He's A Virgin ... Tips?

   You catch it and start, do you expect to make a sacrifice? Expect it to end quickly, but you may not be upset. If it happens, explain to him that you love him and it doesn't matter, after a while you repeat and so on. In practice it will get better.

   A man of 25 Congratulations on first deciding not to dump him. I have read and heard opinions of women hundreds of times who, meeting a virgin man, dump him because, you see, he has no experience in bed. He will not be able to satisfy them, etc. Extremely mature thinking and action on your part. There is no way a person can learn something if he does not practice it, and sex requires two people. My advice is purely and simply to show him that this does not bother you in any way, on the contrary, you feel flattered that you are the first. Tell him to be calm about everything. Take the first steps at the beginning and show him this and that. It probably won't satisfy you like people did the first time, but once it relaxes, I'm sure you'll fit. So predispose him, do things to him that are not a problem for you. If you like oral love, you can show him this and that. After 2-3 times there is no way not to relax. Once again, I'm glad there are women who think like you. Good luck

   Serve yourself a glass of two or a bottle of alcohol to alleviate this worry, and the rest is as number 1 wrote

   It turned out well. You are free, he is a virgin. You have to learn it. That's why they met.

   The fact that he is a virgin and is not very busy before means that he will appreciate and love you a lot, he has suffered a lot from it and therefore would not cheat and would be a wonderful party for a long-term relationship and marriage. 19, at first it was awful, I couldn't lift it for two months, but then everything was perfect. I am now 30 and I am looking for such a girl, beautiful, modest, or virgin or she has been with 1 or two at most, because such a girl is suitable for a long-term relationship

   Being a virgin is by no means a vice. On the contrary, in this way it will enter directly into your rhythm and temperament and you will have a great time. I advise you not to attach any importance to this in order to get things right the first time. Do not behave like a teacher or as more skilled in things, let him be himself and just see you pleasantly surprised;)

   Author, why don't you say your own age. You say you've never been someone's first. That tells me you've had a lot of men in your life. From such a great experience with men, did you learn nothing about how to handle them or did you just lie down and expect them to act? Here is my advice. When you meet and be alone somewhere, start hugging, touching and kissing. If he is inexperienced in kissing, show him how to kiss. Give him your rich experience. After a while, start feeling it around your penis. You unbutton his pants, take out his penis and start making him French. I assure you that he will really like this game. Be prepared that it may end up in your mouth and don't worry about swallowing the semen in front of him. From then on, it's up to you how your relationship will go. I wish you good luck.

   The author: I am 21 and I have been with 3 men, because I had serious relationships with the three of them, I don't like things overnight. But I can say for sure that I am relaxed in this regard, I have tried an awful lot of things and I do not let them work, and I have always acted equally, but I was just interested to ask the male audience for advice. He has waited so long and I want to give him maximum pleasure.

   I am amazed by comments like number 7. What age are you in, people? Do you realize how wrong and backward thinking you have? Ossified and narrow-minded. No one would want a woman passed by an entire army. But even waiting for virgins or those with 1-2 partners is dumb and limited. It shows that you have complexes yourself. Whether you are weak in sex or not particularly gifted and you are dying for fear that your future partner may not have been more experienced or gifted than you. Pathetic. And the fact that she won't cheat on you if you're her first is even funnier. In the 21st century, how many people have known only one sexual partner? A little. Sooner or later everyone will want to try each other. There may be exceptions, but there must be true love. A zipper is not the most important thing a woman can offer. When you break it and what? The girl is already used and dirty. To insert, that I am not one of the women with large numbers. But when I hear about a man looking for a virgin or ready to miss a normal girl, because he has no hymen and I feel sick.

   To number 11: It has been scientifically proven that the more partners a woman has, the harder it becomes for her to build a long-term relationship. Plus, number 7 just shared what's on his mind, he didn't criticize anyone, and you attacked him like a harpy. The fact is that just as women love poisoned alpha males, so men love pure virgins - that is the nature of all people. "and you're dying for fear that your future partner may not have been more experienced or gifted than you." I'm not personally afraid of that - I'm sure I am. If a woman had 5 partners before me, it must have been bigger than 15 cm for one of them. and with someone who was with more pieces than me. The scary thing is that most women want every next partner to be better than the previous one. And what do we do in this situation?

   Number 12, the numbers don't make you experienced. A person can have been with 1 partner, and still come to him from within and indulge in foreplay. Nowhere did I say that a woman should have many men. What does alpha male mean? I do not want an alpha, but a normal and accurate man. Matchmakers want muffins. And a man to be strong and keep his word does not make him an alpha. It makes a man. I'm not rushing like a harpy, thanks for the definition. I'm just amazed by young people with such medieval thinking. And when they never find a pure, holy and blameless virgin, they become angry and cynical. And hating women and blaming them for everything. By the way, how much a man will enjoy sex or rather the parody of sex with a virgin is another question. But he will learn and model it as he likes

   From the story presented in this way, the author's dilemma sounds like "I'm interested in being someone's first, how can I make him have sex with me?". It's not about love or starting a family. My advice is for the author to look for someone poisoned like her, instead of entangling in her nets this decent boy, who is suitable for an inexperienced girl like him.

   13, and why not enjoy the "parody" of sex with a virgin? As far as I know, sex has not only a physical but also an emotional side, which also plays a role, especially when it comes to the first time, but somehow you miss it with your ugly expression. It would be a parody if one partner was rude to the other. Black Sabbath

   Is there a theme for virginity and Black Sabbath is the first track. It's annoying. By parody I meant that neither of them would take much pleasure. There will be a moment of awkwardness and even fear. Now of course, I expect someone to get involved and explain how his first time was magical and phenomenal and blah blah.

   16, things can't be fantastic from the first time. Every first time, in anything, it causes some awkwardness and insecurity in people, but that doesn't mean it's a parody. Parody is a mockery of something, and I don't think the first time is a mockery of sex, but the first step towards it. And I'm not the first track, I even get involved in the topic 10-11 days after it is published. There is something wrong with the definitions. Black Sabbath

   The author to number 14: On the contrary, sex is important to me, but he has never been a leader in a relationship and precisely because I love him I decided to be with him and wait for him to come home and we have plans to live together, I just wanted advice Well, not the ugly statement "to entangle it in my nets" still thank those who answered the topic :)

   Oh, it feels good, believe me. I remember my first wife in my life when I was 24 and she said "You must have watched a lot of erotic movies?" Because she liked how I did everything. As you stiffen, self-suggestions begin and end. I did not stiffen then and I have the best memories. There were three more after her, and none of them were so strong. So the concept of experience does not apply to sex. There are athletes with a flair for a sport and they develop it in vocational schools. You have to be crazy to sleep with a woman and wonder what to do with her. Seriously, in those years I was wondering how to come across someone like the author, and this one was worried. So you need to relax more.

   16, not only for virginity. Even for sex, she intervened and gave advice on erotic lingerie. I will give my mind on nuclear physics already.

   Black Sabbath, don't pretend you don't get it. I meant that you signed up for every topic related to virgin torment. Or in almost any, come on. It is clear why. You are not in class in general. Judging by your other comments. I stop commenting. It's neither interesting nor makes sense.

   I told the first girl I had sex with that she was my third to think I was more experienced. He never realized that it was my first, and we were "friends with privileges" for several months. I want to say that things are not difficult or unpleasant for a man usually, unless he himself has the attitude that he has something.

   21, as you know how to determine in how many topics about virginity I have written, check all of them on the site and then allow yourself to comment, because they are neither all nor * almost * all. Exactly such a determination means not being in class. Parody is ridicule, and it's more than tragic not to know something so simple. If your first time was a "parody", then my condolences, but not everyone was. Black Sabbath

   20 (sorry to write a second time) yes, I will give advice on virginity, erotic lingerie and whatever else I want and if you have any problem with that, then don't make it my problem. :) If you want, give advice on quantum mechanics, I'm not interested in Black Sabbath

   Why are you deluding yourself that virgin men are a problem? Mine was a virgin too, but she admitted it to me after a few unique nights of healthy sex.

   Why do we cheat? Well, we're not mistaken, it's a problem. I gave a virgin a chance for the set - until he gets up and finishes, his condom falls off, nothing to do with "healthy sex" at all. He tries in the oral - he is not very aware of what he is doing, I point out the right way, but the blatant lack of experience is obvious.

   It's up to the person, not the experience. I repeat, how come there are men who do not know what to do with a naked woman? It is not a philosophy.

   Horror. You're crazy. It sucks to have sex with a man who has no idea what's going on in bed. Don't want to be the man. Which makes you feel feminine. You have to lead it all the time. If he's worried at all. Being a virgin at this age is a serious problem. I had an inexperienced boyfriend soon, it was egati grief. He doesn't know if it's in me or not. He rubs sheets and thinks he's having sex. Does he watch movies, it's romantic. Because real life is different.

   You invite him to your place. You go to the other room, undress completely naked and return to him. This will save him from hanging around and gaining courage on what and whether to do.

   to 32: by your logic, all virgin men should sleep with virgin women, which can't happen. The man still has to learn someday, right ...

   My first time was with an experienced girl, who I fell in love with and kissed her everywhere before the real part, and she asked me if I was so passionate with other girls. He didn't notice me and even rejoiced. But I was very much in love with her because she was my first. Then I came across another one with a lot of pieces and everything went well there. My father always said that the only thing he learns are dumps, and in sex everything is clear. Selfishness and rigidity are the factors that suggest a man's lack of experience. I'm not stiff and I'm not selfish, they couldn't feel me. And women are not so understanding, they do not take part in sex except whistles. M24

   By 36, bro, you're very right to participate. One told me she didn't like being on top and moving. They simply rely on the man and when they come across someone who does not come from within, they immediately stigmatize everyone else. Men are driven by instinct and I doubt that a man can stand and wonder. Another problem. I've been waiting like crazy to do it at 23 without hesitation.

   To 34: Well to study at school. He is not 26 years old, it is still time to have sex and he is late. If he is still a virgin, it is better to catch a not very experienced woman, because I have a lot of experience and I am annoyed by this discrepancy. I like the man to be dominant, not to think for 5 minutes what a vagina is and to put it in your anus at the end. And so 5 times ... You help him, you guide him, he still doesn't orient himself. He couldn't get a gram out of worry. He finally switched to Viagra.

   I had two short-term relationships, but both babes don't seem to be unhappy. Even my first one was a big thrill and he wanted me very much. I had no experience, but I watched a lot of movies and I wasn't a lumberjack. You either have it or you don't.