How Can I Arouse More Interest In It?

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Hi, I'm a 23 year old girl. I will tell you my pressures and I sincerely ask you, those who want to get involved and advise me what to do, because I am very confused. I have a friend of 1 and a half years, he is 26 years old. At first I didn't like him enough, but he did a lot of nice things for me to win me over, the first 12 months were perfect, we got along great. Gradually I began to fall in love with him and things got even better. But there came a moment when he seemed to calm down that he had won me over. He stopped being as nice to me as he did in the beginning, he stopped telling me I love you, and before he did it every day (and now he tells me but it's quite rare), we started arguing and he was very annoyed when I started to cry, instead of hugging me and reassuring me or saying something nice to me, he starts yelling at me, that in this way he feels like a drummer and that he feels responsible for it. It's as if he thinks I'm pretending to be a victim, and that's not the case, it's just that when I'm sad I can't help but shed tears. I started to complain to him more often about small things, I admit it, but it's because I feel ignored, I want him to pay more attention to me. I used to be for him in the first place, and now I don't feel that way. He told me to stop pissing him off because he would dump me if we continued like this, and that our relationship had no prospects. It turned out that he was very nervous and hot-tempered at times, he had not shown it for the first year. We had a lot of nasty scandals that weren't serious, for example, I'm pissed about something and he erupts from that fact and starts yelling at me and telling me that if we fight again and sulk like that, he'll dump me. When I noticed the change, I had a few conversations with him and told him that he was really different, but he claimed to be the same and did not want to accept it. Nakaraya told me that now that he has won me over, he knows that I am with him and that he does not need to take down my stars every day. This is so I agree, but it has changed too much - I look too cold compared to the first year. The sex between us is great so far, maybe that's all that's going on - although after sex he's quite indifferent, and before he was much more in love. I haven't looked at another man since I've been with him, but I'm afraid things will fall apart. I am also sure that he is loyal to me, he is serious and responsible, I trust him. It hurts me a lot that this is how things develop. Now I stopped sulking and we haven't fought for a long time, but he's cold again, I miss the man I met in the beginning. Tell me, is there a way to get it back at least halfway How can I arouse more interest in him again and behave as nicely as before? I want a man to get involved and share his point of view - in the sense that my friend should behave in such a way that he no longer loves me, why he is with me and what to do from now on to make things right. ? How can I arouse more interest in him again and behave as nicely as before? I want a man to get involved and share his point of view - in the sense that my friend should behave in such a way that he no longer loves me, why he is with me and what to do from now on to make things right. ? How can I arouse more interest in him again and behave as nicely as before? I want a man to get involved and share his point of view - in the sense that my friend should behave in such a way that he no longer loves me, why he is with me and what to do from now on to make things right. ?

Last Updated
October 28, 2020
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hichasestokes

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