He Told Me The Truth, And I Feel Terrible!  

The Story

Hello! I am a 28-year-old married woman with two children. We have been married for 6 years, we have had all kinds of good and bad moments, but despite everything, we are together and we want to save our family. The problem if I can call him that is that my husband has a very nice appearance and a good job. This makes it happen over the years that various girls revolve around him. I know that all he did was flirt to satisfy his ego, that he was wanted and liked. A few years ago, we had a very extreme moment in just such a situation. A lady had imagined that she would get more than that, and she was looking for him and inviting him to meetings. Then I accidentally found out and had experienced. He swears he had nothing to do with her, but I didn't take it and kept scolding him. So we spent a lot of time, and our relationship broke down a lot. At one point I calmed down that there was no point in poisoning myself anymore and I stopped harassing. To note that he doesn't go anywhere, he's not late for work and I have no reason to behave like that ... but then I realized that they had written a few text messages, she called him and so on ... now it's been a year or so. are calm, I have somehow calmed down and I am no longer paranoid like that. The other day he called me that he wanted to share something with me so that there would be no secrets between us and so that I would not feel like a league. He said that in the building where their office is, he met a girl who showed interest in him, they wrote together in front of the office and she found his number and they heard each other two or three times. He told me that he had told her that he was married and that he loved his wife and had nothing to give her. He told me that as a man he felt good to know that he was liked and had attention to him, the girl was nice, but he could not cross the border and he felt terrible because he was in this situation. He told me it wasn't worth ruining his family for a fuck, and he wanted to tell me so there were no secrets between us and trust.

 

I was scalded, I didn't expect this, everything between us is calm and I didn't think what dilemmas he was sent to. But I felt terrible, I'm glad he's honest with me, because I wouldn't have known about the situation if he hadn't told me, but on the other hand, I feel terrible, as if I've been betrayed and I really haven't. I know that now you will say it's your fault that you teased him, but obviously I love him a lot when I feel like that ... I should note that I also have a nice appearance and I enjoy the attention, but no man he dared after he found out that I was married to tease and look for me, but this is not the case with him. I can't understand, is there a problem in him, does he predispose women to such behavior? I create a stupid complex somewhere that I'm not a good enough wife and that I'm not attractive enough for him, which is very popular because I don't want to be with other men, I don't need it, and I don't really know if he doesn't need it. I am asking for advice!

Last Updated
July 18, 2020
Author:
ginablondecam

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