I have a problem similar to yours with my girlfriend. We have been together for 5 months and in general I think it is not for me, but I love her and I want to separate at times by mutual consent, but whenever one wants a separation, the other softens things. Yesterday we were on the topic that we should just remain friends, even she offered it to me (for me the fact that the story is not extremely rosy, she slept with a boy for November before we met, she made a whistle (reels of extortion), to a person with whom they have only known each other for 6 days), somehow these things come to me more, if I think about them, to meet these Badzhans and so on, although while we are together she has not cheated on me and while she has a relationship she is serious and honest, open and so on, I find it hard to accept these things and I was very curious yesterday to really end our relationship. I also hinted at these things that I knew, that I don't like them and she was offended that I was digging into her past ... she said ok, we're not for each other, let's just be friends. I thought that there is another one when he pities me so easily (we are together every day), but then I agreed, I said ok, great, we leave our friends and everyone knows him ... but he started telling me the way, how to get a book and take a car one day I will hear about her how she committed suicide somewhere. Then he posted a status on Facebook that he stopped eating from today on. She is an Aries zodiac sign, it is very difficult to fall on her back and she did not tell me directly in her eyes that she wants us to be together again, but she was visibly unhappy, she sent me songs with greetings, that she wants me back, to forgive her for being wrong. she told us to separate and so on ... I won't hurt her, but this irritability and impulsiveness of hers, I think, can ever hurt me and make me angry, if eventually I don't trust her and pick on her because I'm jealous. Of course I will disguise her later, I have proof of her mistakes before, she knows it very well. I am also impulsive and once I was angry that she did not come with me on the 24th day of our relationship and kissed another girl, danced and so on, but I did not have any sexual contact, while she was initially if I did not please her. it is possible to go further with someone, but we have not had such moments (in previous relationships she has had), in the present if she clings to me and loves me she will not cheat on me and lie to me, and I follow everything. But I wonder if I have a future with such a person. She cut her veins once, but not in a suicide attempt, but to injure herself so that her hands wouldn't hurt, that she had some problems. The next moment I slept on the ground in the bathroom, because I snored and pushed her out of bed. Once she had hidden and for all 2-3 days she did not pick up the phone and immediately went back to them and something was depressing. In general, I think it's not for me, but I can't leave her so that she doesn't do something stupid, I just don't know what to do, I'll give her more chances, I'll tolerate more, but she probably won't change, and will I be able to get out of it and end up not being poisoned with pills and stuff because she is definitely capable. She grew up with her mother and older brother, without a father and suffers a lot from that long relationship in which she was totally injured after 2 years, mother and sick, without a father .... what to do and I have no idea but I can't leave her so she doesn't do something stupid, I just don't know what to do, I'll give her more chances, I'll tolerate more, but she probably won't change, and will I be able to get out of it and in the end not to be poisoned with pills and so on, because she is definitely capable. She grew up with her mother and older brother, without a father and suffers a lot from that long relationship in which she was totally injured after 2 years, mother and sick, without a father .... what to do and I have no idea but I can't leave her so she doesn't do something stupid, I just don't know what to do, I'll give her more chances, I'll tolerate more, but she probably won't change, and will I be able to get out of it and in the end not to be poisoned with pills and so on, because she is definitely capable. She grew up with her mother and older brother, without a father and suffers a lot from that long relationship in which she was totally injured after 2 years, mother and sick, without a father .... what to do and I have no idea
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The mistake is in you - that you are attached to him. And I think you do it not so much for him, but for yourself, because his encroachment on his life weighs on your conscience. But why does it weigh on your conscience? - You don't want him killed, it will look like you killed him. Not so, you are not to blame for his condition, in any way. If he kills himself, he will be guilty. You didn't stuff it with pills. It is not your fault that he has a mental disorder. So if you want (I'm not sure) to get rid of it. You firmly declare: Look what, if you want to kill yourself, I respected you enough and this decision is yours! Or: You make me choose between my life and yours - I choose mine well! "Kill yourself if you want." He will take his life again - nothing stands indifferent. Watch it and stay where you are. When he drinks the bottle, he will faint, but he will not be dead. Then don't touch anything, pick up the phone and tell the hospital that you saw him lying like that and the bottle, you say what it was, is empty. Most likely, they will save him, interrogate you, tell him what he told you, and put him in treatment. So in 24 hours, you will get rid of. He may reach out to you when he sees that you are not in favor of responding to his threat. If you are stronger, let him hit you, push him away and run, call the police, take a restraining order, tell him what happened. If you are weaker, try to run away and do the same again. Before that go to the doctor for medical. There is another easier option. You say what you described here on 112 and wait for instructions. tell him what he told you, and they will put him to treatment. So in 24 hours, you will get rid of. He may reach out to you when he sees that you are not in favor of responding to his threat. If you are stronger, let him hit you, push him away and run, call the police, take a restraining order, tell him what happened. If you are weaker, try to run away and do the same again. Before that go to the doctor for medical. There is another easier option. You say what you described here on 112 and wait for instructions. tell him what he told you, and they will put him to treatment. So in 24 hours, you will get rid of. He may reach out to you when he sees that you are not in favor of responding to his threat. If you are stronger, let him hit you, push him away and run, call the police, take a restraining order, tell him what happened. If you are weaker, try to run away and do the same again. Before that go to the doctor for medical. There is another easier option. You say what you described here on 112 and wait for instructions. If you are weaker, try to run away and do the same again. Before that go to the doctor for medical. There is another easier option. You say what you described here on 112 and wait for instructions. If you are weaker, try to run away and do the same again. Before that go to the doctor for medical. There is another easier option. You say what you described here on 112 and wait for instructions.