Hello. A woman of 22 years. I am and have had a serious relationship for 7 years. He's the only one I've slept with. My problem is this: it only happened to me once that I finished. I didn't even feel much pleasure then. That was 3-4 years ago. Then I have had more pleasure and I can't finish. Soon he put it as a problem that I do not like it enough, etc. Sometimes I feel that I will finish, but it ends just then. I love him endlessly and the fact that it was a question that I do not finish and he almost did things that I do not like .. I was very naughty. I am 1,000,000 percent satisfied and I can't describe how top everything in my bed is. I just can't finish. Please give me some advice on what to do to make things work and make my man happy.
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I know it. In women, orgasm is largely a setting. It has happened to me that it was very nice, uniquely satisfying, but I did not finish. It has happened to me that I do not have the same excitement, but I get a happy ending. My friend once told me that he felt bad, that he didn't satisfy me. He really believed in himself a lot, he was ready to be angry with himself and me. I wanted to grab him by the shoulders, shake him, slap him and scream in his face that he was talking nonsense to me and I feel great when we're intimate. I didn't do it. I hugged him, kissed him and explained to him that in some women this is the case and it is not his fault, because he does everything in his power and is not selfish at all. Then I slept with him and finally, when we lay naked in bed, I told him it was great. It really was. I have a high libido and he attracts me, he knows it. We talk about this topic, we try different things. I don't always manage to finish, but I'm always happy and I try to let him know. Try to explain these things to him calmly, without dramas and scandals. He is not who knows what, but he should not worry and feel guilty, given that he is doing things right.