Hello, readers. I will be concise. I've been with a guy for a few months now, but he's not my type at all .. :) :) I laughed a little, because I'm tired of laughing at myself from my immature actions. Otherwise he is very understanding, he tries to show me how much he means to him, but I know why he does it. Obviously, he doesn't love me, but he is fascinated by my appearance, because compared to him I am a goddess, so to speak, nothing that sounds a little immodest. I'm grateful to him for appreciating my appearance so much, but I'm tired of paying him back by having sex with someone who doesn't even turn me on. Now I am considering how to explain to him in the most delicate way possible that we can no longer be deceived and that it is time for this falsehood to stop. I really want to keep our friendship and I'm really on a dead end. I want to be with a man I want and I love, not a man, who only he supposedly loves me. This is not life. Please tell me how to have this conversation and explain all this to him, but without hating me. Thanks for the help in advance.
1 fancentrohellosunshine answered
Wait now, you know that comparing male to female beauty is a very stupid thing. It's one thing to be a man, it's another to be a woman. But to compare beauty to a man's ... I don't even know what to call it, stupid? Separately, if this person is decent, but you do not love him, and you are with him for money or sex, why do you do it to him? If you didn't want him, why are you with him?