Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years, he loves me very much, he gives everything for me, me too! We have lived so many things together, I would give anything for him, after all he was the first man in my life! During these 3 years we broke up once, because he wanted to ... and after 4 months we got together again, he had realized his mistake! And so for almost 3 years. Everything in our relationship is ok, without sex .. I don't know if the reason is in me or in him, but something doesn't work .. he just can't satisfy me !!! But that doesn't make me love him a little, but I don't know if it's a reason to look away ... Some time ago I started seeing one of my ex-boyfriends, but not alone with him but with other friends! He has a girlfriend of 5 years, but things between them did not go well and later I realized that they separated ... In the meantime, we saw each other as friends, or at least I tried to be like that, because the moment I saw him, everything inside me turned upside down ... but I can't understand what his intentions are for me. I had such a strong passion for him that I was even ready to dump my boyfriend and whatever ... But he behaves strangely - we write to each other on Skype very often - he tells me how he wants to have sex with me in the car, then we see as if nothing has happened, then the same thing on Skype, when we see each other as if he's acting crazy and nothing ..... I don't know if he wants to drive me crazy, but if so he succeeds, because when I don't see him everything is ok and I even forget it, but the moment it appears it all starts anew. Now he seems to have reconciled with his friends again, but we see each other again for a long time ... I can't understand him ...... and I don't know what to do, because I want to be with my friend and everything is fine, but when I see this boy and it is as if another person is born in me, something pulls me towards him ...... I feel a terrible thrill and desire to be with him ... . !!! Give me advice what to do, I do not want to hurt anyone :(
1 psisfcofficial answered
Dear girl, I understand you very well, it's the same with me. I have a friend, but when I see the "other" I go crazy. Well, I made the mistake of giving myself to him and now I love him, not my boyfriend. If you can, it's best to step away from him and it's better that nothing happens between you, you'll go crazy over him even more. My other advice is to grab him boyfriend and leave your current one. Think carefully about what you want. As for the fact that your friend does not satisfy you, talk to him and find a solution to the problem.