Hello! I am a 21 year old girl. I have a serious friend of 8 months. Everything between us is wonderful - both romantically and intimately. He is 6 years older than me. So ... yesterday we wrote to each other around 18:00 and suddenly at 19:00 he sent me a heart and there .. He went off the line on Facebook and did not write to me until 1:00. I assumed he had gone to bed because he worked at a disco and hadn't slept all night. I decided to go to bed without calling him so as not to wake him. But I wake up in the morning and see that a friend sent me pictures of him with some other girl walking at 22:00 (she notices them by accident, because she was sitting in the restaurant to which they passed). I was very angry and immediately went to them. I asked him why he went out with this girl, what she was, what they did. He initially denied going out. He told me, that he is not in the picture, he rested in them all night and did not write to me because he did not have internet. I was out of my mind. In the end, he didn't tell me who he was and why they went out, but he explained to me that I had nothing to worry about, they went out to drink coffee and he went home. He told me that there are many girlfriends with whom he goes out for coffee or just for a walk from time to time. He asked me not to think about anything else, not to worry unnecessarily that nothing had happened, they just went out for coffee and he didn't tell me because I was very jealous and I was going to scold him and make an elephant out of the fly. He also told me that she knew he was engaged. Should I believe him? There is nothing I can do but trust him ... I love him a hell of a lot, he loves me too, but I feel terribly uncomfortable going out with other girls. He told me, that he has girlfriends girls and will continue to go out with them whether I agree or not, because he did nothing wrong, he went out with them purely friendly. Is it normal to date other girls? What can I do in such a situation? I will be grateful if you help me!
1 caramelmusic.hu answered
Honey, he's a jerk! There are no female friends, even more so to watch each other late at night, and go out secretly. You're just one of many.