Hello ! I came across this site 2-3 months ago and now I decided to write here for the first time to share my problem. I have a friend for 7 months, but our biggest problem is that we are from different cities. Now, however, we are separated by 2 days ... Otherwise, everything was like a fairy tale ... for the first time I met such a nice boy, kind to ours, good, gentle, romantic, attached to me, everything he did showed that he loves me, and I loved him very much. He did his best to come and see me, because it was not just a wish, but a financial opportunity. And he really did a lot for this relationship ... He called me several times every day, we talked for hours; he didn't care at all how much money he spent on me. He kept asking how my parents were and sending greetings on and off. Even my mother liked it, because it is different from the previous ones. There was maybe only one drawback - I was very jealous, it was just unbearable. I rarely go out anyway, and he was constantly jealous. And now we are divided precisely because of this disgusting jealousy. On Saturday (19.07) I went to an evening disco for the first time and the day before I had told my friend that I would go there with a few girls. (I never lied to him and I always shared everything with him, because a relationship is based on trust and honesty) I was at the disco at 00 o'clock that night. At 2 o'clock I saw that I had 10 missed calls from some unknown number and I left my phone next to me so I could see when it rang again. And minutes later he rang. Of course I didn't hear anything at the disco, I didn't even understand who I was talking to. All I heard was that I was asked which disco I was at, I answered and that was it. After 5 minutes I received an SMS to go out in front of the disco. I went out. I thought my cousin called me because my mother said she would tell him which disco I was at and go see me at some point. I waited outside for 10 minutes and called my mother to ask her. It turned out it wasn't him. While talking on the phone, a man gave me a rose with the words that I was very sweet and that I continued to be so charming. I was startled, but took the flower. I was about to enter the disco when I saw my friend with 4 more boys coming. That evening he had told me that they would celebrate his brother's birthday at a disco near Tarnovo. One of the boys has a car and so on their way back from this disco they decided to come to my city. It was very strange for me to see them, but I was already convinced that I could expect everything from my friend. He still had something, but we seemed to get along. We went to the disco, we danced, everything was OK. I asked one of his friends if he liked the disco and I invited him to dance and we exchanged 3 stories. Then, because my friend wanted us to go outside for a while, and this happened twice, one of the guards started talking to me. I am generally a very shy person, but after 2 hours I was already happy and relaxed (I had not drunk any alcohol) and we exchanged 2 words with the guards. At one point my friend told me that he wanted them to take me to us, but I could not accept because I went out with a few girls and our parents know that we will go home with a taxi, and my friend on this river. e. have been drinking beer .. He gets angry as he always does (he gets angry extremely fast). I explained to him how things were, but he didn't accept at all. At 4 o'clock my friends and I left and my friend and his company went outside and waited for me. My boyfriend suddenly left and got in the car; he didn't want to talk. I could barely get him to come out and say why he was behaving like that. He didn't say anything meaningful. Both of us were boiling, he got in the car, I wished the others a pleasant journey and my friends and I took a taxi. The next afternoon my friend called and asked me what I was doing. I told him I was asleep and that my eyes hurt, and he said, "You're going to be in pain. Like left and right." Then he said that he wanted a break from me because he had gathered a lot - the rose, that the guards were talking to me and that I had exchanged a few words with his friend. And when he passed, he would call me, and I just said, "Okay. Do what you want, but I don't know if when you decide, and I have told him several times that it is all for me and I will not leave him. What do you think is the best solution
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:) Hello lovely girl! I have a relationship with my boy of 13 years, he was 14. We grew up together, now we are students :) I am 20, he is 21 :) It makes me very happy, he is an exceptional gentleman and a romantic. I am his first girlfriend and he is my first friend. We love each other a lot. And even though he knows me very well and knows that I will never cheat on him - he is terribly jealous of me and constantly wants me to be with him! He controls me every hour of the second. I know how you feel. I have been with him for 7 years. He behaved like that from the very beginning of our relationship, when we were children. At first I thought he was cheating on me and that's why he's so jealous of me, because you know that a man doesn't believe in his own ass :) I checked and realized that I'm the only one :))) And to this day we haven't cheated on each other, nor have we been rude. Therefore, my advice is to first find out if he doesn't have one ... :)))) Make sure of his love. Look for it - clarify and live happily! I'm glad they're jealous of me. :)))) Good luck!!!