Hi It's about my boyfriend (26) with whom we have been together for several years. I would describe him as a very social, loving to be among people, to communicate, to create acquaintances, to be the center of attention and the soul of the company. To a large extent, his self-esteem is built on the attitude he receives from others, and he just loves to entertain and engage others-it can be in words, it can be with actions. He likes to hear he's cool, smart, funny, interesting, and so on, especially from people he finds himself a higher flier. In this sense, you may find it extremely rare to cause problems, to contradict or to be conflicted at all. He's most hated to be arguing with others and spoiling his relationship. Any misunderstanding has cost him a lot of nerves, and he's sure to keep the relationship smooth, even when the other side is wrong. Such is his attitude and the fair sex, which, sometimes, puts me in a certain turmoil. There's nothing to mince words--it's a very handsome and intelligent man. Well-off, with a sense of humor and a bit of a freak, but in a good sense of the word. Any flaws? Naturally, but in the beginning it is easily overlooked, and much depends on who understands what "disadvantage". So, by that, I mean, she gets decent attention from the fair sex, which I expected, and no matter how much I enjoy it, I have nothing to say about it. I can see why they like it, and it was the same. OK, but I have a problem with how it is "copes" with the situation-too good-natured and soft. Ask him for his number-he gives, ask them to write on Facebook-writes to them, ask to send them-send them, etc. Only in the last year there were 3-4 very perky babes from his work/company, who took him down a lot, even though they knew me and knew that we were together. One of them even made a little creepy with a dead look and a slight moaning, until he saw me that I was two feet away from them. It was an amazing experience for both of us until he just laughed loudly and let us be in the same one. And then he explained to me that the guy in question was a long time ago, but he told her a thousand times that he didn't like her and had a girlfriend. But they keep their relationships and talk, ask her what is she doing? It is enough for him to know that he has no intentions, and the enthusiast can think what he wants, not interested. I have more similar experiences in which the result is still the same-it's nice to talk to a guy who you are and not to spoil his relationship/to behave roughly just because she wanted something there. Do I trust him? Yes, pretty much, although I've learned to expect everything. However, I have a problem with the way it works. In my opinion it is right to cut the other direction and uncompromising, because, maintaining such a friendly attitude, it is often interpreted as if you are open to something more. He said he didn't want to be an arsehole, and that she liked him like a man, and it didn't concern him. I understand his logic, but I think he's making me look bad in the candidates ' eyes. Its behavior is interpreted as if I am not a factor and they think that the door is open. Here, recently, his ex-wife added it after he natâgaše her a few months ago. She wrote with the explanation that she felt obligated because she was a part of his life ever and was raised. Am I overreacting, or is there something wrong with him? I don't know what to think. I'm sure if you liked someone else, he'd tell me right away, but I'm really uncomfortable that his behavior seems so unengaging with me. I understand that other women do not owe me anything and they look at their interest, but is it not his job to rub their nose and send them to the rat hole, since they obviously don't understand a word? That's what I'd do, so it seems right to protect the dignity of my spouse. What is your opinion?