His Parents Want Us To Get Married, And I Don't Want To Yet!

Hello! In short, I'm 19, my boyfriend is 26. We've been together for 3 and a half years. We are together every day or every other day, he has almost moved in to live at home. It works and I don't yet. I had started a bartender and a waitress in a cafe, but I didn't like the work, I had to start somewhere, and the money was small, because the working hours were 4 hours. I have no desire to study, I know that without education I am nowhere, but I am in a small town and there is not much choice of work here. My mother pushes me every day to look, but where to look like no one, and I don't want to spend 240 as a slave. Let's move on to the essential topic. My boyfriend has a sister 1 year younger than him and he got married last year because he got pregnant (supposedly for love but anyway) his parents have been hinting for a long time that we should get married because we have been together for a long time, and he is bigger. Not only are they, but his relatives are the same, they all got married young, because at one time it may have been so. I am a Bulgarian like him, we are not Roma or Turks or any other nationality, why should I get married so young, I don't even know what future I will have, and they are pressuring me to get married. I know that he will soon be 30 and he has to get married and start a family, but he still has a life, he has not been instilled or he has an incurable disease, so he has to hurry. They know that nowadays you can live with someone without marriage. Just with this hint and allusion, I increasingly withdraw from the idea of ​​starting a family with this person, knowing what kind of relatives he has, when he turns 23-24 for sure and they will make me make them grandchildren, shouldn't a person decide for himself what to do with your life Anything ahead. My parents, like me, are of the opinion that there is no need to hurry, what is written to happen will happen. They got married around the age of 20-25 and Maka has always told me a lot of thoughts about who you will choose as a lifelong companion, so that you don't make a mistake later and roar at me because you didn't listen to us. When I was 16 I thought I would get married when I graduated, but now 3 years later I am thinking about how to provide for myself financially, and then a family, because I can't get married and mom and dad can support me. Thanks for reading the topic, and now some advice if you can :) When I was 16 I thought I would get married when I graduated, but now 3 years later I am thinking about how to provide for myself financially, and then a family, because I can't get married and mom and dad can support me. Thanks for reading the topic, and now some advice if you can :) When I was 16 I thought that when I graduated I would get married, but now 3 years later I am thinking about how to provide financially, and then a family, because I can't get married and my mom and dad can support me. Thanks for reading the topic, and now some advice if you can :)