Hi, I recently wrote a topic that my boyfriend wants a threesome with another girl. I'm sorry to bother you again. But as I write this, I am even more confused than before. I ask the moderators to publish this topic as well. In the previous one I wrote that my friend shared how he got aroused by the thought of being intimate with another girl. He suggested that if I agreed to a threesome, I choose a friend of mine to relax. I explained that I did not want to. I am open to everything in sex. But not for the inclusion of a third. After my refusal, he began to convince me how fun and good it could be for me. I got angry. I told him to find other girls and make threesomes with which he wanted. He replied that we should have talked more thoroughly. What to talk about ... He's obviously using me as a sex toy.
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Um, of course, yes, I know this, why it's something known in advance. If he cared about you and your feelings, after your categorical NO he would not continue to insist, but he seems to be more interested in his own pleasure than in your feelings. I think it's better to break up, because today it will force you to be with a girlfriend, tomorrow it will make you do something else, I don't mean things in sex, but in general, and in the end it will turn out that he literally controls the whole you life and every time you don't do things the way he wants, scandals and quarrels will follow. And this is definitely not love. You decide, but that's how I see things.
TO THE AUTHOR: And I am a man and I want 3 with my wife and another woman or man .... If you love him you will allow - even more so it is SUPER TRUE that the woman feels twice as much fun when 2 people take care of her with caresses man and woman or 2 men. There are many more orgasms and teks in the literal sense .... I tried 3/2 men and 1 woman and I know how the woman felt afterwards.
Oh, number 2, only men who can't convince a woman of something use these blackmails. It is so weak and base that I have no words. "If you love me, you'll let me put it in your back, or you won't love me." Complete stupidity. Such people do not deserve to have serious relationships with women. Author, and last time I wrote to you how negative I am about such "throws". But come on, I won't be extreme this time. I don't know how emphatically you let him know the first time you didn't want to. If you left him a "door" to hope that you will change your mind, no wonder he feels the ground again. If you have categorically and clearly said that there is no question and that such a proposal sucks and humiliates you, and he continues to tease and annoy, but let him tease. See how far he can go, whether it won't come to the case of number 2 with "If you love me, you will agree" or even worse - "If you don't want to, I'll find another way to try". If such outbursts occur, believe me, you will already be so hated and disgusted that you will be fully aware of what to do from now on and your eye will not blink.
Honey, he doesn't respect you! And he doesn't love you and he doesn't appreciate you. dump it! Esmeralda 24
To number 3: Just because you don't want something like that doesn't mean that others don't want it ... and what you've written is HELLY STUPID: "They don't deserve to have a serious relationship with women," and what do you have to do with men by your logic? and? I have not met a woman who has tried 3ka and not had fun because 4 hands physiologically touch you, kiss 2 mouths in 2 parts of the body at the same time hellishly arousing ... but you're just hellishly congested and you will never feel it this pleasure! I'm sorry!
One thing to know - if the man utters the phrase "If you love me, ..." you run away from him and that's it !!!
Abe, are we talking about feelings or sex? Just because a boy is free doesn't mean he doesn't love you!
Being free is one thing, but when he starts blackmailing you to do it by force, he doesn't talk well about it anymore. If he loves you, he will understand you and will not blackmail you, and a man does not love with conditions. If a man truly loves, he loves without setting conditions, he loves man for his own sake, not because he agrees in threes. And by the way, do you know what percentage of such open relationships turn out to be lasting? Almost 0%.
I'm a man and I can tell you - it's great to be with two women. But I will not convince you that I think only of you, if you are one :) If YOU want it, do it. But don't tie that someone thought you were very, very nice. And of course, skip the moralizing comments like number 3. YD