Hi, I have a problem and want to share it with you. I'm a 23-year-old boy. My boyfriend (also a boy) is 30 years old. We've been together for four years. I love him very much. We also understand, more importantly, that is, even when we have problems, we sit down and solve them. In addition, with him I have real fun, fun, support in the difficult moments, we share everything, we talk on different topics, in general, everything is OK, it goes well, except for one thing that has been bothering me for almost 3 years and I no longer stand... My friend a long time of his life (from a toddler up to 24 years) was overweight. 140 kg. It's been a long time and he's decided to take them off. When we met, he was 26. and had lost weight dramatically. A very charming, charismatic man, with whom the first 9 months have not had sex, but still our love experiences were very exciting. It excites me like no other. But what happens... Turns 27. and an accident happened. Catastrophe, heavy. There were fractures. He did 1 month in the hospital, then three months at home, he couldn't walk. During this time, fill a lot. I supported him. Fortunately, he's fine, and everything's fine now. But over time he instead took off the unnecessary pounds iTunes yet. Even then I talked to him and I shared his concerns that I am quite lipid and did not attract me much strange on the body. I told him as sweet as I could because I didn't want this to stop us in the relationship. He understood me and hanged himself, that he would try to weaken. He tried, but he quickly gave up. Losing weight is not easy, I know. Since then, we have been on the following principle – I told him to lose weight, he tried, but he couldn't, I felt sorry for me, and I didn't insist, months passed again and the same again. The last period of Labor on his part started two months ago. Last month and a half. You gave up again. The last two years, he's got a job. He's working eight hours. Find a second job that's not every day, but there are days when he works 12 hours. He's super tired and tense. Fight for the higher post that hopes October 2020 to receive. Now it is justified that it does not weaken, because there is no time and its powers are null and void. I get it, it's in a tough situation. But I'm sick of it! 3 years he did. Fat, with the just that disgust me. He sweats a lot, and sometimes I get a bj and a. Last year the situation became even worse because he had no time to have sex. He's still tired, he's not in the mood. I talk a lot about these things, but he understands me, and then again as if nothing happened. I'm a young boy. Frankly, I do have sex every day. And we're together for 1-2 times a week. It's not enough for me to tell him, but I'm already tired of humiliating myself. He considers me very handsome, my friends too, I'm young, slightly athletic, generally trying a lot of diligence to look good and always observe hygiene. I have a job, but I don't neglect the relationship with the price of it. You don't know how bad it is when I see him crushed or when I try to seduce him, and he refuses to. Got used to stand alone and let go of pornography to satisfy. I'm tired, people. I'm exhausted. I don't know how to handle it... Please give me some advice. Once again I say – everything else goes well in the relationship. We love each other very much! But it crushes me...