Hello everyone, I'm a girl of 16. I had a friend for about 7 months, and he dumped me. I know you're going to say that at 16, I have no way of knowing what love is, but I've never felt like this before. I've liked boys for five years, but I've never fallen in love. I've known him since the beginning of the year and I love him a lot. The reason he dumped me was that I cared too much about him and that he didn't like me or anything like that. He says he felt obligated to be with me. I can't understand how this thing happened because he was the first one to kiss me. The first one to do the first approach to everything. Now we don't talk, and I don't know what to show. He made me very happy. I've never felt like this, and I don't know how to forget it. I don't even want to go to school anymore. I miss him so much, I want him back and I'd do anything. I know that's not going to happen. Please give me advice on how to forget it, because I'm going to go crazy. Thank you!
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_liana_cam_ answered · May 30, 2020
It takes time. Once a certain time is over, you'il feel a lot better. Go outside with your friends and have fun and make your schedule complete.
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linlin_cuteeee answered · May 30, 2020
Hello, little one,
You must be a good man. Look, there's a difference between men and boys. You deserve a man. And who is a man and who is not, is not determined by the years, but by his way of thinking. There are men 15 years old, there are boys in their 30s. I know about your pain. I've been through this kind of thing. Clench your teeth. You'il be fine. The plus of that is, if you take it as a test, you're going to be tougher in that respect, and you have to be.
No man complains about the much attention and says "I feel obliged to be with you." These are drooled boy models to think about. One day as a family with the man of your life, of course you're together and it won't weigh on you and you don't feel obliged in that sense - you'll love being together.
So please, you're a little girl still, make sure you endure without doing any, and you'il see how you get to know the right person for you. Even though it sounds clichéd, you'il see that's what's going to happen because you're an exemplary girl.
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drillng answered · May 30, 2020
Hmm... maybe it's not right for a grown-up person (30 years, a man) to give you an opinion, but I think nowadays people are too in a hurry to get enough of each other (we consume ourselves quickly and physically and emotionally), maybe something like that has happened to your man. Always one partner gives more, then it is possible to turn things around. Not always what we want in the moment and in a second) is exactly what we need. It's nice that you have love and longing, but leave the good things, don't immerse yourself in nostalgia. She goes to school in a mess, even without desire, and does the things you've done so far. Time will do the rest...
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tyfrex2 answered · May 30, 2020
1. Time Heals
2. Do things to shorten that time
3. Develop and become better in every way
4. Learn from things
5. If someone doesn't like you, don't intrude
6. If you love yourself, you won't care who doesn't like you
7. Do not show in any way that this has made you worse.
It is time to grow up and learn the most valuable lesson of life, namely to love yourself more than others. If you believe in your worth as a person, it's easy to deal with someone who doesn't believe in it.
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alewhite_ answered · May 30, 2020
I've been trying for four years and it doesn't work.