Hello, I need help or rather advice! I hope there are no sharp and offensive comments;)! This is what happened to the boy in question, let's call him K. We were together, I loved him very much, but things didn't work out and we finally broke up in August. We hadn't looked for each other until mid-October. We saw each other, talked and started going out again. He soon told me that during this period he slept with a girl they met in Plovdiv, but her family is here in our city, which means that she is here most of the time. It hurt me a lot, even though we weren't together then, it bothered me a lot, because I was his first. I don't know what to do, I know I can't be mad at him, and I don't just remember and disgust him at one point, and now I don't even know if I should trust him, that it happened because he is not such a boy for sex for 1 night and she too, but he bragged on the phone when it happened. I don't even know what I want from you after reading this. It may be childish for some of you, but I really take it very badly. Give me some advice
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Something similar happened to me. I know how much it hurts you and how you keep imagining it over and over again. It is best not to do anything - just leave it to time. Wait. I know how hard it is, but believe me, this is the best thing you can do. After a while (I don't know how many, they were with me for a few months) or you'll forget it, it won't matter to you anymore and it will seem like someone else's life (yes, sometimes you will remember, but it won't hurt like that), or you won't forget it - it will poison your soul every day and then the only thing you can do to not bother is to break up with the boy. Yes, it will be difficult, but it is better than tormenting yourself for life. Good luck, darling