandered all night to the dumpsters to throw them away. He didn't even notice! When I asked her how I arranged everything, I answered that I put it in cupboards and wardrobes. So act a little less and you ... It's time consuming, it's annoying, but there's no way. while he sleeps, I wandered all night to the dumpsters to throw them away. He didn't even notice! When I asked her how I arranged everything, I answered that I put it in cupboards and wardrobes. So act a little less and you ... It's time consuming, it's annoying, but there's no way.
8 sexyblackhairbaby answered
Number 7, he made me laugh. I imagined you wandering around your house with a mask on your head like a criminal in search of "treasure." Interestingly, my parents didn't understand when I took out at least 10 bags of garbage, but I didn't get to night performances, I just stalked them when they were at the market, and the author can use them when they are in the village, for example, to invent, that this weekend must work overtime. My parents noticed the lack of only up to 5 items such as a rusty grater, a knife and a cutting board. The offer was that I would buy them brand new things that they described to me as missing - I gave exactly BGN 20 for the purchases of the grater in question, a knife and other nonsense. My rule when cleaning was simple - everything that is broken, unnecessary or I have never seen used in my life goes away. I couldn't take things out, so I stored 10 bags in the basement and took them out one by one for the next 3 days, and the most important thing was to throw things not in our bin, but in the containers of the neighboring blocks. My cousin was even more extreme - he took a chainsaw and in about a week he even managed to cut and cut furniture and the principle was with the cutter he cut things in half and ended ... because he is big there was nothing theirs could do for 1 week cleaned the whole house and because they had heating burned garbage all winter :) Of course, since then ours have accumulated more garbage For example, bought a new kitchen (that's why I had the opportunity to clean), but the old lockers did not throw away - they might need. Some of them actually worked as lockers in the basement and closet, but the rest have been piling up in the garden for at least 7 years. The whole yard has become a dump, but unfortunately there are not even thieving gypsies in our city to take out the iron they have collected, but this is an idea - I will pay gypsies to "rob" them and clean them, because it is intolerable. When I was young, my grandmother kept the yard clean, tidy, and it was my favorite place to play, and my parents turned it into a dump. Needless to say, we never leave them, we are at a hotel when we visit. This has been so from the beginning and will be so. Even when I come to see them or do some work alone, I am in a hotel, because you can't live in their home, and the situation is not half as bad as with the Author - they repaired, cleaned regularly, but just my father above all collects garbage. but this is also an idea - I will pay gypsies to "rob" them and clean them up, because it is intolerable. When I was young, my grandmother kept the yard clean, tidy, and it was my favorite place to play, and my parents turned it into a dump. Needless to say, we never leave them, we are at a hotel when we visit. This has been so from the beginning and will be so. Even when I come to see them or do some work alone, I am in a hotel, because you can't live in their home, and the situation is not half as bad as with the Author - they repaired, cleaned regularly, but just my father above all collects garbage. but this is also an idea - I will pay gypsies to "rob" them and clean them up, because it is intolerable. When I was young, my grandmother kept the yard clean, tidy, and it was my favorite place to play, and my parents turned it into a dump. Needless to say, we never leave them, we are at a hotel when we visit. This has been so from the beginning and will be so. Even when I come to see them or do some work alone, I am in a hotel, because you can't live in their home, and the situation is not half as bad as with the Author - they repaired, cleaned regularly, but just my father above all collects garbage. that we never leave with them, but we are at a hotel when we are visiting. This has been so from the beginning and will be so. Even when I come to see them or do some work alone, I am in a hotel, because you can't live in their home, and the situation is not half as bad as with the Author - they repaired, cleaned regularly, but just my father above all collects garbage. that we never leave with them, but we are at a hotel when we are visiting. This has been so from the beginning and will be so. Even when I come to see them or do some work alone, I am in a hotel, because you can't live in their home, and the situation is not half as bad as with the Author - they repaired, cleaned regularly, but just my father above all collects garbage.
9 azizbehich answered
Yes, maybe it's time to move out and live alone. This will give you a lot of skills, as well as give you the opportunity to make decisions without having to hear someone else's opinion requested or not. For example, I have managed to deal with envy. I realized that didn't make sense. You alone cause misery. Good and bad happen to everyone. You too. So if something good has happened to a person, it is clear that something bad has happened to him - life is always like that. Why should a person not feel a moment of happiness, a fulfilled ambition or a good moment? Everyone deserves good things to happen to them. If it is related to money, in many cases, when good things happen to their orphan, be it material or mental, know that in order to do what they do, then people have worked hard for it, they have been deprived, etc. They simply decided to split or limit themselves to one at the expense of another. Everyone wants different things, it just takes time to get them. And this time is also connected with organization over finances.
10 braebrae4271 answered
"And because in general I have no other problem than ours." You just have this problem, but it's big enough. When will you be able to raise money for housing? I'll tell you - probably never. If you find a man and work hard, but both of you, then you will succeed. With credit, of course. Having your own home is not so important, it is important to live well. I don't understand at all how you tolerate this situation. Apparently not you and makes such a big impression, which is not good.
11 desixxxchutcam answered
In the described story I seem to see ours, except that my mother is a little maniac on the subject of hygiene and cleanliness. I am 17 and I plan to disappear as soon as I finish 12th grade and go to Sofia or Plovdiv, because the two biggest cities are closest to me. I was also not allowed to wash every day, I was allowed to bathe once a week, because when I entered I stood for 2 hours and poured 1 boiler of water. All others are washed for 5 minutes, 1 shower every day in winter, 2 times in summer, but very quickly. At the beginning I got a little carried away when I turned on the hot water and when I started to pour myself with it and I forgot to stop it and go out and go out only when it was cold. But I got used to it. You undress, go in, run the hot water and very quickly soap yourself nicely underneath, arms, arms, legs. While rubbing, stop the water, do not let it flow in vain. And so I got used to it, I wash with a minimum amount of water every day. I heard from a friend that in order not to waste water, she washed herself in a basin with hot water and thus drained no more than 2 liters of water. After all, we are women, we cannot walk dirty. You may not sweat, but every day you go for small and large needs, at least from below you must wash. Another problem is that with poor intimate hygiene you can get fungus and everything.
12 annygiil answered
I am the author: Really useless / broken things are a very small part, I conditionally called them "garbage". These are mostly fabrics, clothes, shoes (old ones that stand as "spare"), as well as various "handy materials" that would be used for something someday. Our people can't help but notice if they disappear, because they stick to them. I lived alone - 4 years, in another city, in a flat. I know what it is, but now I have another priority. The thing is, my parents are completely "normal" in every other way. In a sense, they are not some simple and dumb people, as you might imagine. I would define them as intelligent people, and maybe that's why they are so convincing in their rights.
13 hugetitz03 answered
Author, those who say that you will not be able to collect for your own home are right, or at least it will not be soon, but only after 20 years, for example. Well, unless you aspire to find a drastically higher paying job. I will tell you the following: move to a place to stay - something simple in your town, it will really be found for BGN 100, you just have to look actively. Even if you have a minimum salary of BGN 400, you will still have enough money. You will start bathing every day - this is very important. Go for a walk in nature on Saturday and Sunday. Do things for yourself, for your appearance - you feel better in your skin, even if things are cheap according to your salary, you will still see that it will have an incredibly positive effect on your self-esteem and psyche. And a man will appear in time, but don't wait to find a man and only then will your life begin - my thought is that you have to be an independent person purely mentally. And the good news is that you are a child and you will inherit your apartment - you have nothing to buy - in 30 years you will live with you as an owner and you will arrange everything as you want. Until then, live in an apartment, as we found out in your town, it will not be expensive, because it is not Sofia, for example, and after a while your salary will go up, and when you meet a man you will decide whether to stay or buy. , but you have a home for your old age by birth, so spend your money more for pleasure. I believe that yours are really good people and they love you very much, but these people were quite complex and congested long before they gave birth to you and that's why you have to move out of you,
14 hmm_interesting answered
I understand you very well, because ours were the same plushkins. They lived in the society when there was a shortage of goods and everything was of great value and was not thrown away because it could be needed. Everything was kept and collected. Our apartment had become a warehouse. My mother kept everything and did not throw away anything - old shoes, clothes, sacks full of everything, papers, notebooks, cassettes, even my father's military pants were kept. It was impossible to repair items. And they didn't even notice what our home had become. The kitchen, bathroom and toilet were and still are a horror. They haven't seen repairs in a hundred years, or any renovation of appliances. How many times have I talked to my mother, "Let's throw away some of the stuff," and she kept putting it off and not bothering. Otherwise, she was ashamed because she said that in our country it is not like in the people, but nothing was done to fix this warehouse. And I was ashamed to invite friends because I couldn't stand it. It's good that I moved out of there at the age of 21, that I don't know how I was going to drive it. Then I got married and saved myself from this landscape. After a while, my sister left home and got married ... And I threw away some of the things when I lived there. One night, when they were in the village, I threw away 8 sacks of junk from us. To this day, she hasn't even realized that these things are gone .... There are no deals with such people. My father died 15 years ago, and my mother is the same. , no, this may be necessary ". And it wasn't about the money in the case because they had enough, at least no less than other people, but they never undertook to update their things (except in the living room, where they bought a new section and a Persian rug) to modernize their interior and improve the quality of life. They just worked and saved ... and for what they had, if necessary. I try not to be like them, but at times I find myself acting like them. My husband is the opposite and that's why we quarrel at home sometimes ... I hope it doesn't become a difficult case like theirs. :) It's good that I read this topic, tomorrow I'll start cleaning up before Christmas ... and throw away some things :) but at times I find myself acting like them. My husband is the opposite and that's why we quarrel at home sometimes ... I hope it doesn't become a difficult case like theirs. :) It's good that I read this topic, tomorrow I'll start cleaning up before Christmas ... and throw away some things :) but at times I find myself acting like them. My husband is the opposite and that's why we quarrel at home sometimes ... I hope it doesn't become a difficult case like theirs. :) It's good that I read this topic, tomorrow I'll start cleaning up before Christmas ... and throw away some things :)
15 twosluttywhores222 answered
PS Ah, I forgot to say that I have never envied others, nooo .... I just secretly dreamed that my parents would be like them, especially like some - to arrange, repair and renovate, modernize and sanitize the home are you .... Why weren't my parents like that too? But I don't think I'll wait for him anymore. It's just that I have a home and a family to think about and invest my energy in for a long time.
16 constance_black answered
I totally agree with number 10 !! Separate yourself or find roommates, work, have fun, make contacts .. I just have no words ...
17 gigexep answered
Until n. 13 Indeed, if she is single, money is slowly collected for housing, unless she has an extremely high-paying job ... She will hardly be able to live with her family here even after she gets married. Only after 30-40 years. possibly ... When she receives it as an inheritance one day .... This means that not she, but her children will be able to use it one day. But she will be 50-60 years old when she gets rid of the current inhabitants and only then the new owners will be able to get rid of this species and use it .... ie it will sit for the grandchildren. But she is a young man - only 24 years old. If you find a decent man and move out of there, it will be best to think.
18 y0bull answered
So I'm number 13, I don't know why they didn't publish my comment, but first he has to move out, get used to living on his own. Then at some point a friend will appear. Maybe in 3 months, maybe in 5 years, because, as she said, she returned to live in the town where she grew up and from this we can conclude that the chance to meet a man is soon quite small, because she can would know peers and people in general who are a little older than her say, and have not gone to live elsewhere. Well, yes, I went into an explanation too, but it's not easy. Another terribly important reason why she has to move out on her own, I didn't want to point her out, she is known and I will remind you - she doesn't bathe every day. And she must start bathing every day. Otherwise who will want to be with her, except some maniac - a fetishist? !? It can be seen that theirs are a problem for her, because she was slow, as she is slow - slowly, if you need 2 boilers per 1 bath, she will waste, but there is no other way. And since she is not at home with theirs and she is not bothered to hurry, maybe in 1-2 years she will naturally start to cope at least a little harder, but with the influence on the psyche of her parents there is no way. And dirty, as I said, no normal person will want her.
19 raginghammer162 answered
I am the author: Number 13/19, I have already written that I have lived alone for 4 years and also about the reason why I stay in the shower longer. And my mother bathes once a week (winter), but both sweat does not smell, we have dry hair and it is not visible. She manages to hide everything from people. He puts on his rags at home (and makes me wear clothes at the age of ten; not to stain / wear them out), and outside - with more or less nice clothes. People do not know what kind of pigsty we have, because she does not go to visit and accordingly does not invite anyone home. She says that her colleagues were like her, they talked about what they cooked, what work they did in the village ... In my opinion, my parents suffer from a phobia of life, even on holidays they do not forget this phobia. On New Year's Eve we were in the village (my father lives there and looks after my grandfather, who is ill). We sit down to dinner - both sullen. I ask why - they were tired, what to celebrate when they were beaten, life was I do not know what. My father didn't even sit down to dinner, but lay down on the couch to sleep. Later he got up, and shortly after that my mother lay down there and fell asleep. They got up at midnight as much as the tradition, but they couldn't wait to finish and go to bed. I know - you'll say I'm not with them, but that can't change anything anymore. I've lived this way for as long as I can remember, I've taken it for granted all the time I've been developing as a person, then I thought I deserved it so much, and when I started making it a problem, they started instilling in me that if I do not live like this, I will die of hunger and cold. Thank you for the comments, don't get me wrong, but there's no way anonymous people's opinions can change anything, planted for more than two decades. Rather, I would like to receive advice on how to deal with the feeling of envy I feel towards people, currently towards my colleagues at work.
20 missdollycastro answered
I am number 13 again, Author, I will repeat this again with the presentation, not for the experience, but for not influencing your psyche in the future. Yes, they have influenced you a lot, but the more you are with them, the more crushed and crazy you will feel. Remember that as long as you live with yours, you will not change, on the contrary - you will get worse, you will continue to feel envy and all sorts of other negative emotions. Only the export will take you out mentally, even from the feeling of envy. It won't be right away, but it will be in a few years. As you continue to coexist with them and only think about the past, about your childhood, about their characters. You just have to break away from them. Although they are good people, they are super complex and congested and this has affected you, it continues to affect you and will affect you until you get rid of them. You see other people, who are more beautiful, and smiling and positive, and in order to become at least half like these people, you have to end your coexistence with yours and take care of yourself, buy things, pamper yourself from time to time - recharge with positivism and will gradually begin to diminish this feeling. Guests for Christmas and Easter at yours and that's it. As you begin to live alone, you will gradually begin to do some things differently from your mother. One by one, of course. And without sharing it with her, and you are no longer obliged to give her an account. Here, it's a good idea - to go out and do something every week that they (yours) wouldn't approve of! - but not illegal things, right. And you will see that it will have a positive effect. It just won't be fast. and smiling and positive and to become at least half like these people you have to end your coexistence with yours and take care of yourself, buy things, pamper yourself from time to time - recharge with positivism and gradually begin to reduce this feeling. Guests for Christmas and Easter at yours and that's it. As you begin to live alone, you will gradually begin to do some things differently from your mother. One by one, of course. And without sharing it with her, and you are no longer obliged to give her an account. Here, it's a good idea - to go out and do something every week that they (yours) wouldn't approve of! - but not illegal things, right. And you will see that it will have a positive effect. It just won't be fast. and smiling and positive and to become at least half like these people you have to stop living with yours and take care of yourself, to buy things, to pamper yourself from time to time - to charge yourself with positivism and gradually it will start to reduce this feeling. Guests for Christmas and Easter at yours and that's it. As you begin to live alone, you will gradually begin to do some things differently from your mother. One by one, of course. And without sharing it with her, and you are no longer obliged to give her an account. Here, it's a good idea - to go out and do something every week that they (yours) wouldn't approve of! - but not illegal things, right. And you will see that it will have a positive effect. It just won't be fast. to pamper yourself from time to time - to charge yourself with positivism and gradually this feeling will begin to decrease. Guests for Christmas and Easter at yours and that's it. As you begin to live alone, you will gradually begin to do some things differently from your mother. One by one, of course. And without sharing it with her, and you are no longer obliged to give her an account. Here, it's a good idea - to go out and do something every week that they (yours) wouldn't approve of! - but not illegal things, right. And you will see that it will have a positive effect. It just won't be fast. to pamper yourself from time to time - to charge yourself with positivism and gradually this feeling will begin to decrease. Guests for Christmas and Easter at yours and that's it. As you begin to live alone, you will gradually begin to do some things differently from your mother. One by one, of course. And without sharing it with her, and you are no longer obliged to give her an account. Here, it's a good idea - to go out and do something every week that they (yours) wouldn't approve of! - but not illegal things, right. And you will see that it will have a positive effect. It just won't be fast. it's a good idea - to go out and do something every week that they (yours) wouldn't approve of! - but not illegal things, right. And you will see that it will have a positive effect. It just won't be fast. it's a good idea - to go out and do something every week that they (yours) wouldn't approve of! - but not illegal things, right. And you will see that it will have a positive effect. It just won't be fast.
21 l.cobelli answered
And why do you envy them - because it's easier for you, instead of making some effort and changing the things you don't like in your life? Rather, make an effort to change the things you don't like. And if in your childhood you were unable to change your living environment, now as a mature person everything is in your hands ... as long as you ask for it strongly enough. Now you control your life, not your parents. And even though something has been planted in you, when you see the negatives and want change, make an effort to change it ... You always have a choice to change something, always. For example, you had the opportunity to go to study in a bigger city and get out of there, you left, you graduated, but you decided to go back. Why? This is the choice you made ... You knew where you were going ... Why are you jealous now that you have chosen this? Now I see, that you don't want to go out on the pretext that you're going to raise money for a house. But this does not happen in a year or two, and time passes ... Apparently you are comfortable and cozy there in spite of everything and that is why you press yourself to stay. In that case, do not envy anyone ... Your current life is the result of your free choice ... As such, you can only slightly distance yourself from yours, even if you live with them, and live your life according to your way and pray to meet the right person to get out of there ... You your parents will not change them. However, you can change yourself and choose something different for yourself. You don't seem to understand that the longer you stay in this environment, the more it poisons your consciousness with phobias, tragedy, depression, crushing, etc., and if you absorb, you absorb. In the end, not to be so damaged on a subconscious level, that you cannot create your own family with a different way of life than your parents', copying them as a model and way of life. It's up to you ...
22 ddancer420 answered
xA. You can't change yours. You don't want to go out. Don't expect anything to improve. Envy that others have more and lead a better life means that you do not like your life. But he who has not strained has received nothing. There are worse than you, much poorer. It is a pity that you envy that you do not want to succeed on your own. Don't blame your parents, look after yourself. You are not looking at yourself.
23 sarah_angeleyes answered
I don't know what to advise you ... We have more or less the same job. My mother corpses, it asks. As a high school student, I received a scholarship for excellent achievement, saved money and bought latex, paint, made repairs, painted the front door. I cleaned, cooked, cut the grass. I got married and I was happy that I could keep my home the way I wanted. And at home with ours there was another pigsty. When I make a remark and it becomes a dandanya - everything is important to her, she needs everything. When I send the child for the holidays, it turns out that they don't bathe him for days so that he doesn't catch a cold ... Once my hat tightened and I turned around with some sacks, but she took it out and put the luggage back, I stomped, she took it out. People give her some clothes, she knows she will never put them on, she takes them. When my husband says - let's go to guests, to surprise them, my hair is just bristling, knowing how to cook them. I'm always trying to warn, so that it can be fixed a little. The last time I wanted to sink into the ground from shame-dust, cobwebs, luggage, clothes ... My brother and that old bachelor stayed-told-which one to bring here. But he does not take measures to export, he can afford it. To the author - If you want to change something - change your situation, you will not be able to change them. I tell you with the best of feelings. They have been like this all their lives, there are such mental disorders, there are also on TV shows, ask for help from a specialist as a last attempt to influence them. If your lifestyle changes, your perception of the world will probably change and you will feel better in the environment of colleagues and friends. Good luck and write how it goes! clothes ... My brother and that old bachelor stayed-told-which one to bring here. But he does not take measures to export, he can afford it. To the author - If you want to change something - change your situation, you will not be able to change them. I tell you with the best of feelings.
They have been like this all their lives, there are such mental disorders, there are also on TV shows, ask for help from a specialist as a last attempt to influence them. If your lifestyle changes, your perception of the world will probably change and you will feel better in the environment of colleagues and friends. Good luck and write how it goes! clothes ... My brother and that old bachelor stayed-told-which one to bring here. But he does not take measures to export, he can afford it. To the author - If you want to change something - change your situation, you will not be able to change them. I tell you with the best of feelings. They have been like this all their lives, there are such mental disorders, there are also on TV shows, ask for help from a specialist as a last attempt to influence them. If your lifestyle changes, your perception of the world will probably change and you will feel better in the environment of colleagues and friends. Good luck and write how it goes! there are also TV shows, ask for help from a specialist as a last attempt to influence them. If your lifestyle changes, your perception of the world will probably change and you will feel better in the environment of colleagues and friends. Good luck and write how it goes! there are also TV shows, ask for help from a specialist as a last attempt to influence them. If your lifestyle changes, your perception of the world will probably change and you will feel better in the environment of colleagues and friends. Good luck and write how it goes!
1 mamanyapopol answered
You are 24 years old, move out and start your life. You live like gypsies. And how can you bathe once a week ?? That you will neither find friends nor a husband. Being determines consciousness. Get out of this misery and you will be reborn straight.