How Can I Open Her Eyes And Show Her That She Is Wrong ??

   Life will open both her eyes and yours, as it opened ours, to those older than you. It is best not to interfere in other people's lives, loves, interests, etc. The fact that someone trusts you and shares you does not mean that you have to commit to arranging his life as you think. must be. What is good for one is not so good for another. For now, the girl is dating someone else, whatever their relationship is, they ONLY affect them. If SHE asks you for a boyfriend, she will let you know. Women are the ones who choose which man to sleep with, have a family, a child, etc. eventually. Maybe if she breaks up with him, she'll ask for someone else - it's her right. No one has appointed you to be her guardian, guardian, mentor, or whatever you can think of. The other boys wanted sex, that's what every man wants, do you want her because of her character and success at school? Instinct is at the heart of gender relations, but you cannot dictate its choice. You can express your opinion, give advice and help if they want it, but that's it.

   Oh, you're so in love you love her. Because most people are selfish, and you don't want her to break up with her boyfriend and be with you at any cost, you just want the best for her. Good job son! You are a good person. The problem is that there is a great risk that you will forever remain your friend, on whose shoulder she can lean and cry. And that's it. And during this time, who will listen to your emotions and problems - us in the chat? Or a girl who is in love with you? I think you will fit in, age is not an issue either. The problem is that she has to see you in the role of a man, not just on a friendly shoulder. This does not mean to stop listening to her, but just to start trying to make her happy in another way ... If she is left alone, take her out on a date as soon as possible, but without calling him that. Without extremes and great recognitions, you can have a beer and stare at the stars in a park ... it doesn't matter. And just act like a girl you're in love with, not a girlfriend. You can hug her lightly, I know ... She will still feel the change. If he then doesn't decide that he wants to try you, you will obviously remain friends and that is ...

   Dude! You have written a lot, and I can answer all your questions. Your life is yours, and you can do whatever you want. Ask the sufferer and not the old man. I'm a 40-year-old man with a 5-year-old son with autism, and something like a woman 1 year older than me. Many times I have been in a similar situation as yours. Until I turned 25 and began to sigh about the lives of married couples who walked hand in hand, smiling and their children running around them. Gradually, this became my dream and fixed idea. I had a lot of connections. But after a year, our characters differed terribly. I fell. I was getting up. I was desperate. I came to a state of nervousness that was evident. Then a friend of mine / 35 years old / after a stroke, remained almost blind, grabbed me by the throat and told me: If you want to become like me - keep your nerves. I was afraid of a stroke. I calmed down. I started acting like a zombie. I reached the other extreme. Quiet, calm, nothing could irritate me. I had started working for a family. I was 23-24 years old. A year later, their daughter began to visit them regularly. The moment I saw her, I freaked out on her. Gradually we became closer and began to pour out our souls to each other. She had two children and many unsuccessful relationships. For 15 years I did not have the courage to admit my feelings to her. I cheated on other women. It didn't work. My thoughts were always with the boss's daughter. Until one day she told me she was pregnant by her current boyfriend. Everything collapsed before my eyes. I didn't eat, I didn't sleep. But I managed to stand up. And so we continued our conversations. I gave up on her. I gritted my teeth and was silent. I realized that this way I would not be happy and achieve my dream of a family and a child. I tried two or three connections. I couldn't do it. Finally I decided to give one last try. I met the "uruspiyata"! Everything was going exactly. After the 6th month of the relationship, we sat at the same table and I took off my cards. I also said: This is me. I have; this and that, I want you to stay this way and that and most of all I am dying for my child. Do you want us to stay together or not waste our time? Stay! She stayed and was three months pregnant. When he found out, this "animal" scrolled or showed its essence. Saana is irritable, grumpy, vicious, constantly looking for scandals. To her, I was a squirrel. She was bigger. She knew what to eat and what to fly. He fought with my mother. Scandals and screams became commonplace. My soul hurts, my friend! It hurts me that this child got psychosis from the behavior of his ugly mother! No matter how I prove it in court, mothers always prevail in such a case. She doesn't know what world she lives in. Everything about her is pink and comes from above. As I had calm nerves and could not push them with a cannon, this "woman" told me the game! I lost the desire to go home to my own home! For 6 years I could not explain to her that she lives and makes mistakes according to her own rules. For so many years I have never heard: I was wrong. Or you're right. I went sick and with a broken leg to work to bring something home to eat. And do you know what I got in return? Scandals! My mother paid my bills! Because I'm not good for anything. I can't even set aside a pistol and a bullet. And the time I lost sighing at the boss's daughter and the lost relationships because of my whim, I can't give it back. Sometimes we have to stop this ourselves, but I lost 15 years. Finally I hated it. I hated her to stop sighing at her. I showed it too. I started behaving badly with her. And I managed to get her away from me. There was no one to tell me to do it earlier. I probably wouldn't be in that position. Don't make my mistakes. I'm 40 and I don't feel like living anymore. If she deserved your burn, she would look for you herself. Success!

   If she were my friend, I would tell her that the pink world exists, but it is not built with gray people. It is possible to find a mate and everything is more than wonderful, and love never ends. It is possible to wake up every morning with a smile and live calmly because you feel confident and have found your inner balance. I also believe in happiness, I also believe in ideals. If there are many black stories, there are also many pink ones. No one knows what his story will be, but everyone can at least believe in the positive. Just tell her that the pink world does not include the unhappy relationship she has been building for years. That the pink world doesn't include the first boy (drug addict !?) to pay attention to her. That she should create a pink world and keep it, but not build something wonderful with people who don't make her feel wonderful.

   Author Now, as a very mature woman, I will tell you this. Thinking that you read a woman so well leads you into such a great delusion that you play with your own film on your own. First, that you yourself are immature to say so, second. that you have no idea what masks women wear and that many times in their lives they deliberately play such behavior, for example, but you, as unread, do not even think about this possibility, secondly, I myself have a girlfriend who deliberately plays the role of a victim. in any situation, she never takes responsibility for her own actions and choices in life, she throws herself at the men who are not suitable for her, then the world is guilty and she is a victim. of all living things around her to the boiling point - that's my friend.Which, unlike you, however, in my adult years I never said about it that a book was read. So get an author mature before you use stupid expressions, because the things you describe are that you are the one who revolves around. " read ", not her around you :)