Hello! A girl of 14 (8th grade) writes to you. Since last year I like a boy who is 2 years older than me. I wrote to him in the summer, but he only saw him and did not answer me. I understand this to some extent because he is very shy. Now that we have started school, he has started noticing me and looking at us more and more often. The last time we looked at each other, he smiled at me. I don't know what to do, he is very shy and I don't know if he will take the first step. But I don't want to do it and I can't be sure that he feels something, although many of my friends say that they noticed him looking at me and smiling when he saw me. I don't know if you have any tips I would be very glad to hear them. And thanks in advance !!
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Have conversations with him on a common topic for the first time. For example, have you ever seen a teacher that you need and are looking for her and so on. If he is shy, he will hardly take the first step, but don't be intrusive so as not to push him away. You are small and even if you make a connection in the end it will be short, but start by emphasizing the lessons - they will be important and useful for you, for life. We have all fallen in love, there will be a second and a third time - normal, but also study, because in addition to points in the sentences must be present commas! Education is important, and try with the boy if you want, but it will not be the last one you will fall in love with, but it will not be here, to interfere because we have all been like you. No, it will be forever, but we've all had boyfriends like that anyway.