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2 mikemajlak answered
Dude, you came across a good manipulator. I'll disappoint you, and you'll probably prefer not to believe me, but the only person she really cares about is herself. Rest assured that he will not part with his friend because of you. She certainly doesn't love him to cheat on him and then most hypocritically explain herself to him in love, but whether because he is financially more stable or has some other benefit from him, she won't leave him. For her, you were fun. She's hardly had so much variety on the farm, and she may be bored with her relationship, but don't confuse that with real feelings for you. Instead of wondering and cheating, take matters into your own hands and find one for which you will be in the first place. I am a woman and have met and regularly continue to meet skilled manipulators who spin several men at once. She wanted to get your attention, she has achieved good results, you were perfect for her ego, and now she is moving forward. Rest assured that if her boyfriend finds out about her infidelity one day, she will pray on his knees and shed many crocodile tears and who knows what she will say to him. Don't waste your time. Success!
3 pantyhosemistress181 answered
And live her life and don't chase windmills. You're serious, she's. I know it's wonderful for you, and so on. but it's not. Don't wait for her, don't waste your time. As a wife, I also wanted to flirt and flirt with others because my boyfriend doesn't notice me anymore, I'm not interested in him, but only enough to boost my self-esteem. But she has come a long way, and if she loves you and various other nonsense that tells you, what else is she doing with her boyfriend? Isn't it easy? !! What keeps her so with him? Is he on his deathbed? Come on, please be safe from such
4 sdbdesiboys answered
Looks like you were just summer fun. I know it sounds ugly, and there was probably something real about you, but think about it: is it real when she's been through you so quickly? Of course, the other would not leave him, it was clear from the beginning. She didn't even intend to, so it suited her perfectly. Which is actually even worse for her boyfriend, not so much for you. I'll probably go to extremes, but maybe you got rid of it a little. She cheated on him, not you. In conclusion - in my opinion, whatever your feelings for her at the moment, forget them. Not worth it. There are so many other girls that would be worth the effort.
5 shayjhernandez answered
Do not waste your time. She doesn't squeeze. She is obviously not happy, but she is either afraid of his reaction or she is not sure that you are the person with whom she has to replace a long and stable relationship - especially since they live together. Shake yourself. Whatever it was stays on the farm in the summer of 2018. You will meet your girl for whom you are the only one and there is no doubt that she wants you to be together.
6 kitarahot answered
Even if I don't agree with 1 and 2 that she manipulated you and played with you, even if there was something real between you, I share their advice to you - stop contact. Being friendly and waiting for their relationship to break up and get your turn is pure masochism with a great deal of lost dignity. It hurts terribly, but that's the solution. She made her choice, but she wants to keep you in her life, it doesn't happen! She needs to understand that if she decides to be with the other, it is extremely painful for you to be around her and not have her. I say again - I do not agree with 1 and 2 that she turned you on her finger, but I also think that you are a little deeper in the film than reality. You had a spark, it was real, but not real enough to make her let go of everything and follow her. Or maybe she is just uncharacteristic and finds it difficult to make big decisions / make changes and keep it safe. We can't say, but the advice to all of us is to break away. Tell her how real it was for you, tell her that everything you sent and imagined for you is more than a fantasy and you see a possible world in which reality is, but if she can't choose you you can't torment yourself with something that will not happen. Tell the truth. and tell her how, precisely because it was real, you can't be by her side without being with her. I don't care if you do it for her, not to ruin her relationship or for yourself, not to hurt you or for your dignity, but this is the right decision. It is a pity that something so beautiful did not happen. It doesn't matter if it was really beautiful or just in your head ... it's a pity for both of you ... We can't say, but the advice to all of us is to break away. Tell her how real it was for you, tell her that everything you sent and imagined for you is more than a fantasy and you see a possible world in which reality is, but if she can't choose you you can't torment yourself with something that will not happen. Tell the truth. and tell her how, precisely because it was real, you can't be by her side without being with her. I don't care if you do it for her, not to ruin her relationship or for yourself, not to hurt you or for your dignity, but this is the right decision. It is a pity that something so beautiful did not happen. It doesn't matter if it was really beautiful or just in your head ... it's a pity for both of you ... We can't say, but the advice to all of us is to break away. Tell her how real it was for you, tell her that everything you sent and imagined for you is more than a fantasy and you see a possible world in which reality is, but if she can't choose you you can't torment yourself with something that will not happen. Tell the truth. and tell her how, precisely because it was real, you cannot be by her side without being with her. I don't care if you do it for her, not to ruin her relationship or for yourself, not to hurt you or for your dignity, but this is the right decision. It is a pity that something so beautiful did not happen. It doesn't matter if it was really beautiful or just in your head ... it's a pity for both of you ... also say that everything you have sent and imagined for you is more than a fantasy and you see a possible world in which reality is, but if it cannot choose you you cannot torment yourself with something that will not happen. Tell the truth. and tell her how, precisely because it was real, you can't be by her side without being with her. I don't care if you do it for her, not to ruin her relationship or for yourself, not to hurt you or for your dignity, but this is the right decision. It is a pity that something so beautiful did not happen. It doesn't matter if it was really beautiful or just in your head ... it's a pity for both of you ... also say that everything you have sent and imagined for you is more than a fantasy and you see a possible world in which reality is, but if it cannot choose you you cannot torment yourself with something that will not happen. Tell the truth. and tell her how, precisely because it was real, you can't be by her side without being with her. I don't care if you do it for her, not to ruin her relationship or for yourself, not to hurt you or for your dignity, but this is the right decision. It is a pity that something so beautiful did not happen. It doesn't matter if it was really beautiful or just in your head ... it's a pity for both of you ... and tell her how, precisely because it was real, you can't be by her side without being with her. I don't care if you do it for her, not to ruin her relationship or for yourself, not to hurt you or for your dignity, but this is the right decision. It is a pity that something so beautiful did not happen. It doesn't matter if it was really beautiful or just in your head ... it's a pity for both of you ... and tell her how, precisely because it was real, you can't be by her side without being with her. I don't care if you do it for her, not to ruin her relationship or for yourself, not to hurt you or for your dignity, but this is the right decision. It is a pity that something so beautiful did not happen. It doesn't matter if it was really beautiful or just in your head ... it's a pity for both of you ...
7 _miss_squirt answered
What friendships? She keeps you a "reserve" to have a lot of "traffic". And have you ever wondered how many "reserves" there are still? And what's the point of cheating on you all the time? And how do you calm down that her boyfriend deserves infidelity - by trusting her. Therefore, trust a woman - only after inspection!
8 mrsbella answered
From the Author: Thanks for the accurate and objective comments. This is exactly what she told me when I was in Sofia with her, that 5 years are a lot, that she is used to him, I asked her if she was happy with him, she answered that it doesn't matter ... I think everything was sincere, but it was fear. The other day he even asked me if I had anything more to do with a colleague of mine, because I had told her that I went to university and she helped me, I was withdrawn. I said no, but I think I should have told her for now, not to burn her a little. She answered me that having something is not bad, but I think she will be sick because she knows what I gave her. They have a plan to go to the farm again, and I have this plan, but not because of her and we will probably meet there again ...
9 imtheonlylola answered
From the Author: Hello, I want to inform you what happened this month after my post. At the beginning of December we hadn't written to each other for a few days, because I had written some things that were untrue, but there were also true things because of a post to a friend that affected me, but after those days I thought and just accepted the situation and I'm much better. One day I wrote to her, but not with heavy conversations and writings, but normal writings. At the beginning she was quite distant, but she started to relax because I talked to her about nice things, fun, optimistic. She started writing to me quite often and got to the point that I went to Sofia while she was at work, I surprised her and she was shocked by the nice side, it was before Christmas. I was with a friend who had a job in Sofia and I told him to just go and see her and surprise her. Still, I didn't expect anything or hope, but we kissed, hugged and even took her to them. She told me that no one had done such a surprise to her soon, and that made me wonder if he was doing anything for her at all, with a gesture or a surprise, but I didn't think so. It's a little strange to me, because he's jealous of me twice. One time for the New Year, because there were some Greek women in the company and I shared it, and I share more than she deserves. She told me that she would send me to Greece, and I answered a few things to annoy her, that I would send her an invitation to come to Greece and that I hope she would not refuse the invitation anyway. I liked it, but I'm not for one night. The other day I was out with 3 colleagues for coffee and they even marked me with one photo uploaded, because one of the colleagues knows about my story and I wonder in my mind what things I do for this girl, he advised me to stop contact, but I can't, I tried for a few days, but I can't. After the note and the photo with the colleagues, the girl was obviously very annoyed, she told me that I was a scumbag, that I only went out with girls, and they are my colleagues and I had nothing to do with them nor will I just have nice company. We've been writing a lot of dirt for a few days now, because I know she likes it, she wanted me to go to Sofia, but I refused and she got mad at me. This is the general situation for now, we have a normal relationship, but there is a thrill and it does not go away with both. But I do not hope for anything and I do not expect anything, I think she will be sick if I am lucky to find a girlfriend and that is why I am jealous of these colleagues.
On the one hand, I feel good about being jealous, because it was pretty hard for me at one time, but I try to distract myself as much as I can and that helps me. I forgot to write that her mother added me on Facebook even because she told her mother and that I was near Sofia and about everything that became a mother and she knows about us. Her mother said it was a big gesture to her and I look up in her eyes and maybe. But the girl told me not to accept her, she even quarreled with her about why she gave me friendship. I think it's a good sign that her mother likes me. She also likes that I pay attention to her, but if I'm lucky enough to meet a girl who interests me and this time is NOT BOUND I will try and make her happy !! Overall, this is a good experience from which I learned a lot and especially with a committed girl not to start doing nonsense ... because she told her mother that I had been to Sofia as well as about everything that had become a mother and she knew about us. Her mother said it was a big gesture to her and I look up in her eyes and maybe. But the girl told me not to accept her, she even quarreled with her about why she gave me friendship. I think it's a good sign that her mother likes me. She also likes that I pay attention to her, but if I'm lucky enough to meet a girl who interests me and this time is NOT BOUND I will try and make her happy !!
Overall, this is a good experience from which I learned a lot and especially with a committed girl not to start doing nonsense ... because she told her mother that I had been to Sofia as well as about everything that had become a mother and she knew about us. Her mother said it was a big gesture to her and I look up in her eyes and maybe. But the girl told me not to accept her, she even quarreled with her about why she gave me friendship. I think it's a good sign that her mother likes me. She also likes that I pay attention to her, but if I'm lucky enough to meet a girl who interests me and this time is NOT BOUND I will try and make her happy !! Overall, this is a good experience from which I learned a lot and especially with a committed girl not to start doing nonsense ... that it is a good sign that her mother likes me. She also likes that I pay attention to her, but if I am lucky enough to meet a girl who interests me and this time is NOT BOUND I will try and make her happy! Overall, this is a good experience from which I learned a lot and especially with a committed girl not to start doing nonsense ... that it is a good sign that her mother likes me. She also likes that I pay attention to her, but if I am lucky enough to meet a girl who interests me and this time is NOT BOUND I will try and make her happy! Overall, this is a good experience from which I learned a lot and especially with a committed girl not to start doing nonsense ...
1 yjaybaby answered
Eh, this story sounds to me like the dozens here, in which a committed man grabs a girl for a mistress, talks to him about all sorts of nonsense to enchant him, but then returns to his official partner, because something is there ... oh, yes : it wasn't that easy; we have experienced a lot together; so it is better and other banalities in this spirit. Except here is the opposite. Who wants to tell you anything, but in front of a person who is sincerely in love, there are no obstacles. People ruin long-term families with children in order to be with the object of their desires, and she went to live with him?!. Yes, it is difficult, a lot of sacrifice, but the desire is above all. I say this both from personal experience and from observations of others. There is an option for her to be dependent on him in some way, but I don't know ... Years ago I was in a similar situation as the lady in question - I was in a relationship, but I fell in love with some guy. I made a lot of promises to him, until after 6 months I got bored and went home to my friend. Now I'm wondering, but then I didn't even think about it. I can't tell you 100%, but I think it was a momentary hobby. It is good for you to delete it completely from your life. Extremely painful, but just as sensible. If she wants, she'll contact you. You try to focus on the sobering process, away from it. It will be good for both your emotional health and your dignity. Success! You try to focus on the sobering process, away from it. It will be good for both your emotional health and your dignity. Success! You try to focus on the sobering process, away from it. It will be good for both your emotional health and your dignity. Success!