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June 05, 2020
2 ravenzmark answered
Do you have to put up with it?! Is there anything that stops you from beating his ass? If not, do it!
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June 05, 2020
3 naughtysubmissivexoxo answered
Author, tell me how old you are.
And otherwise, on such a maj, there are many ways to raise his sights - hunger, threats with police, dirty house (although I doubt that startle him...), dry mode, moving out of the house, threatening to flirt with the neighbor... should I go on?
Tell him you'il never look at his laundry clothes again...
And don't think about sleeping next to you if he doesn't fulfill your whims in bed, because a divorce will follow...
Success
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June 05, 2020
4 cucumber_and_peach answered
Do you have any children?
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June 05, 2020
5 leeshahugetits420slut answered
And what are you sitting with that narcissistic mouse? Who only a woman can dominate and have to? I don't understand them, honestly! From what I understand, even a child doesn't have it worth staying.
Jen
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June 05, 2020
6 doyoulovemyboobs answered
Your husband is terribly complex. He makes some money, and that's a hell of a blow to a man's ego. You're like a pain in the ass, and the problem is that he loves you, and I don't know if he's ever going to be able to get over this complex. I'm a civil servant, and I understand. I'm a man of rich men who work in the private sector and are the complete opposite. I just don't know how you don't realize it, the reason for his behavior is a deep and unconscious complex.
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June 05, 2020
7 doroti_tesla answered
Your husband is terribly complex. He makes some money, and that's a hell of a blow to a man's ego. You're like a pain in the ass, and the problem is that he loves you, and I don't know if he's ever going to be able to get over this complex. I'm a civil servant, and I understand. I'm a man of rich men who work in the private sector and are the complete opposite. I just don't know how you don't realize it, the reason for his behavior is a deep and unconscious complex.
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June 06, 2020
8 nikkiedickie answered
And a woman, you're with him because...? I wonder to the mind, my husband only to look at me viciously and clench his fist as long as he never sees me again, what's left for the other things.. I don't understand, honestly, but you're doing it yourself!
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June 06, 2020
9 2sexymuscles answered
Instead of showing off how hard you've worked to get this job (you just got in the right place at the right time), sit down and talk about where he might move to make him feel good. Don't get me wrong, I sympathize with you, but it's a typical man's reaction to depression, exhaustion, frustration. So he doesn't kill anywhere - there's no other solution but a better job.
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June 06, 2020
10 aubreyray22 answered
And you put up with it because???
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June 07, 2020
11 richxcouple answered
Your story until the first half seemed to me to be easily remediat, with a simple conversation, things would have happened to stop you being jealous of your job and not messing with you, because it's none of his business. As someone who loves you, sharing how you feel should draw conclusions.
However, as I read the second part, it became clear to me that your relationship is far from normal! Okay, have you had a fight, an hour or two or two, don't talk to each other, but this is your daily routine?! It doesn't seem normal at all. I also notice the element of masculinity that men in the 20th century must have tolerated, namely that you must always obey it, even for sex. And the fact that you're shaking and you've started buying unnecessary things shows that not only does it not make you feel happy, but your bad relationships are already affecting your psyche, and with it a joke should not, from personal experience, I say it. You will start to become more negative and depressed because the bad attracts even more bad thoughts, feelings and experiences to you. That's not a normal relationship for me. Talk, discuss things, put the cards on the table and make it clear what you want to do. If he doesn't change after you reveal to him how you feel and what's bothering you, I think the best option is to take him away from yourself.
Success!
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June 07, 2020
12 mollymeadows97 answered
he's a psychopath, run away until it gets worse, good luck
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June 07, 2020
13 ester_and_eric answered
My father was the same until his last day. Now my mom says I don't know how I lived back then. And now she's fine. Wouldn't it be better if he saved himself 40 years of torture? I told you her story, but mine wasn't easy either. I witnessed everything and you suffered. I was asked why I was a valedictorian or that I was a student. So if you have children, it's not a reason to stay, it's to leave. Run, sweet girl, while it's time, you'il just wonder what happened to my life. Run!
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June 08, 2020
14 torry_smeet answered
You want him to be gay. And when he's a little rougher, you can't be pleased.
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June 08, 2020
15 wtfuck303 answered
How do you live with such pathetic complexes?! Are you afraid of this man? Grab your things and go. I don't even know what's so much to think about. If he doesn't want to find another job to drag himself on this one. Like you're wide on your neck, look at your fun. I don't know how you get caught with $600 workmen at all. and you expect them not to kill their complexes through you... there is no such film.
Sweet girl, if you've got a five-penny brain, you're going to walk away from there and you're not going to look back. The behavior you're describing is a classic abuser, and it's only a matter of time before it goes into real aggression... slaps, beatings or worse. You say you support yourself. Then what are you doing there???
I've been with my husband for 2 years. - we're helping each other out. He's caring and would never hurt me or abuse me in any way. He's trying to save me everything he can, and so am I. I've been out of work for a long time and he's always looked after me, the bills and the apartment without whining. Everything happens in life - tomorrow we'll turn around and I'll help him! It's all about respect and understanding. I wouldn't let anyone insult and harass me. DON'T LET YOU DO IT!
Advice from me - don't fall for men who can't take care of a woman and a family! You'il see nothing good from a man like that. Don't volunteer to be a servant, a cleaner, a trash can, a punching bag, a sex slave and all that. This man doesn't respect you. Respect yourself when you leave. He'il probably be looking for more contact with you, if he refuses to threaten you, try to harass you, etc. - don't give up!!! The years are gone. If you're not happy (and you don't sound like a happy person) change it! Good luck to you!
Candy
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June 08, 2020
16 lacithegreat86 answered
And you're with him because?
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June 09, 2020
17 stefan333222 answered
So, what are you crying? Leave him and point. These dramas are redundant.
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June 09, 2020
18 sunflower1605 answered
If you don't have any kids from it, pack your things and go. Better without a man than with a man who's harassing you.
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June 09, 2020
19 iwannaseeu1246 answered
And why are you still with him and you're going through this mental harassment?
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June 09, 2020
20 kelly_badgirl answered
I do not sit down , if the poor child comes , I do not know what he will do when he cannot rest . Get rid of him until a kid shows up. Your stuff isn't working out, looking for something better.
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June 10, 2020
21 way2small answered
Hi
It's a man, but when I read almost my story, I read it.
My wife was constantly whining at home. I helped, for everything, for the child, cooked, cleaned, but "I never did things right." It always had to be acknowledged that something had not been done properly, even though there was no reason. It was always my fault. When you came in from the door frowning and I asked her why you're mad, wouldn't you smile, aren't you happy to see us with the kid, she was telling your turn, do you want me to throw myself right away? If you ask me for a reason, I really can't answer one.
I couldn't stand much and filed for divorce. It's hard now, but I didn't want the child to grow up in that kind of atmosphere, and I might ever be re-imagined.
So I mean, there's women like your husband. This aggressive state won't change it. I know you want to, but a crooked man doesn't get better. The bad news is, such a man poisons your life to the end.
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June 10, 2020
22 cutelau_mab answered
Divorce. You don't deserve that kind of man!
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June 10, 2020
23 vanyteylorr answered
Aside from some infantile comments, most have correctly told you. Your husband is extremely weak mentally, and his current behavior can only show you that with every problem onwards, things will get worse.
I'm a woman, but I mainly carry the money in the family and my work is very stressful, albeit quite highly paid. I had a period where I was constantly explaining how busy I was at work, but I saw that it didn't affect our relationship at all. In the end, we reached a compromise - my husband does most housework and I have time to rest when I need it. We were able to get the balance right and now we're fine.
For me, there are only two options for getting out of the situation without a breakup, which option you are clearly looking for: 1. your husband to realize what is happening and stop doing it (unlikely); 2. to threaten it with a breakup, even temporarily move out (there is some minimal chance of success, but much depends on how you will do it).
Personally, I think it's best to just get away from it, you don't have to share your life with such a labile person. If you're in a situation where you're both working and you're having enough money, he feels that way and he's making it all work out for you, what if one of you gets out of a job? If he's out of a job, it'il be guilt, if you're out of a job- he's going to declare you a parasite and fight in the chest about how he feeds the family. Is that what you want for yourself?
Upstairs, they advise you to look for a job for better pay. Even if it was so easy, the point is that, once things have escalated so much, it won't return to normal behavior - even on the contrary, it will start to tell you how insignificant your job is, unlike his.
I don't see a useful move. I don't know why our gender is so masochistic and lacking real self-esteem. I've never understood such women, and I have a few girlfriends who have gone through such a round of events. None of them ended up well. Don't wait 20 years. In a relationship, one should feel happy and loved, all the modern clichés about how we should fight for love are complete nonsense. Think about your own mental and physical health.
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June 11, 2020
24 madamec answered
Get out of this filthy piece of, now!
If I were you, I'd be gone a long time ago. Whether you have a child or not is not a hindrance.
I grew up with this guy, too ( according to my documents, my father writes, but he has never acted like one and we do not keep in touch). He was, however, much worse. He threatened me, he fought me, he embarrassed me in public, he punished me. And you know why? He just hated me his whole life. I will never forgive my mother for not saving me from this hell. Learn a lesson from our history, please. Such wounds never pass, especially the children.
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June 11, 2020
25 puuussy_riot answered
Author: No, we don't have children. He's 29 years old and I'm 26.
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June 11, 2020
26 owned_pet19 answered
Big masochism torments the Bulgarian woman. It's going to get worse, take off your pink glasses. You can't get together with a man who's less paid than you and he doesn't have any complexes than that. There's no such movie. Whatever strange notions of love you have, i don't think you like life right now. Why are you doing this to yourself? Remember, there's no man worth trying for your whole life. No.
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June 11, 2020
27 paula8907 answered
Why are you still with that prick? Before you play it, mark this to acquaintances/friends, if you need to keep a phone by your side for 112. You go to the courthouse, then you're going to rape him in court, figuratively.
What exactly are you waiting for? Life is too short to spend it with scumbags.
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June 11, 2020
28 natalle_naughty answered
Your friend has extremely stupid thoughts. No one has to do anything, there's no such thing as "should." What's wrong with that? We live in a free country, we have free people, but we make some decisions and then we grumble that we're acting aggressively?!
Come on, come on. Nobody tied him to this job. He's a big guy, he can find a new job that's more relaxed, or at least for a higher salary. When a person is not satisfied with his life, he can change it. You're not at all guilty of anything. You think if you were alone, I'd be dealing with a $600 salary? Well, there wasn't. Your "light and pleasant work-rest" provides some of your finances, feeds you. Plus, I don't think there's anything like a light job. It's a job, it's a lot of work, it's a lot of work, it's a lot of work, it's a lot of work. People think someone stays in a chair all day shaking their feet, but that's rarely the case. Nobody gets paid to rest, to be honest. Don't fall for his at all. It's his own fault, and he chose to stay in this job himself.
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June 12, 2020
29 seattlerain85 answered
I was just about to write to the author to try to help her husband, because she's in a depression from the low salary and the crushing at work.
But then I saw it was a 29-year-old man. I was sure it was someone in his 40s who just didn't get lucky.
A young man who is looking for a light job and misked when he's squirming doesn't deserve help. He's never going to get better. It's getting worse.
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June 12, 2020
30 fun8in answered
Apparently, one of the moderators worked in an office and accepted my comment about the heavy office catargu too personally and cut it off. I'm waiting to see if he sees the light of day.
Author, since you don't have children to justify that you're still with him for them, why are you still with him? If he terrorizes you, leave him. It's not going to work any better. There are no irreplaceable people.
12.30pm
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June 12, 2020
31 monstercockchallenge answered
Losers are like that, girl. Someone else is crooked, they'il never admit they're losers. And selfish, besides. My father---is afraid to write this because he is already deceased, and as a rule of deceased good or nothing selflessly helped his relatives for a better job, for another because there were connections here. Especially his sister, who's his twin and her family. And my mother, his wife and the mother of his two children worked murderously hard physically, and after work until midnight he cooked, washed, cleaned, cared for us and his sick mother, and his other sister, who is disabled. How do you like that? It's a two-hundred-year-old. It's not going to change yours, it's only going to get worse.
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June 12, 2020
32 ghoat1947 answered
Which woman in our country will live with 600 lev men? They don't go out for a walk either. I smell like fiction in here. Rather, it's about the fact that it's a little money!
I think this is where the main accent hits, but three times as much to take, he'il treat you badly if he's a bad character.
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June 12, 2020
33 kjwilliams78 answered
And a hundred people to write how this one is not for you, how it will get worse, the outcome is clear. Like any woman who loses her mind, you'il stay with this one anyway. It's always been strange to me in stories like this, whether she listens to the advice of acquaintances and strangers, or whether she stays with the tormentor because of the misunderstood love.
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June 13, 2020
34 hairydazler123 answered
After £600, I stopped reading, how is there even a man sitting in a government job and taking that kind of money, what kind of man is he? He's a complexist and a crooked negativity, and you're unlikely to have an easy and happy life. Get out while it's time, I've come across women who have always been wrong, being happy isn't for everyone. I am personally a very cheerful and positive person, I love parties, laughter, travel and with me easy to live with.. but women have no pleasure, I have heard that I am an airman and a dreamer, well what to do, that I am a freelancer and make my money easy and work a little, and I have a super lot of time for myself, for the dog, for a bike and trips. He was approached by women as a minus mine, how I was undergrown and frivolous, because I've been drinking beer in the park with the dog all day, or I've been traveling every month somewhere because I work from the computer, and the serious people worked 10 hours hard in an office.. and I can't find a soul mate who understands that life is nice, the sky is blue, the grass is green, it's all about having fun and having to live day to day, I've ordered everything - I've got a nice apartment, a car, money, a dog, I make good money, because I'm free-havening for Americans and I set aside enough not to think about it in the next 10 years what to eat or what to do , and again I am frivolous and immature was :))) Understand that life is short - live today, tomorrow may not.
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June 13, 2020
35 pregncute answered
I don't know what i'm talking about. His values are already deeply indebted, and they include you being literally subordinate to him, not to say slave. If that's what you want for yourself, stay there, but otherwise just leave. There can be no love here, neither he can have you or you to him. You're probably just used to his presence to some extent, and that's why you're enduring, or you have hope of changing. It's not going to be this one, and you're not going to change it, nor is he willing to do it himself. From now on, it's your responsibility for your life.
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June 13, 2020
36 jacymai answered
The story was made up by a woman who every man is crooked and wants to find someone with more money, but she doesn't seem to be tying up. State work for 600 BGN I don't know. Even the officers with the lowest ranks as sergeants take $780-800 a month. The military takes $1,000 a month, and you're telling me your husband was taking $600. at a government job, take a picture of the fiction and sit on the dugout.
Garo
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June 13, 2020
1 andreatvhure answered