Hello! I don't want to share my love dramas, I won't share my problems with my family. I am here to ask for your opinion. I'm still young and green (I'm 17), but one question bothers me every day. And he is how I will cope with life in front of me. I grew up in a normal family, I didn't miss anything. I don't want to complain about my family because they have given me a lot and I am very grateful for that. But, there is one but. I argue with my parents that I don't grow old at school, I'm uninterested, I don't find meaning, etc. I would agree with their reproaches to me if I was lazy and waited for everything to be ready, but it's not like that. I don't wait for everything on them. I don't ask them for money, apart from my pocket money I have savings, when I have to buy something, they are with my money. I don't come home late, I don't go to discos every day, I spend time with them, but the reason for every quarrel is how I will not succeed because I will not have a good diploma. I can get good grades, but I don't want to. My goals are in a completely different direction, they do not require higher education, but skills that higher education cannot give me. I'm sorry that they talk to me like that ... I would understand them again if they themselves are an example of how with higher education and work in the specialty you can afford a good standard of living, which is still not true. They are a living example that in order to be successful you also need character. We are so different in parts because I was raised by my aunt and uncle. For me, they are the second mom and dad, they have always supported me and understood me. I so want to get along with my parents, but alas, our views are so different ... My question is: how do you manage to motivate yourself, how do you deal with negativity from your relatives I can get good grades, but I don't want to. My goals are in a completely different direction, they do not require higher education, but skills that higher education cannot give me. I'm sorry that they talk to me like that ... I would understand them again if they themselves are an example of how with higher education and work in the specialty you can afford a good standard of living, which is still not true. They are a living example that in order to be successful you also need character. We are so different in parts because I was raised by my aunt and uncle. For me, they are the second mom and dad, they have always supported me and understood me. I so want to get along with my parents, but alas, our views are so different ... My question is: how do you manage to motivate yourself, how do you deal with negativity from your relatives? I can get good grades, but I don't want to. My goals are in a completely different direction, they do not require higher education, but skills that higher education cannot give me. I'm sorry that they talk to me like that ... I would understand them again if they themselves are an example of how with higher education and work in the specialty you can afford a good standard of living, which is still not true. They are a living example that in order to be successful you also need character. We are so different in parts because I was raised by my aunt and uncle. For me, they are the second mom and dad, they have always supported me and understood me. I so want to get along with my parents, but alas, our views are so different ... My question is: how do you manage to motivate yourself, how do you deal with negativity from your relatives? which the higher cannot give me. I'm sorry that they talk to me like that ... I would understand them again if they themselves are an example of how with higher education and work in the specialty you can afford a good standard of living, which is still not true. They are a living example that in order to be successful you also need character. We are so different in parts because I was raised by my aunt and uncle. For me, they are the second mom and dad, they have always supported me and understood me. I so want to get along with my parents, but alas, our views are so different ... My question is: how do you manage to motivate yourself, how do you deal with negativity from your relatives? which the higher cannot give me. I'm sorry that they talk to me like that ... I would understand them again if they themselves are an example of how with higher education and work in the specialty you can afford a good standard of living, which is still not true. They are a living example that in order to be successful you also need character. We are so different in parts because I was raised by my aunt and uncle. For me, they are the second mom and dad, they have always supported me and understood me. I so want to get along with my parents, but alas, our views are so different ... My question is: how do you manage to motivate yourself, how do you deal with negativity from your relatives? that in order to be successful you also need character. We are so different in parts because I was raised by my aunt and uncle. For me, they are the second mom and dad, they have always supported me and understood me. I so want to get along with my parents, but alas, our views are so different ... My question is: how do you manage to motivate yourself, how do you deal with negativity from your relatives? that in order to be successful you also need character. We are so different in parts because I was raised by my aunt and uncle. For me, they are the second mom and dad, they have always supported me and understood me. I so want to get along with my parents, but alas, our views are so different ... My question is: how do you manage to motivate yourself, how do you deal with negativity from your relatives?
1 gerard_cassel answered
I understand you very clearly. If you are stressed about your future, then someone is pressuring you. Either you do it yourself or your parents. It is usually the second, at this age. Then, when you separate from the family, you will do it yourself ... hey, by inertia. But the more you are pressed, the more you will lose motivation for anything. Youth Syndrome. Many people know, but they are lazy to start something, because of the stress they are subjected to, you see, they have to compete in this madhouse and have expectations for "success". In '97 there was 70% unemployment (which the government managed to fix, closed 60% of workers abroad and we were left with only 10%, but that's another topic) I couldn't pay for my accommodation for the technical school. I slept on the benches and with tears in my eyes I prayed for work on various constructions, chatter and what not. Because I had to survive, I started working in an oven instead of studying. My father insisted that I finish college. Emmy with work and exams, I succeeded. Then he wanted me to graduate. Well, I signed up in 2005 and I made it in 2010. I wrote my diploma thesis in 2014, and I took my diploma in 2015. This paper was boiled somewhere at home and it was neither useful nor useful for me. Yes, but in 2004 I was already a successful IT specialist, with a salary of $ 800, while my father took BGN 250. I have never fallen below this standard in my life, except twice when women were involved. However, I still managed to emerge and still found a high-paying job. Now I have my own business, I work for myself. I take above average for London and rest when I want. There are a lot of people (not to say almost all) clichés in Bulgaria, who repeat a mantra from the time of the sots that you had to learn to succeed. However, this only applies to professions such as doctor or lawyer. For all other things that require ingenuity, critical thinking, creativity, innovation and personal qualities (understand almost all professions in any business, in a capitalist environment) is just the opposite - the university is crippling. He puts you in a mold and closes the box over your head. And you want to be out of the box, don't you remember ... So don't bother. You seem to be an awake child and you will succeed. People as angry as you succeed. Just make sure you're not some pretentious wonabi, but really grab something in your hands to do. If you want to knit baskets or work on banking - the important thing is to find a niche in the area where you are. However, this only applies to professions such as doctor or lawyer. For all other things that require ingenuity, critical thinking, creativity, innovation and personal qualities (understand almost all professions in any business, in a capitalist environment) is just the opposite - the university is crippling. He puts you in a mold and closes the box over your head. And you want to be out of the box, don't you remember ... So don't bother. You seem to be an awake child and you will succeed. People as angry as you succeed. Just make sure you're not some pretentious wonabi, but really grab something in your hands to do. If you want to knit baskets or work on a bank - it is important to find a niche in the area where you are. However, this only applies to professions such as doctor or lawyer. For all other things that require ingenuity, critical thinking, creativity, innovation and personal qualities (understand almost all professions in any business, in a capitalist environment) is just the opposite - the university is crippling. He puts you in a mold and closes the box over your head. And you want to be out of the box, don't you remember ... So don't bother. You seem to be an awake child and you will succeed. People as angry as you succeed. Just make sure you're not some pretentious wonabi, but really grab something in your hands to do. If you want to knit baskets or work on banzing - the important thing is to find a niche in the area where you are. innovation and personal qualities (understand almost all professions in any business, in a capitalist environment) is just the opposite - the university is crippling. He puts you in a mold and closes the box over your head. And you want to be out of the box, don't you remember ... So don't bother. You seem to be an awake child and you will succeed. People as angry as you succeed. Just make sure you're not some pretentious wonabi, but really grab something in your hands to do. If you want to knit baskets or work on banzing - the important thing is to find a niche in the area where you are. innovation and personal qualities (understand almost all professions in any business, in a capitalist environment) is just the opposite - the university is crippling. He puts you in a mold and closes the box over your head. And you want to be out of the box, don't you remember ... So don't bother. You seem to be an awake child and you will succeed. People as angry as you succeed. Just make sure you're not some pretentious wonabi, but really grab something in your hands to do. If you want to knit baskets or work on banking - the important thing is to find a niche in the area where you are. You seem to be an awake child and you will succeed. People as angry as you succeed. Just make sure you're not some pretentious wonabi, but really grab something in your hands to do. If you want to knit baskets or work on banzing - the important thing is to find a niche in the area where you are. You seem to be an awake child and you will succeed. People as angry as you succeed. Just make sure you're not some pretentious wonabi, but really grab something in your hands to do. If you want to knit baskets or work on banking - the important thing is to find a niche in the area where you are.