He Wants To Have An Abortion

   Talk to her. Can she live up to 40 years old? !! And your biological clock is ticking ... find another woman who has made a living and wants a normal family.

   At the risk of being attacked, if he wants to have an abortion, he should. Yes, you are both responsible for this child, you also have the floor, but the final decision is hers. However, the physical and mental consequences are for the most part for her. Separately, it sounds to me like those people who think they want something serious for I don't know what reason, but when it comes to their ass, they remember that they are not really ready and they are doing completely different things. One of the worst things is an unwanted child, don't do it to him. In general, the whole story sounds very absurd to me with these pills that you kill from her hands, etc. At least, when she wants so much, to do it like people, and you wonder if you have a future with this woman.

   Well, let her have an abortion. It is obvious that there are emotional problems that will 100 percent affect the child very severely, who will always feel unhappy when he grows up. Therefore, it is best not to give birth if there is no desire! People with emotional problems are best not to become parents! If you really want to be a dad, just break up with her right away and find a new girlfriend. Everyone has the right to live their life the way they want.

   The way out is one-parting! If he loved you, he wouldn't want to take it off. She lived and didn't make a living, she's 29, she just doesn't see her future with you, abortion is not a joke, she has a lot of good reason from what she pointed out, think about it!

   At the risk of my comment not being published, sorry, who are you to decide what to do with your body? Hey, then you men are scary, you only have us to fuck and breed. If she told you she wasn't ready, what more do you want from a woman? Get pregnant, and drive me 9 months in hell. It's very easy like that - let's get pregnant and give birth. She decides when she's ready! You think pregnancy is a child's play obviously. The egoist thinks for himself "I also feel mentally ready ..." and you don't ask the person who will struggle how he is. Aman! Eva

   Get a divorce and look for another. Why is this drunk irresponsible to you? To hurt him before he was born and to be crushed by a disabled person? Let her break her head and you find a decent girl

   Author, I am sorry that you have fallen into this difficult and unjust situation. I am glad that there are men like you who seek and want justice. I am glad that there are men like you who are FOR life, NOT for death, including when it comes to the LIFE of the UNBORN, BUT LIVING IN THE MOTHER'S BIRTH CHILD! Unfortunately, there are men who do not care about their pregnant girlfriends and wives, and when their pregnant wives see male indifference, they go because of impaired self-esteem, stupidity and pride to have an abortion! What can I tell you: if your wife works - take all her money! Don't give her any money, no savings, because she can buy some medicine and an abortion "medicine" to kill your child! Your wife MUST understand that THIS CHILD IS YOURS, NOT JUST HER! AND THAT SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO ATTACK AND KILL A HUMAN CHILD! ABORTION IS THE MURDER OF AN INNOCENT HUMAN CHILD IN A MOTHER'S WOMAN! Remind her that if she has an abortion, it WILL COST HER LIFE !!! The fact that not all women who have an abortion do not die does NOT mean that there are no DEATHS of women who killed their children during the operation! Author, you support the family, you work, unfortunately you can't be like a babysitter next to your wife, and be by her side every second. Remind her that this is your common FIRST child - long awaited and desired !!!! It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medicines, except those medicines that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man. ABORTION IS THE MURDER OF AN INNOCENT HUMAN CHILD IN A MOTHER'S WOMAN! Remind her that if she has an abortion, it WILL COST HER LIFE !!! The fact that not all women who have an abortion do not die does NOT mean that there are no DEATHS of women who killed their children during the operation! Author, you support the family, you work, unfortunately you can't be like a babysitter next to your wife, and be by her side every second. Remind her that this is your common FIRST child - long-awaited and desired !!!! It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medicines, except those medicines that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man. ABORTION IS THE MURDER OF AN INNOCENT HUMAN CHILD IN A MOTHER'S WOMAN! Remind her that if she has an abortion, it WILL COST HER LIFE !!! The fact that not all women who have an abortion do not die does NOT mean that there are no DEATHS of women who killed their children during the operation! Author, you support the family, you work, unfortunately you can't be like a babysitter next to your wife and be by her side every second. Remind her that this is your common FIRST child - long-awaited and desired !!!! It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medicines, except those medicines that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man. that if she had an abortion, it WOULD COST HER LIFE !!! The fact that not all women who have an abortion do not die does NOT mean that there are no DEATHS of women who killed their children during the operation! Author, you support the family, you work, unfortunately you can't be like a babysitter next to your wife, and be by her side every second. Remind her that this is your common FIRST child - long-awaited and desired !!!! It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medicines, except those medicines that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man. that if she had an abortion, it WOULD COST HER LIFE !!! The fact that not all women who have an abortion do not die does NOT mean that there are no DEATHS of women who killed their children during the operation! Author, you support the family, you work, unfortunately you can't be like a babysitter next to your wife, and be by her side every second. Remind her that this is your common FIRST child - long-awaited and desired !!!! It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medications except those that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man. that there are no DEATHS of women who killed their children during the operation! Author, you support the family, you work, unfortunately you can't be like a babysitter next to your wife, and be by her side every second. Remind her that this is your common FIRST child - long-awaited and desired !!!! It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medications except those that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man. that there are no DEATHS of women who killed their children during the operation! Author, you support the family, you work, unfortunately you can't be like a babysitter next to your wife, and be by her side every second. Remind her that this is your common FIRST child - long-awaited and desired !!!! It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medicines, except those medicines that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man. It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medicines, except those medicines that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man. It must not encroach on human life! I will be sorry! Talk to your mother, she should understand you, let her watch and take care of your wife while you are at work. Discard all medicines, except those medicines that support the good development of the fetus! I'm so sorry for you, man.

   I think she's crazy or has a new thrill. Run away and get a divorce. Her behavior is not normal.

   I don't know, he talks and he will regret it for the rest of his life, if he removes it and your relationship will not be good, maybe you will break up.

   There is no way to make her hold the child. She is not ready to be a mother, she does not want to be a mother. Take her to have an abortion if she wants to, then split up and find a normal woman who wants children. She does not want to be a mother and does not have the maternal instinct that mature women have. Leave her. I wouldn't be surprised if she took birth control pills all this time and therefore didn't get pregnant. An error may now have occurred due to forgetting a pill or other. But more than obvious, not at her request. He leads her to get what she wants and leaves her. You will not have a child from her.

   See what happens to the child. If he removed it, he divorced her immediately. She doesn't love you. If she doesn't want the child now, when she has it, she was obviously deliberately hanging out with you, but she was making her own plans. In a word, she is purposefully protecting herself from getting pregnant, and she has played you and dragged you on her finger. She is not the woman for you. If she gives birth to a child I don't know, she won't love him and she will make money on the little creature, she will harass him mentally and maybe physically. You will suffer again. Maybe the first option with such a mother is better, I don't know!

   This woman of yours is mentally unstable and even if she gives birth, she will not be able to watch it and it will be a nightmare. Maybe you should threaten her with divorce if you have to look for happiness in another.

   I think she's scared because you've wanted it for years, and suddenly, when you almost tried on inertia, it happened. Talk to her calmly.

   Very unpleasant situation. In my opinion, you should set the condition that if he has an abortion for such a reason (he "lived" at the moment ...), you will leave her. And let her do what she wants, let her judge. It sounds like subconscious resistance to your genes to me, but let's not dig deeper ...

   Consider brother. How far have they all gone ... And yes, I can totally judge them as much as I want, because they say such things about us. We were mother's children, we had no money and so on and so forth. God finally gave her a chance, and she wasted it.

   You need help .. From a doctor, a psychologist .. from you. Sometimes during pregnancy, hormones send women into incredible states. I speak from personal experience. If common sense doesn't help, I don't know if it would make sense to go against her choice. Good luck.

   There is no point in killing either the woman or the author. All you need are conversations. If you have talked again and again and again until you clarify. Hiding money, as I read above, will get you nowhere. A child is really a very big responsibility and change. You have to be ready to give and take. As good as it is to have a child, it is also difficult to stress. Also keep in mind that pregnant women have nervous breakdowns during pregnancy and are more labile. If you really want this child, this woman talks to her all the time until she gets tired of listening. Try everything possible. If she loves you and feels secure in you, there should be no reason not to want a child. Good luck.

   She really didn't make a living. You got married too early. She was only 21 years old. He obviously wants to try another life. To go up and down. Maybe there's another man. Talk to her calmly and let her do whatever she wants. You don't need an unwanted child. And even if she gives birth to it reluctantly, she may still decide she wants to live. He will leave you and have another unhappy child. And you too.

   She was scared and that's why she spoke like that, she wasn't prepared, her hormones were blocking her. Pregnancy and all the changes with the body and mind are not easy. Since she doesn't want it, you can't stop her if you make her a bully. Talk to her, give her support and stability without pressing her, tell her not to take pills and alcohol, it will only hurt herself. If she doesn't change her mind, there's nothing you can do, the body is hers

   It seems that everyone who writes that she decides, forgets the fact that people have been trying for 6 years. Are you saying that the woman has been experimenting for 6 years and has never thought that she will be pregnant for 9 months, that she will not sleep normally for 2 years after giving birth, that the parties will decrease sharply? !! Author, you are at a disadvantage. I think your wife assumed she wouldn't get pregnant. She tried, but she never thought she would really get pregnant because it hadn't happened in a long time. Now she is in a slight shock, scared and starts giving up. Psychologically, it is somehow understandable. I can advise you not to pressure her to give birth to this child, she will not be happy and things will not go smoothly. You can consult a psychologist, talk to someone and relax your soul. After all, you are 34 years old, if you are not happy with this relationship, if you want different things, then you know what your options are. You can't control her, if she doesn't have an abortion, she'll take pills, she'll drink alcohol, she'll smoke cigarettes ... she'll find a way, if not to eliminate, then at least to hurt the fetus. She is an adult, you are not a parent, there is no way to stop her, this is the situation. She has her own resources, her own time, and if she wants to, she will find a way to have an abortion. Get out of your head that you can force her to hold and give birth to your child. She has her own resources, her own time, and if she wants to, she will find a way to have an abortion. Get out of your head that you can force her to hold and give birth to your child. She has her own resources, her own time, and if she wants to, she will find a way to have an abortion. Get out of your head that you can force her to hold and give birth to your child.

   Hello! What if the child is not you and she is afraid that this may one day be revealed.

   The child is not from you, so he wants to remove it. You can't try for a baby for six years, then want to have an abortion. Your wife has a fucker / who emptied inside. She didn't take care of herself. That's why he teases you that he's not ready and so on. Don't let yourself be manipulated, lie brother! Now she is 29 years old, when will she want to give birth _when she becomes a grandmother ???

   Author, what's going on, how is your wife?

   n. 5, Eve, really tell us who he is to ask such things from her? The donkey that has to work, pay bills, fulfill whims and so on? The woman in question, after 6 years of trying, was still clear about the end result? If she wasn't ready, then why did she agree to try for 6 years? Author, your wife is very emotionally and mentally unstable, and if she still gave birth to this child, then I do not think what your life would be like, nor what environment this child will grow up in. All I know is that your life will be hell, so you're the man to decide what to do.

   As hard as it is for you - part with her! 6 years of walking in one direction and suddenly-I feel like living? !! During all these years, did you live again and what does it mean by living at 29? ... bars, parties, teen stories for adults? If she's in a nervous breakdown and you overcome it, fine, but if that's really her opinion and ... I'm sorry, but you're going to have to live a new life without her. You need a woman who, like you, knows what she wants and to give your child security, stability and a full family! Success!

   I have a comment n. 25 The author has posted a topic in another section / love and infidelity / ... wants to have an abortion 2 sequel. As I guessed, his wife had a lover. And now they are divorcing, as the author wrote. Such infidelity is not forgiven / The author is 34, he will find another girl, She can be more beautiful and more beautiful, but more importantly, to be honest and to keep the man next to her. The former will want you to get together / try after a while. Therefore, meet her only in court in case of divorce !!! S&M

   I join in to say number 5 and others like her - pregnancy is not hell. It is difficult, it is life-threatening, it is a burden. But for God's sake, my child grows in my womb, how can this be hell! ??? Another issue is not wanting the child. Don't want the father. But number 5 obviously you had no difficulties, neither health nor life, once you define pregnancy as hell. Cancer, back and all terrible diseases are Hell. Carrying a nine-month-old baby under your heart is a grace. The changes in the body are not much different or unbearable from the changes that a person experiences in other conditions. Of course, everything lasts 9 months, but it lasts. How they irritate me means things like number 5. Men do that, men do that. If you attract such men, it does not mean that everyone is like that. They don't understand what it is. Yes, if you give it to them, they may not be able to stand it. But I would not voluntarily give him this chance to bear and give birth to a child. I will say one thing to the author - light a candle, you got rid of it. You will see some day when you meet your true partner and embrace your child how much service life has done you by getting rid of this one. Only life and health!