My story is as follows! My best friend, with whom we grew up in diapers, was even in the same class. He recently caught a girlfriend. I have nothing against her the girl is great. But she doesn't like me very much. annoyed when he is with me when we talk. I am asking you for advice on how to explain to her - even though I have done it 10,000,000 times - that there is nothing between N. and me. Sometimes I get angry and some of them. Understandably, she would be jealous, even if I were her best, I would probably kill the girl ... I'm kidding, of course. But there is really nothing between us. It is true that we are close, but there has never been falling in love (at least on my part) or a kiss. It is true that hugs are regular but this is something normal for me and N. How to act! I feel that it is very difficult for N. and he tried to convince her that we are just friends. Please give me advice on how to proceed but I do not want to argue with him. And please don't tell me what I would do if I were her because I understand her very well BUT I still want to find a way ....
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Do not give explanations to anyone on any occasion. If someone asks you for an explanation, then you can already think about whether to say something or not. There are people who are paranoid, those who are jealous, those who are to blame, and what they have in common is that whatever you tell them will not change what they think :) The law says that the more you justify and explain, the more bad :) The forest.