His Mistress And I Are Pregnant.

My opinion is to reboot your life - completely. I wouldn't have a child to a man who did this to me (regardless of my age). But that's me. Draw reason and feelings, and decide for yourself. I think you still have time to find a suitable man to share your happiness with. Success! Whatever you decide.

30 years old and you're running out of time? Do you hear yourself? Are you a minority? Get your hands on it and stop the bullshit! Your life is drama and film because you make it such... with your immature and unbridled emotionality! You're going to be a mother, and are you ready for this? How are you going to raise your child when you can't master yourself?

Horror, dump the other and babysit the two children. For them , women , when they have a lover , hell ,

Never get divorced! The mistress has to wonder what to do, not you. You're a wife, watch your fun and on that. If I were you, I would never say a word about a mistress. It's your husband's problem with him getting better.

You're going to have to make a decision.

1, a good solution, however, with a lot of abortions, complications become, and women then stay sterile. Never give a guarantee that there will be no complications further (from experience I say). I'm going to advise the author to be calm in any case, she's pregnant now and she needs peace of mind. There is no way to divorce the child by law until the child reaches the age of the age. Think of yourself and the child, however difficult and anxious you may be. If you need to go somewhere in the fresh air and green, take it easy. Your husband's mess outside of the family let him clean up. Surely the other woman is not easy and calm now. I guess you're both going to give birth, with that impression, I'm left with the story - that is, it doesn't read to abortion either. Until birth, it is guarded by intrigue and scandal at all costs. I wish you a wonderful healthy baby and all the best in the future!

I don't know, ladies, do you take abortion for sports?... You have a baby in you, and you're wondering what to do... You're going to have a baby alive and well!!! And if you go looking for another man, as they advise you, will you find him when? And after the abortion, are you going to feel better? And the risks to a future baby then, do you take them into account? It's better for a "big family" and a man to look after his children than... - I understand that this is not a solution to the issue, but the other option poses a lot of risks and ABORTIONS ARE NOT DONE!

I support number one. You have no future as a man and a woman. If you give birth to the child, there's still no guarantee that he won't abandon you. And you'il still be in the starting position, but with a kid. A man else you will not see as alone with a child, you see here bulgarian men how badly they talk about single mothers and do not want them for a relationship, let alone another. Not to mention that you and your husband already hate each other. Look for a new job, dump this guy, rent a modest place, and you'il feel like a new man.

You're tightening up. You tell him the best news is that he's going to be a dad. She's going to get her kick and have an abortion when she doesn't have the brains to catch a married man. And after a while, but only when you see that he got rid of her and removed the baby, you sit face down with him and tell him you had doubts that he was cheating on you, and you wondered how it ever came to your mind. They can't live with a guilty conscience , these cowards! To see what a faithful man means, then, to the grave :)

You tell him you know. You tell him you're pregnant, and you or her. Short and clear. Otherwise, do you want a child like that to carry these genes? Does he have rights over this child and interfere with his life? Answer those questions.

You lost the child. in a year's time, we'il try again. You've lost it, life is going on. What a year you've been waiting for, what's that slamming on your part? What's wrong with him?

You can't take an abortion. Not after the s away. Don't say you know about a mistress. Wait till you see what he's going to do.

Fake theme!

It's normal for him to find a mistress after you've been on the tweak for a year and seven months. The guy's been waiting for you all year to come to your senses, and you haven't. To him, you were already a different person, not the previous woman he liked. That's why he found a mistress.

Why do you think defeatist? You're a winner, you're expecting a child from your husband. And it's the mistress who's at a disadvantage, and so is your husband. And the kid may not be his.

Maybe it's a fake. But there are situations like that. The man must now choose which one to live with. After the wife pushed him away for a year and a half, he had nothing to wonder about his mistress. And as I understand it, she's with him because she has nowhere to go and she's not getting enough money. De facto, their marriage is a formal cohabitation. The author is not in a position to put any ultimatums, because he can choose the mistress.

It's your kid, and if you want it, keep it! And he and his father split up. Believe me, there are always ways. From experience! G30

It's your heavy nature. Why did you treat your husband like that, didn't it ever come to mind that he was having a hard time after losing the child? And you've had everything on him. He was right - you had to pull yourself together! Tell me that every man will look for an outlet outside, if there's hell in his house and there's a monster woman... Besides, your own parents don't get along... It's clear that you were raised badly - they just spoiled you, but you're too big and it's your responsibility. That's why I think you need to change. First of all, stop whining and try to look at life positively, no matter how hard it may be for you. That's what you dreamed of! And the other one will have - she thinks, you're his wife, not her. It's bad if he files a paternity suit and it comes to a DNA test. But even so, you shouldn't get a divorce if your husband doesn't want to. Here, too, you have a role to play: you have to change towards him for the better, regardless of his infidelity. That's if you're smart, or if you say smart, because as you describe yourself, you're not very smart. And if you decide to take revenge on him, most of all you're going to ruin your life, and his too, you're going to put him in the hands of his mistress, and you're going to stay with your malice and empty-handed.

From there, they advise you to restart your life. To start on a white sheet, that is... Absolutely a moronic decision, but quite characteristic of modern buoyed, viro-headed, inadequate, crazy women. Because that just can't happen. Not only can you cross out the past, but if you don't comply with it and learn your lesson, it will remind you of yourself constantly with a stick on your head. You can't escape responsibility for this past because you're responsible for it anyway, and if you don't realize that, you're going to lose completely control of your own life. Where this better man is: only in your dreams; if you don't change, everything will happen again and again and again, if you're going to restart your life a hundred times. And the worst thing that can happen to you in these moronic attempts is to become the killer of a new life in your own right. Then the karma of this villain will haunt you for the rest of your life and beyond.

I don't understand how you kept being with him after you found out he was having an affair? What were you hoping for? To someone else with money to come, to find you, give sure that you should dump him then? In other words, you stood with him without loving him just for the material support? Relax, you're going to find another battery, so that's what you're using men for. The theme is yet another proof of how you get caught up in idiots and then roars from them.

I don't understand how you kept being with him after you found out he was having an affair? What were you hoping for? To someone else with money to come, to find you, give sure that you should dump him then? In other words, you stood with him without loving him just for the material support? Relax, you're going to find another battery, so that's what you're using men for. The theme is yet another proof of how you get caught up in idiots and then roars from them.