My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and I would say that we have a good relationship, many people are happy and tell us that we are very sweet together. I like being with her and she seems to be saying the same thing, but lately I'm starting to have strong doubts. It all started after she went to the village for two weeks and one night she didn't start writing me suspicious that she was at a party and then invited two boys to sleep with them because they couldn't go home, but nothing happened. It turned out that she slept on the same bed with one, but nothing more. Then it turned out that he told her that he liked her, but again nothing happened, so yes ... We quarreled, but I confided in her that she cut him off. After a while, he started telling me things like why people should be monogamous if we split up whether we will remain friends and the like. I told her, that I do not deal with such nonsense. Here I began to doubt that she was really itching already and wanted to put me on reserve. Last night we were at a party of my friends. Before we left, he just told me how nice I was, how he liked me, and so on. When we went, he behaved as if we didn't know each other and just ran after one of my friends. Then I talked to the company and they think there is something rotten. What would you do in my place? How can I save the relationship and is it worth it? Am I wrong somewhere? Otherwise, in short for me: I'm 22 and she's 19. Medium height, I go to the gym and keep fit, I would say I have an athletic body. I am a programmer by profession, but in my free time I also do photography. In principle, I like a little "nerd" - I like to read various things, lately I'm attracted to philosophy. Overall, I'm a slightly introverted person - I like us the most, I don't like going to discos and I'm rarely the soul of the company, but I can chat with almost anyone and I like going to home parties and concerts / events. Here we are slightly different, she likes to give more, while I am more controlled. I apologize if there are spelling mistakes, it is written on the phone.
1 lida_ridwan17 answered
You're tired and he wants to mess with others. You are the reserve.