I am 28 years old I met a divorced man with a child, my colleague with whom we fell in love very much with each other. He adored me, carried me in his arms, proposed marriage to me every day, pressured me to give him an answer whether I would accept his child, whom I had not even seen at the time. As soon as this happened, I was very stressed by the whole situation and thank God 10 days later I was sent to study in France. He became very jealous, he kept insisting on my answer. There were ugly scenes with scandals and insults, he chased me dozens of times and I came back just as many times after his prayer. He wanted security, too, and for that very reason I did not give him a firm answer, I told him I needed time and I continued to prove my love by forgiving him all the scenes and insults. Later he kicked me out again and this time I didn't come back for 3 months, I didn't sleep, I didn't eat and I got to the edge and all this because of my pain and confusion. During these 3 months he cheated on me (he claims it was an attempt to run away from me and stop his pain). I forgave him and accepted him again. The problem is that now nothing is the same. I no longer feel his strong love and affection and he continues to claim that he loves me, but somehow I feel that he has grown cold to me. Give me advice on what to do to restore the strength of our feelings and his attachment to me. I no longer feel his strong love and affection and he continues to claim that he loves me, but somehow I feel that he has grown cold to me. Give me advice on what to do to restore the strength of our feelings and his attachment to me. I no longer feel his strong love and affection and he continues to claim that he loves me, but somehow I feel that he has grown cold to me. Give me advice on what to do to restore the strength of our feelings and his attachment to me.
1 SweetHelllena answered
I am a man. I read you the letter several times. You can't live with sex alone. Your friend is looking for a mother for his child. This is your problem. Don't write anything about yourself. At 28, you are not small. Are you beautiful Are you educated? Have you been married? Can you have children? Are you ready to be a good mother of your own and someone else's child? Are you a good housewife? Can you guard a house? Is the man a good father? Where does he live? How's the money? Do you drink And many other questions that one night, after you're done after sex, you both have to solve. Otherwise I can tell you straight. You are not for each other, at least as long as you are stubborn, dear lady.