Hello, I'm 15 years old girl. I had a 6 month relationship with a boy my age. Things were going well between us, even though he was constantly doing things that annoyed me, and he knew that, but when I remarked to him and got angry with him, he excused himself and apologized and claimed that he was doing them unconsciously. I always forgave him, I always tried to be free to write and he always wanted to be somewhere with his friends who are not like him at all because when he wants to go out with them they are always busy but when he wants you he is still free . I was annoyed by this and I explained to him and explained that they used him and did not influence him well and he resigned himself to somewhere and left them. But it wasn't long before he started behaving horribly with me and we broke up (I broke up with him). And after day two we quarreled, he reproached me for how I could quarrel with him about his friends, etc. I felt terrible.
This happened 4 days before my birthday. Two days later he had written to a friend and she showed me everything. She claimed that she would regret losing me because I was a nice person and he had said that if he had started explaining to me about me he would have had a headache. It hurt a lot. Now he does the things I didn't let him do, he goes out with his friends, he rarely comes to school, he pretends to be interesting in front of other girls, his success has become tragic again as before we left. He doesn't pay attention to me, he forgot me, and it hurts me. I do not know what to do. I want him to take an interest in me again and regret losing me, I want him to want me again. I can't forget it for a month now. Please help me, tell me how to proceed and what to do how do you think to behave? Thanks in advance.
1 cosmopolitan answered
Yes, I have your problems. Let him suffer and that's it. He's not the only boy !! -M20