I'm a girl, 21. I have a friend a year older than me. We have been together since the end of 2016, but we have separated several times. Most of the time it was for a short time, only once we were separated for 4 months (2017 August to the end of December). At first, our relationship was not serious for him. He cheated on me regularly and with different girls. Of course, I didn't know, but I understood and then we broke up for 4 months. I suspected he might be cheating on me because he just loves women's attention. Anyway. We exchanged roles for a year. Out of anger, I began to cheat on him. With different, even with his friends. He understood, but I didn't bother to hide it either. Somehow I wanted to make him jealous and maybe feel what I felt, how much he had hurt me. We parted many times and got together. But I kept going because I saw that he did not suffer as much as I did. He just knew that I had eyes only for him and that no one I was with could replace him. And so it was. It is said that in love one always loves more. We both knew it was me. But I was desperately trying to show him that was not the case. A month and a half ago we met again. And we had a long conversation. We agreed that there would be no more infidelities. I promised him that I was done with them and that he could trust me now. We decided to start fresh. But after everything I've done, he doesn't trust me at all. He constantly teases me about his infidelities and that even if he wants to, he can't believe me. He doubts everything I tell him, he always thinks that I continue to cheat on him. I trust him because after the 4 month separation he has changed for the better. But he, despite me, knows that I love him more than anything, he doesn't trust me. How can I prove to him that I am no longer what I used to be? How can I explain to him and make him believe me?
1 eva_cherry3 answered
Whatever was knocked called. Tell him if there's anyone to be angry with, he's angry with you, he challenged you to give him back. How as a man cheats a woman forgives, but a woman cheats the circuses start. I had such a case, to be honest, you will continue to quarrel and separate. Everyone will go their own way!