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He's In My Car, In The Elevator.

By beverly_miss June 18, 2020 19 answers Last updated June 18, 2020

Hi! I had a meeting with a man with whom we had already slept together once, but since then it has been a while because he does not live in the UK. I saw you overseas. Things happened at the last minute. he was supposed to leave the next day out of the country, I arrived late, but we still made an appointment. He came to pick me up and he started groping me everywhere. at least until we got into them. although I like him a little bit. from the car, he kept messing with my pants. I've got a lot of thoughts that there are cameras, that someone's going to come in. but we have come safely. He immediately spilled out of them, and he made me have sex. he lives very high, the whole living room with huge windows, and everything is visible. He deliberately took me to the armchair by the window to see that we were having sex. I felt like I was in a movie... he was also quite rude, he was very fed up with something. And I somehow couldn't relax. Even though I like everything with him, I felt used. I was very angry... and on top of it, as we went down afterward, he told me to get in one elevator and him in the other. because his ex-girlfriend lived downstairs and was very jealous... (for God's sake). he's young and we both have 3, 4 years to 30. I know he likes women a lot, and he understands that I want him, but I've never let anyone use me for sex. And now that's exactly how I felt. I'm really crooked. I did not speak to him afterward, and he wonders why. he's asking me when we're going to see you again. I told him that when he wanted to see me again to do something about it, not to see me when I went to his country... and I got out of the car without telling him anything, and I left... now I do not know if I was very extreme... I kind of blame myself for twice offering to come to Bg to see me. But it's just that his behavior makes me nervous... only sex is in his head, and I have many other qualities... Now I'm very confused, and I don't know how to do it with a crazy man like him...

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rockets2507 answered · June 18, 2020
Maybe he arranged with someone to take a picture of you in the window or rub someone's compass nose (ex,neighbor). People can compete over who's going to get it bigger.
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girlspleasure69x answered · June 18, 2020
Your problem is that you're weak- you don't value yourself as a person, so this guy treats you like that, it just feels like you're so subconscious, and maybe consciously. Start cherishing yourself more, and you'il see how men treat you more respectfully.
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fnrocr answered · June 18, 2020
This one values you as a person just as much as you do yourself, that is, at all. And the minute he got what he wanted, he sent you to the other elevator. Did you ever think that on the way up and there at the window, his ex always lived downstairs. And you actually did a performance in her honor. Like in the final, he's the big player, and you're the one who went from where he came from.
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honey_moon18 answered · June 18, 2020
You liked sex, what are you complaining about? Use it for that. I'm a single woman, and I have such acquaintances. I can't see anything wrong.
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dumbcbslut answered · June 18, 2020
Well, you're a big cut, his mom's old. And it's good that you get it from time to time.
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packerscott answered · June 18, 2020
It's clear it's just sex for him! I don't see what you're complaining about?!? If that's not all you have, you're looking for another person, and that's it! "M.32g <
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triathleteman answered · June 19, 2020
He's been you all night, and then you decided to complain? Were you in your mouth when you were uncomfortable? Or are you just another gold digger or the kind of woman who wants to "tame the lush macho"? It's funny.
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cyb3rnightmar3 answered · June 19, 2020
You guys, when you've been sticking peppers in the beans, you're going to have to do the huge job, until you don't find a chick to smear your scheme. Then how you roar to a dead person is not true. Not to mention the many instances where you can't stand the woman by your side, but you're sitting safe and now you've found the author's pennies. Come shut up.
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farah7 answered · June 19, 2020
"I know that women love him a lot, and he understands that I want him, but I've never let anyone use me for sex. " Hookers deal with easy women. You dealt with him. Transfer to the other side of the draw and the two equations become the same. "and I got out of the car without telling him anything and left... now I do not know if I was very extreme.... " We can set an example with a cock-running hen. She runs - so they don't think about the course, but turns around so she doesn't run away on the rooster.
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akame069 answered · June 20, 2020
The author genuinely made me laugh. Fuck her all night, she's been moaning that she's in the elevator- hahahahahah. Miss, what do you expect if you're a young, attractive woman, your dude is a lover, and you're obviously acting like an aphrodisiac? It's just sex in his head.
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misss955 answered · June 20, 2020
He runs the chicken in front of the rooster and he's yelling, am I running fast? That's what the author does, does she want to be used for sex again?
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doriangray989 answered · June 20, 2020
If she had problems with her dad, she'd still want to...
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asianbits69 answered · June 21, 2020
I don't see where the problem is, the guy has a libido and he has sex. Since you're attracted to him and you like him, it's normal for him to want to you anywhere and in all the poses. I don't understand the suggestion that she's being "used for sex"? If you think sex is a bad thing, then don't have sex, but if you think sex is a good thing then don't be hypocritical and discontent while enjoying it.
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eves_bodyxxx answered · June 21, 2020
You're only using it for sex and complaining, I absolutely can't understand you?
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englishtom_2525 answered · June 21, 2020
I had a friend like you, she always liked them like that, and they used her all the time, she also had qualities, but she didn't do anything and showed, only allowed to have sex. I understand your infatuation, I understand how you feel, but this guy is looking for it, this is his game with you, he doesn't want commitment, he doesn't want drooling and tenderness, and if he wants them, he doesn't want them from you. And to try some kind of connection, once it's gone again, there will be others. Beware, you don't know what's going to stick to you.
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nellyvanpanties answered · June 22, 2020
From the author: To numbers 13 and 14. I like him too much to use him just for sex. And yes, he's using me for sex, and that's pretty clear to me. I like sex, but I don't like his attitude towards me. It's too superficial, and it's very distressing. It's like I'm a sex-only toy, and he doesn't care much about me as a person. But that's who he is. Too saturated by everything. Money, cars, women. He travels the world. We live in neighboring countries. This is the second time we've seen you. With absolutely nothing in my behavior, I have not seemed a light woman, I dare say. It's just that he's setting me home sex conditions. I didn't agree for so long, but I ended up accepting... I broke my principles and everything because of him... I wrote here because I really don't know how to deal with this type of guy... because such men who only want sex have reflected them, but now it has come to my head. And by number 12, my father wasn't present in my life.
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digge8r answered · June 22, 2020
What did you do about it? Did you say anything to him, ask him any questions about his behavior, stopped him, or did he just sleep with him outside the window while the ex is downstairs and he must be hearing something? Start being respected enough not to let you feel used. You have control in situations like this, and you can react to the moment instead of later feeling sorry and thinking about it for days.
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mirrabelle13 answered · June 22, 2020
Author, do you even read your posts? Quote: "I wrote here because I really don't know how to deal with this type of man... for such men who want only sex have reflected them, but now it has come to my head too." Well, yes, but it's different when you a wealthy stranger... Apartment, abroad, money and career - the dream of every set-up. So, my advice is to keep going with him, but to demand some high price so that we men can be proud that our women are not cheap.
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terapixel answered · June 22, 2020
From 12. It's authorke, to like someone who abuses and humiliates you, and to want to be with that person again, it's probably true that male love is so disparaging, humiliating, missing, scarce, and that you have to deserve it in some way, or to tolerate and make sacrifices to receive it. These are not healthy relationships, but very destructive and are super harmful to your personal self-esteem, tomorrow you can accept domestic violence as if it were normal and you deserve it. "Daddy issues" - read and work on itself.