I share my story with deep disappointment and anxiety. We live in a small town where everyone knows each other. I had never met my friend's parents, and since we went, we've only had sporadic contacts. Some time ago I published a story: "I don't like his parents, and he is angry" and although I received mostly condemning comments that made me rethink my behavior, there was no significant development of things, and now, it turns out, they they don't like me. A friend of mine, a mutual acquaintance - a saleswoman in a grocery store, just mentioned to me that his mother had commented to me as follows: "We want to meet the girl's parents" (Okay, but also) "We keep telling him that this girl is not for him, she is over-ambitious (author's note: where ?!) and educated. Just because I have a university degree and I work in my specialty !!! ), where did he go with her ... ". At the moment I am in a state of strong affect, mixed with depression! They are just talking to him against me! I want to call him on the phone and ask him what I caused them in this way !!! I can't help myself, but at the same time I'm afraid that if we talk about it and precisely because it's true, he may question the situation - why do they comment in front of other people, etc., with which they still more will they rebel against me!
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As far as I understand, his parents fear that he is not (worthy) of you, not you of him. In a sense - their worries are that now you are in love and you don't care about anything, but this will pass you by and then when you see him "what a fool he is", you will give him up ... Obviously people have nothing against you, but worry that one day, when you value him, you will leave him and he will be hurt. Calm down!